yagt: hitting on someone who's trying to be set up?

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slackerinabox

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I was hanging out with some people last night and my pal's friend came along, a lovely girl I thought was charming and pretty. We started dancing and got chummy but I pulled back because my friend was trying to set that girl up with another friend of hers. The cute girl in question thanked me for picking the venue and said that she has never had that much fun in new york, so I was going to invite her out privately - but didn't, because I didn't want to be a c. block and ruin the set up. But should I have? Should I just not care?

Pics for people who always call shens on me.. it's annoying, i don't lie...

the cute friend of a friend in question (the dude is gay)

the group from the night, including me very drunk
I think we're pulling each other's hair.. i don't remember this happening
 
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Aquaman

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Man........ in the third picture........ did you have to show you pit hair:Q :confused: ;)

Cheers,
Aquaman
 
ColdFusion718

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Do you know the other guy? Do you have any loyalties towards him? If you don't know him, you don't owe him squat. She can go out with the both of you and decide for herself. May the best man win. Simple.
 
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cheapgoose

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So I'm assuming you are saying if you wanted to, you can have her? Because she said she had a good time?

Personally I don't think you have any problems meeting/getting girls. All these YAGT threads are just a way to brag about meeting them. Only on a Tech forum I guess.

Now if you're serious about your question, I would've gone for it. I don't see how it's c.block. I don't see a problem, unless you have bad intentions, which I don't think you do. That might piss off the friend.
 
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slackerinabox

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Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Do you know the other guy? Do you have any loyalties towards him? If you don't know him, you don't owe him squat. She can go out with the both of you and decide for herself. May the best man win. Simple.
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he's a good friend of my friend/roommate
 
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slackerinabox

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Originally posted by: Aquaman
Man........ in the third picture........ did you have to show you pit hair:Q :confused: ;)

Cheers,
Aquaman
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you know, after seeing the pics I was really thinking about shaving - i hate chest hair showing.
 
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yowolabi

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Do you know the other guy? Do you have any loyalties towards him? If you don't know him, you don't owe him squat. She can go out with the both of you and decide for herself. May the best man win. Simple.
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he's a good friend of my friend/roommate
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Did he ask specifically to be set up with this girl? Has the girl definitely shown interest in him? If the answer is no to either question, I agree with ColdFusion718. I might agree even if both answers are "yes". If she chooses you over him, you don't owe him anything. You can't put a "claim" on a girl you're not currently already dating. If it was your good friend or roommate, I might say you should stay away just to avoid conflict, but a friend of a roommate.... I don't see a problem.
 
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slackerinabox

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Originally posted by: yowolabi
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Do you know the other guy? Do you have any loyalties towards him? If you don't know him, you don't owe him squat. She can go out with the both of you and decide for herself. May the best man win. Simple.
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he's a good friend of my friend/roommate
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Did he ask specifically to be set up with this girl? Has the girl definitely shown interest in him? If the answer is no to either question, I agree with ColdFusion718. I might agree even if both answers are "yes". If she chooses you over him, you don't owe him anything. You can't put a "claim" on a girl you're not currently already dating. If it was your good friend or roommate, I might say you should stay away just to avoid conflict, but a friend of a roommate.... I don't see a problem.
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No, my pal was trying to set them up and it seems to be a slow process but it's unknown to both parties (she's having them be in the room together alot sorta deal). He's a really good guy and I like him, but I think the cute girl in questions finds him attractive yet kinda boring. I can't really tell but I wanted to invite her out after she told me she had a great time, that's when I Shouldn't have held back I guess.
 
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