I just came out of a breakup which I was having a hard time getting over. I found out Saturday that a week after she broke up with me she met a guy at a bar, and had sex with him the same night. We were together for three years, and this really broke my heart. The minute I heard about them hooking up, I was over her though. I lost all respect for her. She broke up with me around a month ago.
So, the last two days I have been hanging out with another girl. She was an exchange student my senior year in high school, and her and I had a short two week relationship at the end of the year. It so happened that we realized how much we liked each other two weeks before she went back to her country. We've kept in touch ever since she left, sending long e-mails and talking on the phone almost weekly.
Hanging out with her is simply awsome. It's a feeling I haven't had since the last time she was over here. I can talk for hours to her about anything. I don't think I have ever been so comfortable with a girl before. Last night, we talked about 'us' as a couple, and we both really want to be in a relationship together. There's something about the chemistry that just works. We both have been vocal that we are very attracted to each other, physically and otherwise.
However, there are some problems.
1) She's going back to her country on Sunday
2) She has a boyfriend of two and a half years.
She never mentions her boyfriend around me, unless I specifically ask her about him. I know that he really loves her, but she says that sees me and her together in the future, and doesn't see her relationship with her current BF going anywhere. I really want to hook up with her, but I'm not that type of guy. I will not make a move on a girl who has a boyfriend, especially when it can last a week at most, and she has such a long time invested in a relationship back home. It's bad karma, and plain foul.
So, I don't know how to feel. Here's this girl who I can see myself with in the future, but I can't have her. If she was here, we'd be together for sure. However, she's not. I guess life sucks some times that way, right? The most I can do is continue to hang out with her all this week, and hope we can meet up sometime in the future, right?
So, the last two days I have been hanging out with another girl. She was an exchange student my senior year in high school, and her and I had a short two week relationship at the end of the year. It so happened that we realized how much we liked each other two weeks before she went back to her country. We've kept in touch ever since she left, sending long e-mails and talking on the phone almost weekly.
Hanging out with her is simply awsome. It's a feeling I haven't had since the last time she was over here. I can talk for hours to her about anything. I don't think I have ever been so comfortable with a girl before. Last night, we talked about 'us' as a couple, and we both really want to be in a relationship together. There's something about the chemistry that just works. We both have been vocal that we are very attracted to each other, physically and otherwise.
However, there are some problems.
1) She's going back to her country on Sunday
2) She has a boyfriend of two and a half years.
She never mentions her boyfriend around me, unless I specifically ask her about him. I know that he really loves her, but she says that sees me and her together in the future, and doesn't see her relationship with her current BF going anywhere. I really want to hook up with her, but I'm not that type of guy. I will not make a move on a girl who has a boyfriend, especially when it can last a week at most, and she has such a long time invested in a relationship back home. It's bad karma, and plain foul.
So, I don't know how to feel. Here's this girl who I can see myself with in the future, but I can't have her. If she was here, we'd be together for sure. However, she's not. I guess life sucks some times that way, right? The most I can do is continue to hang out with her all this week, and hope we can meet up sometime in the future, right?
Bottom line is, if you don't do something, you could regret it later.
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