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YAGT: For my fellow college students...

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I became friends with this girl over the first quarter of the year and then during my house's xmas party some things happened...


needless to say she wants to enter into a casual relationship of some sort and I would kind of like to keep it friends. I told her that I just want to start the quarter and see what happens but I really dont know what the hell to do...I still want to flirt with random girls like I always have, but this girl is really nice...

what does a casual relationship entail these days?

AGH, anyone?
 
perhaps before you agree or not you should establish rules/boundaries. not everyone's idea of a casual relationship will be the same. just see what she means at take it from there.
 
Originally posted by: hdeck
perhaps before you agree or not you should establish rules/boundaries. not everyone's idea of a casual relationship will be the same. just see what she means at take it from there.
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yeah after our last chat i'm hesitant to bring up all that relationship crap so soon...I guess I'll just have to wait until school starts up again and see what happens. I dont have the time or the patience to really start up a committed relationship.
 
Originally posted by: PHiuR
you should ask her what a casual relationships entails?
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Yeah I sort of already did...but she gave a vagueish definition. She says she's not high maintenance so she doesnt require a lot of time.

She must really like me to just say she wont take up much of my time in an effort to enter into a relationship
 
Originally posted by: sygyzy
Originally posted by: rnp614
does that mean that she's my girlfriend though or just kind of a really close friend?
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Neither. FWB is a third category.
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THats the category i'd like to enter into, but I dont think it'll happen. 😕
 
Originally posted by: rnp614
Originally posted by: PHiuR
you should ask her what a casual relationships entails?
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Yeah I sort of already did...but she gave a vagueish definition. She says she's not high maintenance so she doesnt require a lot of time.

She must really like me to just say she wont take up much of my time.
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so just do your own thing, and when you're bored call her up to hang out...
 
Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: rnp614
Originally posted by: PHiuR
you should ask her what a casual relationships entails?
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Yeah I sort of already did...but she gave a vagueish definition. She says she's not high maintenance so she doesnt require a lot of time.

She must really like me to just say she wont take up much of my time.
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so just do your own thing, and when you're bored call her up to hang out...
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Thats the plan right now Eghck. THe only problem is she hangs out with a LOT of my friends as is and unless I'm going to bars (where she cant go bc she's not 21) I'll probably be running into her from time to time. I dont want to have to drop what I'm doing with my fellas to go tend to a girl...my last 2 quarters at college have to be intense. Relationships later, beer and partying NOW. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: rnp614
Originally posted by: PHiuR
you should ask her what a casual relationships entails?
Click to expand...

Yeah I sort of already did...but she gave a vagueish definition. She says she's not high maintenance so she doesnt require a lot of time.

She must really like me to just say she wont take up much of my time in an effort to enter into a relationship
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thats what they all say in the BEGINNING!
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
stop being a follower and start being a leader. This "casual" relationship should only be on your terms.
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QFT!

You define the terms, not her!
 
Originally posted by: hdeck
perhaps before you agree or not you should establish rules/boundaries. not everyone's idea of a casual relationship will be the same. just see what she means at take it from there.
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winner...just talk to her...
 
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