Okay, what do you guys usually do when you get stood up? I've been stood up 2 times in my life. It recently happend this saturday. The first time, I got upset at the girl and refused to talk to her. She ruined my night -- I could of been hanging with friends, but instead I stayed home waiting for her to call.
This second time, I didn't stay home waiting for the girl to call (smart heh ;-P). Instead, my friend had a party and I just left for the party. I kinda expected this girl to call sometime throughout the evening but she didn't.
Yesterday (sunday), I called her up and got her voice message. I called her rude and impolite. I'm not really expecting a reply. However, what would most people do in this situation? I'm inclided to not even call.
A little information about this girl. We've went on couple dates already -- a dinner and a play. We've talked on the phone a couple of times (arround 35-45minutes each time). She's arround 25. She's not extremely good looking (6.5/10... but skinny, hence -- whats up with the attitude???) We use to work together - arround a month. I started hitting on her when I left for another position. She works in IT as do I. She's Greek and very independent. One time she quit her job out of the blue after telling her boss off (which I find attractive
In any case, would like to know what people usually do when they get stood up like this. I was going to not call at all, but I thought maybe that could be rude on my part; I'm not quite sure. Besides another girl on my softball team told me that I should be more persistent if I want to stand any chance with getting together with a girl. That was how her boyfriend "woo-ed" her. Like I say, I'm inclide when a girl doesn't call when she says she's going to, I'm inclinded to not "give a shiet".. but that could be a bad attitude
Replies from people in relationships would be appreciated. Fyi, I'm 30 and have had long term relationships before.. its just weird when a girl just doesn't call when they should and I don't know the correct protocol for this..
-Eleison
This second time, I didn't stay home waiting for the girl to call (smart heh ;-P). Instead, my friend had a party and I just left for the party. I kinda expected this girl to call sometime throughout the evening but she didn't.
Yesterday (sunday), I called her up and got her voice message. I called her rude and impolite. I'm not really expecting a reply. However, what would most people do in this situation? I'm inclided to not even call.
A little information about this girl. We've went on couple dates already -- a dinner and a play. We've talked on the phone a couple of times (arround 35-45minutes each time). She's arround 25. She's not extremely good looking (6.5/10... but skinny, hence -- whats up with the attitude???) We use to work together - arround a month. I started hitting on her when I left for another position. She works in IT as do I. She's Greek and very independent. One time she quit her job out of the blue after telling her boss off (which I find attractive
In any case, would like to know what people usually do when they get stood up like this. I was going to not call at all, but I thought maybe that could be rude on my part; I'm not quite sure. Besides another girl on my softball team told me that I should be more persistent if I want to stand any chance with getting together with a girl. That was how her boyfriend "woo-ed" her. Like I say, I'm inclide when a girl doesn't call when she says she's going to, I'm inclinded to not "give a shiet".. but that could be a bad attitude
Replies from people in relationships would be appreciated. Fyi, I'm 30 and have had long term relationships before.. its just weird when a girl just doesn't call when they should and I don't know the correct protocol for this..
-Eleison
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