YAGT: Ex-girlfriend just e-mailed me

[SLCentral]

Yeah, you all know I'm 16, so people that think any relationship at 16 is a big joke, just press the back button. It may not be as important as marriage, but it's important to me.

Anyways, a few months back, my girlfriend of two years and I broke up, and we haven't talked since. Since she lives an hour away, it's been easy, and I can finally say I'm prety much "over her." Opened my inbox today, and lo-behold, there's an e-mail from her, basically saying she misses me and wants to be friends. She already has a new boyfriend, so it looks like this is all about being friends.

I don't want to be an asshole and tell her to fvck off, but I can't see myself becoming friends with her; I don't want to risk falling for her all over again.

Not really looking for any answers, just letting it out .

 

[JS80]

don't do it, not worth it. you will be cuddle bvtch when she has problems with her current bf. plus her bf will probably be jealous or pissed that she wants to be friends with you.

 

[Eli]

Don't do it.

Hit delete and pretend it never happened.

 

[SmoochyTX]

Don't do it.

 

[RelaxTheMind]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! welcome to the real world.

Cut the cord and simplify it to a no "dirty look" when u see each other thing. Its better than giving yourself several years of jealousy and mind games.

 

[DainBramaged]

Tell her that all of your friendships have started with the other person sucking. Tell her to go ahead.

 

[Bateluer]

Originally posted by: JS80
don't do it, not worth it. you will be cuddle bvtch when she has problems with her current bf. plus her bf will probably be jealous or pissed that she wants to be friends with you.

Seconded.

You can politely tell her that its best you both go your separate ways though, no need to simply delete the email and ignore her entirely. That will also cause bad blood between the two of you.