If I looked down on them, why would I date themOriginally posted by: BooGiMaN
hey i got an idea...why not move to a place where peopel make the same or more than you...oh right..then you cant look down on people to make yourself fell better...
Originally posted by: EGGO
I think you should watch Coming to America.
Good Advice :beer:Originally posted by: magomago
Date women from other places?
Although to be honest...I don't like the idea of excluding people based on their income; just give it a whirl. I wouldn't go out of my way to HIDE everything, but I would appear humble. IT should be fairly easy if a women wants to take advantage of you due to monetary reasons and you shouldn't have a problem spotting it. Once they do - drop them.
Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
hey i got an idea...why not move to a place where peopel make the same or more than you...oh right..then you cant look down on people to make yourself fell better...
Originally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
Canadian institutions are not as forgiving with debt levels.Originally posted by: DCFife
Just so you know, people who make minimum wage have 42" plasmas, new computers, and new cars. If you never told anybody how much you make, they'd just figure you're like everyone else and you owe your life to the finance industry.Originally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
Originally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
Thanks for the boldedOriginally posted by: Perknose
I have seen you make quite a number of intelligent and perceptive posts on P&N.
This is not one of them.
For advice I'm tempted to tell you to rush home each day from work in your shiny new Cavalier, lock your front door behind you, and hug your 42 incher in a fetal position while repeatedly making a mental inventory of all your tres cool posessions until blessed sleep overtakes you . . . but I'm quite above such an obvious cheap shot.![]()
I know that.Originally posted by: BarneyFife
LOL!! The money effect. You don't even make that much money.
Originally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
Originally posted by: EKKC
Originally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
i make 100k and i only recently spent 2k couch, a 45" plasma and a XPS computer i bought for cheap. other than that i have nothing you listed. with the mortgage and everything i spend the rest and either put into savings or invest into stocks. i have no other way of showing it
that's the difference for ya, i live in NYC100k is nothing
Yeah...here I can bank (ie. save after all expenses) $2k a month; it's dirt cheap to live here.Originally posted by: EKKC
i make 100k and i only recently spent 2k couch, a 45" plasma and a XPS computer i bought for cheap. other than that i have nothing you listed. with the mortgage and everything i spend the rest and either put into savings or invest into stocks. i have no other way of showing itOriginally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
that's the difference for ya, i live in NYC100k is nothing
Originally posted by: halik
Originally posted by: EKKC
Originally posted by: Stunt
I don't tell them what I make...Originally posted by: spidey07
WTH would you ever tell a woman what you make?
That's just asking for trouble. Plus it's rude.
It's obvious that I'm well off with $5k living room furniture, 42" plasma, new computer, new car, nice diningroom and bedroom set.
It's actually quite hard to hide what I make...
The average income here is $30k per person (not household), I'm at $62k and likely will be at high 60's in Feb.
I like to pat myself on the back sometimes and this results in an obvious sign of wealth in a poorer community.
i make 100k and i only recently spent 2k couch, a 45" plasma and a XPS computer i bought for cheap. other than that i have nothing you listed. with the mortgage and everything i spend the rest and either put into savings or invest into stocks. i have no other way of showing it
that's the difference for ya, i live in NYC100k is nothing
jersey ftw.... my rent is 750 a mo![]()
Excellent PointsOriginally posted by: yowolabi
You don't need to worry about hiding anything. You just need to learn to be a discerning judge of character. If you spend enough time with a woman and ask the right questions, you'll soon find out if she is a golddigger. Until you spend that time with her, don't have unprotected sex. If you're really worried, don't have sex at all until you're sure of her.
But beyond discerning her personality, like you would be wise to do no matter how much you make, you're fine. Having more money will make you more attractive to any girl, and that's okay. What you need to worry about are the girls that like you only because of your money.
One other thing. Don't take a girl to the most expensive restaurants and expensive places, or buy her lavish gifts while you're just getting to know her. If you flaunt your money like that, you can expect to attract gold diggers. The early dates should be pretty cheap and should focus on getting to know her.
Originally posted by: Stunt
I know that.Originally posted by: BarneyFife
LOL!! The money effect. You don't even make that much money.
But for a guy my age (23) and relative to those i date...there's a huge difference.
Should I hide or shouldn't I hide...clear question.
