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YAGT: Ex-girlfriend ex-room mate being a bitch

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Yeah, I would definitely want to live with someone for awhile before considering marriage since that's the fastest way to get to know who someone really is. She's a bitch and I didn't even see that until we broke up.

Which reason was it that made us broke up? Well, it could have been multiple things. It could have been that she cheated on me. It could have been the fact that she's a bitch, a fact that many of our close friends have confirmed (bitch was not the word used, but I won't use the stronger language). It could have been that nothing I ever did was good enough. It could have been the emotional abuse and manipulation. I finally just got sick of everything and wanted her to go away, so I dumped her. She quickly moved on and started dating my best buddy who is now losing touch with everyone that wronged her. She's got her talons on his heart and he's slowly slipping away from us because of her. Eventually we won't even know him anymore, but we realize that if anyone steps forward we'll just be accelerating the process because he's too attached to her. It's sad that she has to drag him down with her like this
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Yeah, I would definitely want to live with someone for awhile before considering marriage since that's the fastest way to get to know who someone really is. She's a bitch and I didn't even see that until we broke up.

Which reason was it that made us broke up? Well, it could have been multiple things. It could have been that she cheated on me. It could have been the fact that she's a bitch, a fact that many of our close friends have confirmed (bitch was not the word used, but I won't use the stronger language). It could have been that nothing I ever did was good enough. It could have been the emotional abuse and manipulation. I finally just got sick of everything and wanted her to go away, so I dumped her. She quickly moved on and started dating my best buddy who is now losing touch with everyone that wronged her. She's got her talons on his heart and he's slowly slipping away from us because of her. Eventually we won't even know him anymore, but we realize that if anyone steps forward we'll just be accelerating the process because he's too attached to her. It's sad that she has to drag him down with her like this
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Ahhh, you found a Grade A Succubus. She's just gonna keep repeating this same process over and over and over.

glad you got rid of her.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Yeah, I would definitely want to live with someone for awhile before considering marriage since that's the fastest way to get to know who someone really is. She's a bitch and I didn't even see that until we broke up.

Which reason was it that made us broke up? Well, it could have been multiple things. It could have been that she cheated on me. It could have been the fact that she's a bitch, a fact that many of our close friends have confirmed (bitch was not the word used, but I won't use the stronger language). It could have been that nothing I ever did was good enough. It could have been the emotional abuse and manipulation. I finally just got sick of everything and wanted her to go away, so I dumped her. She quickly moved on and started dating my best buddy who is now losing touch with everyone that wronged her. She's got her talons on his heart and he's slowly slipping away from us because of her. Eventually we won't even know him anymore, but we realize that if anyone steps forward we'll just be accelerating the process because he's too attached to her. It's sad that she has to drag him down with her like this
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Ahhh, you found a Grade A Succubus. She's just gonna keep repeating this same process over and over and over.

glad you got rid of her.
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Me too, I got out while I still good. She did something similar to her ex-boyfriend before me and tried to turn everyone against him. She mostly failed at that. When we were close to breaking up, she tried the same thing with me and attempted to turn everyone against me. She COMPLETELY failed at that, so now she's dragging one of our companions into the darkness with her and is getting him shunned too.

We've all agreed that he'll eventually realize that she's using him and will want to hang out with us again once he is released from that. We'll be there with open arms when he opens his eyes. She's the one that everyone dislikes, not him. Yeah, he's messing up too, but he's just getting played.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Just a wild thought....I bet she blamed her cheating on you as well?
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She sort of tried to. She said I wasn't there for emotional support that she needed right then, so she went to her ex-boyfriend instead. She blames him for it.
 
is this completely un-dramatic or is it just me??? If you are going to take the time to post it on the internet them make is 10x as bad as it is.

ie.. she smashed up you car, took the cat, stalks you, ect....
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: spidey07
Just a wild thought....I bet she blamed her cheating on you as well?
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She sort of tried to. She said I wasn't there for emotional support that she needed right then, so she went to her ex-boyfriend instead. She blames him for it.
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hahahah, classic.

I know the type. She'll never really get fixed.

you dodged a big one there. Let's hope you can recognize this kind of behavior in the future.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: spidey07
Just a wild thought....I bet she blamed her cheating on you as well?
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She sort of tried to. She said I wasn't there for emotional support that she needed right then, so she went to her ex-boyfriend instead. She blames him for it.
Click to expand...

hahahah, classic.

I know the type. She'll never really get fixed.

you dodged a big one there. Let's hope you can recognize this kind of behavior in the future.
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Yeah, from what I can tell I really was in a bad situation.

Luckily I've found a much better girlfriend. Not only is she not a bitch, but she also has a sense of responsibility and a plethora of other bonuses that the old one didn't have. I've upgraded 😉
 
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