YAGT: How does one go about dealing with this dilemma?

Spooner

Lifer
Jan 16, 2000
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Let's see, quick and easy background:

Met this girl at a friend's wedding. We hit it off, and have been out a few times.

Anyhow, so I'm back at her place over the weekend and things get pretty heated............. I don't know exactly what the politically correct way to put this is, so, cut me some slack. How do you tell a girl that she is awful at "going down"? I mean, I've had some better and some worse, but this girl hurts! I'll spare the details as to why it was bad because it would probably lead to an auto-lock, but I'm kind of left in a dilemma I've never been in before... :confused:

It is one thing to ask advice on how to tell a girl to get lost, it is another thing to ask for advice on how to tell her she needs to work on taking the chrome off a trailer hitch. This is something best discussed with her, and not on a public forum.

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conjur

No Lifer
Jun 7, 2001
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I see a lock coming anyway ;)

But...succinctly offer up some suggestions. Either that or scream out in pain. I think she'll get the hint!
 

Ronstang

Lifer
Jul 8, 2000
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Stop being a damn pussy and tell her she is hurting you.....geesh. She will appreciate the input and you can help her to do what you like....and ask her to tell you what she likes/dislikes so you can please her as well.