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bubbadu

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I haven't posted one of these in a while, but I figured I might as well now that school is going to start back up in a couple of weeks...

Girl 1 Thread Things are pretty good with her, at one point I thought she was losing interest in me, but during the end of the semester, I thought she show a lot more interest. For the break, she went back to NY visiting her mom, so I haven't talked to her in about 3 weeks. We are going to take another programming class together, but I think the whole, " I am really stupid with computers and programmimng" thing was a ploy, because she got a better grade in the class than I did! :p I am going to continue to work with her, and hopefully we can develop something... Just wanted to post that I am slowing moving out of the friend zone.
Pic(Not the best picture, shes the one on the left)

Girl 2Old Thread You guys might remember this thread back from last year.. One of my main reasons for changing schools was to be near this girl, and over course everything went bad once I transfered... everything was going fine, then something happened in her life... I never really knew what it was until just recently. Turned out that she had a huge crush on some guy and I was just something temporary. Well today I found out from a friend that that pretty much completely fizzed out. At this point, I am trying to decide if its even worth talking to her if we end up in the same classes or even bump into each other. Sure its been a hell of a long time, but I think that might have been the reason she has been not paying attention to me in past, and now that shes done with him, I think I might be able to get back together. Pic

I really don't know what to do if both of these girls come back into my life, and I was just looking for advice. My guy says to stay away from girl 2, but I am afraid if that it doesn't work out with girl 1, I would be throwing out something that once was really good. Thanks for listening to me rant for a little bit :)
 
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Pokey007

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pic 2 is better, but I've known quite a few hot but very crazy girls. Pic the girl you like best.
 
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Sid59

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what the hell .. i remember those threads. awesome.

just see both of them and never bring up being serious.

if that fails ..

invite both to your house .. and make them pillow fight in bra/underwear .. winner takes the spoils.
 
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bubbadu

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Originally posted by: Sid59
what the hell .. i remember those threads. awesome.

just see both of them and never bring up being serious.

if that fails ..

invite both to your house .. and make them pillow fight in bra/underwear .. winner takes the spoils.
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I know that I will defintly be seeing alot of girl1.... if I have a class or run into girl2, I will see if she wants to get back together, because shes too good to pass up.
 
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bubbadu

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Originally posted by: tantos
One of my main reasons for changing schools was to be near this girl
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That is pathetic man!
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Well that wasn't the ONLY reason... but I figured it would be easier to be back home and it has been. It just worked out that I needed to transfer schools anyway and she was going to be starting school then. When our relationship stoped, luckly girl1 came around and we hit it off, so it worked out in the end.
 
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Originally posted by: bubbadu
Originally posted by: Sid59
what the hell .. i remember those threads. awesome.

just see both of them and never bring up being serious.

if that fails ..

invite both to your house .. and make them pillow fight in bra/underwear .. winner takes the spoils.
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I know that I will defintly be seeing alot of girl1.... if I have a class or run into girl2, I will see if she wants to get back together, because shes too good to pass up.
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You were second string for #2, don't even give her the time of day. She will use you again.
 
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Kadarin

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Originally posted by: CaseTragedy
solution:
1) date girl 1.
2) bone girl 2.
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I agree. Given what you have written down for girl #2, you'd have to be a fvcking idiot to consider anything serious with her.
 
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arcenite

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Pic 2 is hott... But remember, her looks only matter for the first few months... after that, if you made the wrong decision, she'll drive you crazy.

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Actaeon

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I didn't read the thread you linked to, its too long, i only skimmed through it, so I'll post what I read on here.

Girl 2 looks better than Girl 1.

If you are just "friends" with girl 1, you are pretty screwed. It is pretty hard to move out of the "friend zone", espically if thats all they wanted to be in the first place. But, I could be completely wrong, I didn't read most of the first thread, and even though, friends to dating is generally slim, there are plenty of "successes" from the friends zone to a relationship. I have been in a couple.

Secondly, Girl 2 sounds like a bad choice just by the way she screwed you over, I wouldn't even consider her again. Imagine you did develop feelings for that girl, and you were only temporary in her life. She moved on, and you would be pretty bummed out about it. Avoid her at all costs.

Summarizing the whole ordeal, I'd say, stay focused on Girl1, she seems to be a better choice by moral value (even though I don't know her, easy to tell, other girl was just F'd in the head), interests (same classes/majors), shes a geek, (programming) and she is decent looking.
 
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bubbadu

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Originally posted by: Actaeon
I didn't read the thread you linked to, its too long, i only skimmed through it, so I'll post what I read on here.

Girl 2 looks better than Girl 1.

If you are just "friends" with girl 1, you are pretty screwed. It is pretty hard to move out of the "friend zone", espically if thats all they wanted to be in the first place. But, I could be completely wrong, I didn't read most of the first thread, and even though, friends to dating is generally slim, there are plenty of "successes" from the friends zone to a relationship. I have been in a couple.

Secondly, Girl 2 sounds like a bad choice just by the way she screwed you over, I wouldn't even consider her again. Imagine you did develop feelings for that girl, and you were only temporary in her life. She moved on, and you would be pretty bummed out about it. Avoid her at all costs.

Summarizing the whole ordeal, I'd say, stay focused on Girl1, she seems to be a better choice by moral value (even though I don't know her, easy to tell, other girl was just F'd in the head), interests (same classes/majors), shes a geek, (programming) and she is decent looking.
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Good advice :) I thought I had a really good shot with her in the begining of the sememster, but than I thought she wasn't feeling me and I sort of backed off with Girl1. Right at the end of the semester, I things changed for the better. Shes really good looking in real life though, that picture is just some random party, and trust me, shes alot hotter in person :p Thanks for the tip though :)

 
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