YAGT: Help!!

bootymac

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Ok..I'm stumped here and need a little help:

Recently, my really close friend has been really moody and b*tchy. My first assumption was that it was her "time of the month". But just recently, I have found out that she had a big fight with one of her friends. I tried to consult with her but she just walks off leaving me there. This surprised me because she doesn't act like this very often, so I asked around and found out that I was not the only one getting "blown off". Some of her friends were treated the same was as I. I've tried talking to her numerous times, but to no avail. Her and I have a strong relationship, so I'm really uncomfortable with what's going on. It's been 3 days and I'm getting worried..

What should I do? Maybe I should let her calm down first before I do anything else? Or am I just over reacting..

Any help appreciated, and if you need to know anything else, feel free to ask.
 

CraigRT

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SO gay. I can't stand girls that pull that crap... something other than pure ignorance would be nice.. honestly.
 

Argo

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Honestly, no woman except your wife or immediate family is worth that. Just forget about her and move on.
 

MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: bootymac
Ok..I'm stumped here and need a little help:

Recently, my really close friend has been really moody and b*tchy. My first assumption was that it was her "time of the month". But just recently, I have found out that she had a big fight with one of her friends. I tried to consult with her but she just walks off leaving me there. This surprised me because she doesn't act like this very often, so I asked around and found out that I was not the only one getting "blown off". Some of her friends were treated the same was as I. I've tried talking to her numerous times, but to no avail. Her and I have a strong relationship, so I'm really uncomfortable with what's going on. It's been 3 days and I'm getting worried..

What should I do? Maybe I should let her calm down first before I do anything else? Or am I just over reacting..

Any help appreciated, and if you need to know anything else, feel free to ask.



just in case you decide to edit ;)
 

CraigRT

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Jun 16, 2000
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Originally posted by: Argo
Honestly, no woman except your wife or immediate family is worth that. Just forget about her and move on.

I would have to (for the most part) agree.. that's a load of crap... a so-called friend doesn't treat other friends like that without giving a reason.. had this happen to me too many times. wait a few days at most.. if she still won't talk to you.. tell her to get bent. (sadly i know about this type of situtation too well and it was my reason for turning to ragey music.. :))
 

wnied

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Second of all: just give her some space, stop annoying her

Go on with your life Shakepeare, stop seeking drama where it isnt and you'll still find your fill of it.

~wnied~

 

AreaCode707

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Same as any friend who didn't want to talk about something that's none of your business, you offer your help and friendship and then leave her alone about it.
 

Sundog

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Originally posted by: eakers
My first assumption was that it was her "time of the month
just like a man!

second of all: just give her some space, stop annoying her.

Well if women would stop using it as an excuse, then maybe all the men wouldn't just assume it right off the bat......
rolleye.gif
 

MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: Sundog
Originally posted by: eakers
My first assumption was that it was her "time of the month
just like a man!

second of all: just give her some space, stop annoying her.

Well if women would stop using it as an excuse, then maybe all the men wouldn't just assume it right off the bat......
rolleye.gif

very well put


this one girl at school says she has the worst cramps ever and she has all these pills, so she is purposely a biznatch for a whole week...and if you watch her when she thinks no one is looking or listen in on her conversations, she is OBVIOUSLY faking it