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YAGT: Fourth date......

Triforceofcourage

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Here is a little backstory for you.
First date - lunch and a hug afterwards.
Second date - Dinner, minigolf, beach at night, kiss goodnight.
Third date - Dinner, movie at my house, then some serious making out and groping.

I am going to ask her out for Friday night. I am going to take her to see Borat to the 8:00 show. The movie will end around 10:00 and I will take her back to her house. This will be early enough to where I think she would invite me in.

Do I have to take her out to dinner also? Would it look odd if I just ask her to a movie and not dinner? I would rather just do the movie.

I just hate going to dinner before a movie because I can never time it right. Either we are way to early or we have to rush through dinner to make it on time.

Triforce
 

IMaN00BieGF

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If you take her out to dinner you can get to know her better. She'll be happy to see that your interested in her and not just making out with her in the movie theater. That's if you are interested in HER and not just groping her.
 

theknight571

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Why would you rather just do the movie? So you don't have to pay for dinner?

Dinner and a movie... they just go together. :)
 

jdini76

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just say" lets go see borat on Friday". She should understand no dinner.
 

oznerol

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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Here is a little backstory for you.
First date - lunch and a hug afterwards.
Second date - Dinner, minigolf, beach at night, kiss goodnight.
Third date - Dinner, movie at my house, then some serious making out and groping.

I am going to ask her out for Friday night. I am going to take her to see Borat to the 8:00 show. The movie will end around 10:00 and I will take her back to her house. This will be early enough to where I think she would invite me in.

Do I have to take her out to dinner also? Would it look odd if I just ask her to a movie and not dinner? I would rather just do the movie.

Triforce

Yes, fourth date requires fourth meal.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: IMaN00BieGF
If you take her out to dinner you can get to know her better. She'll be happy to see that your interested in her and not just making out with her in the movie theater. That's if you are interested in HER and not just groping her.

I just hate going to dinner before a movie because I can never time it right. Either we are way to early or we have to rush through dinner to make it on time.
 
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Just break up with her and get it over with. You're doomed from the start, you might as well let someone who can put her to good use have a swing at her. ;)
 

theknight571

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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: IMaN00BieGF
If you take her out to dinner you can get to know her better. She'll be happy to see that your interested in her and not just making out with her in the movie theater. That's if you are interested in HER and not just groping her.

I just hate going to dinner before a movie because I can never time it right. Either we are way to early or we have to rush through dinner to make it on time.

Have a late dinner then.

Movie then dinner.

I agree though... no "dinner" makes it look too obvious that you're just trying to get some sumptin sumptin.
 

jlbenedict

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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Just break up with her and get it over with. You're doomed from the start, you might as well let someone who can put her to good use have a swing at her. ;)

Best response yet.

As I've said before, if you have to come to ATOT for "girl" advice, then you are doomed for failure and should give it up altogether!
 

interchange

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Do you know how to cook? Otherwise picking something quick up after dinner usually works...and requires a place to eat it...
 

slsmnaz

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Next triforce YAGT: She called me cheap for not having dinner first and left...
 

Riverhound777

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Wow you people like wasting money on women... wish I had that much money to spend. And its also funny how many of you think you NEED to take a girl to dinner for her to like you. Women are supposed to like being with you, it shouldn't matter what you are doing. If they are that shallow (which very few really care about how much you spend on them), then you are with the wrong girl. Why not just take her for a walk, or to something near the movie theater to chat if it is too cold. She should enjoy your company, not your money...
 

rgwalt

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Originally posted by: theknight571
How bout this:

Ice Cream and a Movie ?

Not a bad idea... Still, I would do dinner. Make reservations or do a call ahead for 6:15pm and pick her up at 6pm. This should give you enough time for dinner and then to get to the movies, park, get tickets, and get seated. Also, are you sure you want to take her to see Borat? Will she know what/who Borat is, and will she appreciate the humor?

If you stay the night, offer to take her to breakfast, but then go home afterwards unless she suggests that you spend the day together. Get out of each other's hair.

R
 

Triforceofcourage

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I watched 40 year old virgin with her last weekend and she seemed to enjoy it so I think Borat will be ok. It seems like no places here take reservations so it makes things difficult. I called up a few places and they said they don't take reservations. Will they do call aheads or tell me to piss off?
 

coolVariable

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4th date - time for the evil deed.

Watch Borat = no sex with her for a year.
She will be so disgusted by the movie that you will not even get a peck on the cheek.
 

hypn0tik

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Originally posted by: coolVariable
4th date - time for the evil deed.

Watch Borat = no sex with her for a year.
She will be so disgusted by the movie that you will not even get a peck on the cheek.

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Yeah, especially when the Borat-Azmat fight sequence is still fresh in her mind.
Oh man, I simply could not watch that.
 

TheNinja

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TheNinja's guide to Fourth DateHanky Panky:

1. Pick her up early wearing only a pair of underwear
2. Make a friendly comment about her blouse
3. Take her out for a dinner platter at The Sizzler (if she is really hot)
4. Go Watch Borat - Get super pumped while doing this
5. Invite her to your dojo
6. Wail on guitar with a 1980s power ballad
7. French...HARD
8. Dry Grind for about 2 or 3 minutes
9. Pork her!!!!!
10. Finger pick a love song on guitar (preferrably one about Michael Dudikoff)
 

VTHodge

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
TheNinja's guide to Fourth DateHanky Panky:

1. Pick her up early wearing only a pair of underwear
2. Make a friendly comment about her blouse
3. Take her out for a dinner platter at The Sizzler (if she is really hot)
4. Go Watch Borat - Get super pumped while doing this
5. Invite her to your dojo
6. Wail on guitar with a 1980s power ballad
7. French...HARD
8. Dry Grind for about 2 or 3 minutes
9. Pork her!!!!!
10. Finger pick a love song on guitar (preferrably one about Michael Dudikoff)

TheNinja is a Golden Love God.