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yagt: hard situation, any advice would be highly appreciated.

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Zaitsevs

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so yeah edit today.

we broke up just a bit ago.

I just need time and I was hoping atot could cheer me up a bit.
 
Originally posted by: Pablo
Usually when you have really strong emotional attachments at your age it means your gay.

Go ahead and experiment.
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:shocked: I can't believe I'm laughing so hard at this.

OP: Let it cool until she's 16. Then meet the parents and see if spending more time together is good or bad. Right now you might just feel so strongly because you can't have a relationship.
 
later in life you will realize, that six months is not a long time to wait.

and if you are having such a hard time getting along now, why even bother? Out of the eleventy billion available women, you choose one that you don't get along with well?
 
Originally posted by: Pablo
Usually when you have really strong emotional attachments at your age it means your gay.

Go ahead and experiment.
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I agree with this. there's nothing wrong with it, either.
 
I didn't say we don't get along, we just had some indifferences early on. probably has nothing to do with this or how it will turn out.

I just was trying to get all details that I could think of.
 
Originally posted by: Zaitsevs
I'm not ready to let her go, and I can't imagine myself without her. But ' I'm young'.
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First "GF?"

Things aren't as serious as you think they are, you're just infatuated with her. Go nail some freshmen girls and get over it. 😛
 
Originally posted by: huberm
later in life you will realize, that six months is not a long time to wait.

and if you are having such a hard time getting along now, why even bother? Out of the eleventy billion available women, you choose one that you don't get along with well?
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yeah 6 months aint bad.. hell, i only see my g/f once a month right now
 
not being a bigot or anything (and I've been there, so speak from experience)

in general, if she's Muslim, you're in for some hard times.
if you really like her, and think you are mature enough to make that decision,and accept the above... then go ahead
 
Look the , advice that I can give you is that most probably her dad is a Muslim, and that doesn't seem to be a big problem since he is saying that he is ok with her dating once she is 16, now if you think this might go somewhere you have to know that if her dad is a Muslim, he would appreciate it greatly that you talk with him before you make any other move. If he doesn't want his daughter to date until she is 16, I would suggest you stop seeing her until then.

Be a straight forward man, don't be afraid, go pay him a visit after she is 16 and have a man to man talk with him and be upfront honest.

Make sure you show respect and that you make it clear to her dad that there are no bad intentions in there and that you want to get to know his daughter better THAT'S ALL, if he believes you , you shouldn't have a problem and he might even feel good about it.

HOWEVER with a Muslim girl learn to keep your WANG behind the zipper or you are in for a sht load of trouble, for Muslims being allowed to date != being allowed to have pre-marital sexual relationships. Just keep that in mind.

Now if her dad is not relegious then the whole situation becomes much less complex for you, be careful and good luck for the both of you, BUT DO REALIZE HOW YOUNG YOU ARE AND HOW MUCH OF A LONG PATH YOU HAVE AHEAD OF YOU, but what the hell if that can make you happy for the moment go for it.

Good Luck :thumbsup:
 
OP

I am not going to belittle your experiences because you are still in high school. I remember going through emotional hell over a couple of girls when I was that age.

The trick is not to do anything stupid because in the long run everything works out for the best. There are a lot of girls out there who are waiting to meet you.
 
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