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YAGT: Girl offers to pay for dinner do you...

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AccruedExpenditure

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Say you go out with a girl for an evening on the town (first or second date). The bill comes and she offers to pay... What do you do? Mind you this is still in the "getting to know you stages" so to speak...

This has come up for me three times in the last month with different girls, so far i've let them all of them pay... What do you do?

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A lot of your are saying that if the girl is a 8, 9, or 10, you'd should I be more compelled to pay? That doesn't make ANY sense at all..
 
i'd let her pay, but tell her that i'll get the next one, IF she was worth another date!

but depending on the feel of the moment, i might pay, like if she isn't adament about paying
 
[mandatory] Insist to pay and then say "you can pay me back tonight" with a nudge and a wink. [/mandatory]
 
Rule #1: Keep your spending cost to a minimal, so obviously Let her pay the bill.
This does not make you cheap, this makes you smart.
You don't need to pay to get some. Otherwise we're looking at prostitutes.

danny~!
 
Originally posted by: ggnl
I'd let them pay. There's nothing worng with it IMO.
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But this might set up an expectation that she's going to want "something in return"..

Oh, wait... 😛
 
I suppose if she offers to pay, it's a sign she's interested. If she wasn't interested, she'd just let you pay and walk away.

So, this means that you're pretty much set for a second date, so letting her pay and saying you'll get the next one is kind of a shoe in for a next date. Good idea in my opinion.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: ggnl
I'd let them pay. There's nothing worng with it IMO.
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But this might set up an expectation that she's going to want "something in return"..

Oh, wait... 😛
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Is there any other reason why two people are going out in the first place? So with that in mind, let her use HER money!
 
Originally posted by: Sex Smurf
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: ggnl
I'd let them pay. There's nothing worng with it IMO.
Click to expand...

But this might set up an expectation that she's going to want "something in return"..

Oh, wait... 😛
Click to expand...

Is there any other reason why two people are going out in the first place? So with that in mind, let her use HER money!
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I like the way you think! :thumbsup:😀
 
i would personally go dutch, if you are only starting to date.
but it is possible to do the "i'll pay next time" if you want to see her again.

if you try the "slip money in her purse" routine, she will most likely not know you did it, and will assume she just found some extra money.


what happened with the previous 3 girls? was it because you let them pay ??? ha.
 
If you asked her out and wants to pay the entire tab, say that you'll take care of it. If she insists, tell her you can go dutch; there's no way she should be paying if you asked her out.

If she asked you out and wants to pay the entire tab, offer to go dutch. If she insists, let her pay.
 
Women don't buy me lunch/dinner/etc. I either pay for both of us, or we're Dutch.

I offer to pay no less than three time. If she doesn't want, we split it and nothing more is said of it.
 
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