YAGT: how long to call

[geckojohn]

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

 

[MBony]

Originally posted by: jumpr
If you feel like calling, then call. Don't play that bullshit game. And dammit, if she lives above you, go visit her or talk to her when you see her in the hallway!

Well put!

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

That is why you tell the girl that you hate mind games...and if she loses interest and loves mind games ...then she wasn't right one for you....

sounds simple enough?

 

[jadinolf]

By the way, when you see her next ask for her ring size and how many kids she wants.

Really gets them.

 

[Mojoed]

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

 

[geckojohn]

Originally posted by: Darthvoy
Do it in three days. By the second day she will a little worried that you haven't called, and it will make her think you are not interested. But, when you call her on the third day, she will be uber happy that you called her -that is if she is really interested in you. She will also see you as bit of a challenge because you didn't seem super urgent to talk to her...hope this helps.

Edit: Didn't see the OP was posted a couple of days ago. Anyways, this rule is universal...

Good call.

 

[Attrox]

Call and ask her to kill spider in your room.

 

[Hammer]

you can begin to stalk her immediately.

 

[Phoenix86]

:spider;

You folks are getting slow.

edit: IM her immediatly.

 

[Attrox]

Originally posted by: Phoenix86
:spider;

You folks are getting slow.

edit: IM her immediatly.

I'm 2 post faster than you at least

 

[Phoenix86]

Originally posted by: Attrox
Call and ask her to kill spider in your room.

DAMN THAT PHONE CALL, IT DELAYED MY POST!!!!!!11!eighty-three

 

[Phoenix86]

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: Phoenix86
:spider;

You folks are getting slow.

edit: IM her immediatly.

I'm 2 post faster than you at least

I know

*sulks in corner*

It still took 1 1/2 pages.

 

[Darthvoy]

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

 

[Attrox]

Originally posted by: Phoenix86

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: Phoenix86
:spider;

You folks are getting slow.

edit: IM her immediatly.

I'm 2 post faster than you at least

I know

*sulks in corner*

It still took 1 1/2 pages.

Yeah I was surprised nobody pulled a spider earlier.
OP mentioned YAGT, call, they live upstairs & downstairs. Spider should be the first response

 

[Mojoed]

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

 

[geckojohn]

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

 

[Mojoed]

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

We finally kinda-sorta agree! I am missing the game. I choose not to play it.

 

[Shame]

You should call and hang up a alot, and at all hours of the night. The ladies love the suspense. Nothing says, "I love you!" like 20 crank calls between 2 and 5am.

 

[Attrox]

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

Bah! Good luck if you want to pursue this kind of girls. They will just drop you in the gutter further down the road when they see another guy who "intrigue" them.

 

[Darthvoy]

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

Bah! Good luck if you want to pursue this kind of girls. They will just drop you in the gutter further down the road when they see another guy who "intrigue" them.

You are missing the point. Of course there are exceptions, but it works in getting the girl you want if you do it right. And, it is not about women playing games with you, it is about you playing with them. Anyways, how would you know if someone isn't right for you unless you actually date them? This is so that you can have her interest and actually have a chance to have a relationship. After that, if you feel she is inadequate for you, you can call it off. Just make sure you do it A.S.A.P efore she gets really interested in you and you end up hurting her.

 

[Attrox]

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

Bah! Good luck if you want to pursue this kind of girls. They will just drop you in the gutter further down the road when they see another guy who "intrigue" them.

You are missing the point. Of course there are exceptions, but it works in getting the girl you want if you do it right. And, it is not about women playing games with you, it is about you playing with them. Anyways, how would you know if someone isn't right for you unless you actually date them? This is so that you can have her interest and actually have a chance to have a relationship. After that, if you feel she is inadequate for you, you can call it off. Just make sure you do it A.S.A.P efore she gets really interested in you and you end up hurting her.

You don't have to play games like this to get her interest. If you must play games before she has any interest in you what will happen later on when you knew each other too well and there are no more surprises? You'll become unamusing, boring and she will just use this as an excuse to leave you. Girls who like to play games are a turn off for me. They are too high maintenance IMO.

 

[geckojohn]

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

Bah! Good luck if you want to pursue this kind of girls. They will just drop you in the gutter further down the road when they see another guy who "intrigue" them.

You are missing the point. Of course there are exceptions, but it works in getting the girl you want if you do it right. And, it is not about women playing games with you, it is about you playing with them. Anyways, how would you know if someone isn't right for you unless you actually date them? This is so that you can have her interest and actually have a chance to have a relationship. After that, if you feel she is inadequate for you, you can call it off. Just make sure you do it A.S.A.P efore she gets really interested in you and you end up hurting her.

You don't have to play games like this to get her interest. If you must play games before she has any interest in you what will happen later on when you knew each other too well and there are no more surprises? You'll become unamusing, boring and she will just use this as an excuse to leave you. Girls who like to play games are a turn off for me. They are too high maintenance IMO.

Wouldn't you rather be the one turning down the girl... instead of the girl dumping j00? Sometimes you just have to play along with the game... because girls like it in the beginning.

 

[Lizabath]

Originally posted by: imthebadguy
3 days

 

[spidey07]

A quick call to setup another date would be perfect. No more, no less.

 

[geckojohn]

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Attrox

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: Mojoed

Originally posted by: geckojohn

Originally posted by: Mojoed
That 3 day rule is stupid. Just call when you want to call. If she freaks and plays mind games because she feels you called too early, then there are other fish in the sea.

It's not a stupid rule.. the reality is that most girls play games at the beginning... and if you dont play games you'll get blown out of the water.

*buzzer sound* MY reality is all that matters to ME. I don't play games at the beginning in order to FILTER out 'most girls'. I don't want 'most girls'. I seek honest, non-game playing women. Believe me, they're out there. If I get 'blown out of the water', I consider it a blessing that I discovered she's not my type early on, instead of several months/years into the relationship.

You obviously know nothing about human nature. You have to be a challenge for women, or at leat appear to be. You have to seem mysterious at first or she'll immediately loose interest. Notice how I said at first. After you gain her initial interest it is all history from there.

I feel sorry for you then. First of all, I'm not after women who consider me a challenge if I wait 3 days to call them. To me, that's just dumb. Your blanket statement above may be valid for some or even most women. My point is, I don't persue women who play games. I'd rather fail 10 times, and get a REAL non-game-playing woman.

I think you're just saying that.. you're missing the game then.

Bah! Good luck if you want to pursue this kind of girls. They will just drop you in the gutter further down the road when they see another guy who "intrigue" them.

You are missing the point. Of course there are exceptions, but it works in getting the girl you want if you do it right. And, it is not about women playing games with you, it is about you playing with them. Anyways, how would you know if someone isn't right for you unless you actually date them? This is so that you can have her interest and actually have a chance to have a relationship. After that, if you feel she is inadequate for you, you can call it off. Just make sure you do it A.S.A.P efore she gets really interested in you and you end up hurting her.

Darthvoy has some pretty good advice. I took it and will call the girl back tomorrow... i'll wait the extra day so that she's uber happy to talk to me. Waiting an extra day doesn't hurt!