YAGT : Girls and Weddings

[Drakkon]

So this friend of mine (not really a girlfriend but kinda would like her to be maybe) has a friend that is getting married and has invited me to attend with her. Now I've been to weddings before, but usually been family and not friends, and never with a girl. I've heard this can be a tricky situation, girls can get emotional, clingy, etc. which i wouldn't have to much of a problem with i guess
Does a girl asking a guy to a wedding however imply anything? I'm not sure what the standards of the situation call for. Do i play like pseudo-boyfriend?

 

[minendo]

It implies that she does not want to go alone.

 

[Fiveohhh]

I've been to a wedding with a girl that wasn't my GF no biggie

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: minendo
It implies that she does not want to go alone.

LOL.

 

[eakers]

Originally posted by: minendo
It implies that she does not want to go alone.

yup.
go, hit the bar and have fun.

 

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: minendo
It implies that she does not want to go alone.

hahaha.

oh and get really drunk off the free booze and embarass her. :beer:

 

[Modeps]

have a blast mate, and if something happens due to alcohol, just go with the flow.

 

[Bootprint]

Originally posted by: eakers

Originally posted by: minendo
It implies that she does not want to go alone.

yup.
go, hit the bar and have fun.

But are you allowed to hit up other women, like say that sexy one in the white dress with that clingy guy.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: minendo
It implies that she does not want to go alone.

or with the 325 pound,acne ridden 3rd cousin her family is trying to pair her up with

 

[Perknose]

Originally posted by: minendo
It implies that she does not want to go alone.

It's also explicit that she does want to go with you.

So . . . you kinda' like her? Seems like she "kinda' likes" you. Explore the situation, without heavy expectations. Nobody likes heavy expectations.

 

[alkemyst]

well you could be the 'friend' escort where she wants to be able to meet people but doesn't want to get set up with anyone by interfering relatives or she could very well be interested and using this to set up the initial date...inviting someone to a wedding is also an easy way to get out of the situation should you embarrass yourself....the possibilities are endless.

It's a hard call, you are going to have to see where it goes.

I would not read anything into it at all.

Å

 

[WinkOsmosis]

It means she wants to marry you. You should be aggressive and propose before you get in the friends zone.

 

[Ranger X]

It means nothing other than that she doesn't hate a boyfriend to go to the wedding with. It would be more pathetic to go alone than to bring a friend so I wouldn't get your hopes up just yet.

 

[KarenMarie]

hope for the best and expect the worst.

 

[labrat25]

at the very least she thinks you're decent enough to be seen with in public

while you're not "in" yet.. it can be a start

 

[flot]

Honestly? I can't even tell you how easy it is to score after a wedding.

I guess it's like trying to talk a guy into building something stupid after a trip to home depot. It all just makes sense.