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YAGT: GF just told me that we are on a break

pmoa

pmoa

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1. She said she needed time to figure out her life
2. she is in shanghai doing an internship.
3. asked her if she would be faithful to me while on our break for another month

4. she said she'll do her best
5. when i tried to break up with her..she begged me to stay
6. she must be crazy!

I am 26 and she is 21 I work full time at Northrop Grumman and she has 1 year of school left in a five year program at syracuse university. We have been together for 3 years.

*UPDATE*
I called her and broke it off for good...she started to cry and i was like...GOODBYE..
 
Or maybe she just needs time to figure stuff out?

Since oyu gave almost no detail on ages, stage in life, living situations etc, I can only have a vague guess.
If she's in Shanghai to do an internships I would assume she's having a vastly different life experience to anything she's gone through before, and hence she's suddenly found she doesn't know where she is in life, and maybe isn't happy with what she's doing, so she wants to re evaluate everything and work out where she's heading.
 
if this chick really loved you...etc...

she wouldn't say this to you...


you really should drop her.....it gives you to do the single thing (which is hella fun)
 
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Yep, she's using it as a 'Get out of jail free card' to bone a guy she has already met (and had).

DROP IT LIKE IT'S HOT!
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i know for a fact she isnt because i was her first...she gets too emaotionally attached to guys so she wont do it.
 
Originally posted by: pmoa
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Yep, she's using it as a 'Get out of jail free card' to bone a guy she has already met (and had).

DROP IT LIKE IT'S HOT!
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i know for a fact she isnt because i was her first...she gets too emaotionally attached to guys so she wont do it.
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OK...
 
My opinion of this situation:

She wants to be on a "break", because she's hoping that you will screw someone and then she can dump you. This way she can use that as her excuse, rather than that she is getting tired of you.


: ) Amanda
 
Originally posted by: ohtwell
My opinion of this situation:

She wants to be on a "break", because she's hoping that you will screw someone and then she can dump you. This way she can use that as her excuse, rather than that she is getting tired of you.


: ) Amanda
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she actually said that if you meet someone its ok, but she said that she knew that if she wanted to come back to me and i was not there it was her loss
 
Originally posted by: pmoa
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Yep, she's using it as a 'Get out of jail free card' to bone a guy she has already met (and had).

DROP IT LIKE IT'S HOT!
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i know for a fact she isnt because i was her first...she gets too emaotionally attached to guys so she wont do it.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


ummm...



HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


Sorry but...



HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 
"i know for a fact she isnt because i was her first...she gets too emaotionally attached to guys so she wont do it. "

that's a good one, maybe when you reliaze the truth you won't be so naive. kids these days... sigh
 
Originally posted by: pmoa

she actually said that if you meet someone its ok, but she said that she knew that if she wanted to come back to me and i was not there it was her loss
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I find it odd that she said that, in a way. It doesn't seem like something someone in a 3 year relationship would say. Especially since the break is only for a month. What does she expect you to do, meet a girl and fall for her in less than a month, while having your relationship in the back of your mind. Sounds more like encouragment than just understanding.

Oh, and I love how it was her decision to be on break. Rather than trying to talk things over with you she just decided that you guys were taking a break. What a great girl!


: ) Amanda
 
IMO She is actively looking for someone she thinks is better than you but she doesn't have a lot of confidence that will happen so she's attempting to secure you as a backup (ie tell her after about a week that she had a fantastic idea and it's really been positive for you and you've had the courage to explore new options you didn't think to do before -- you'll see she wants to get off that break ASAP)
 
Originally posted by: Pepsei
dump her, she found someone new.

shanghai? good dumplings there...
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You - the "will do the best she can" indicates she is either already with someone, or has plans to..

Sorry.. 🙁
 
Originally posted by: pmoa
1. She said she needed time to figure out her life
2. she is in shanghai doing an internship.
3. asked her if she would be faithful to me while on our break for another month

4. she said she'll do her best
5. when i tried to break up with her..she begged me to stay
6. she must be crazy!

I am 26 and she is 21 I work full time at Northrop Grumman and she has 1 year of school left in a five year program at syracuse university. We have been together for 3 years.
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go out and have fun in 'CUSE!!!!
sounds like you both need to take a break, and a break doesn't mean you sit home waiting for the break to be over.

how in the heLL does she say "she will try her best" and be faithful? :roll:

i say go out, and try your best to get some action. :thumbsup:

 
Originally posted by: pmoa
1. She said she needed time to figure out her life
2. she is in shanghai doing an internship.
3. asked her if she would be faithful to me while on our break for another month

4. she said she'll do her best
5. when i tried to break up with her..she begged me to stay
6. she must be crazy!

I am 26 and she is 21 I work full time at Northrop Grumman and she has 1 year of school left in a five year program at syracuse university. We have been together for 3 years.
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Consequent question:
wtf did i do *cliffs*
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Maybe not understanding her to the extent of having to pose this question on a public forum--and in spite of being with her for *gasp* 3 years. Then again, time flies, so I guess 3 years could pass by, seem like much in numbers but insignificant in knowing someone. :/
 
how in the heLL does she say "she will try her best" and be faithful?
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exactly!!! either you are faithful or you are not. "trying" means that she WILL entertain the idea of banging someone else.

That's like guys promsing they won't squirt inside. yeah right.
 
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