-Short Version-
So my ex is calling, and while we ended on good terms, I really don't want to talk to her. If broke up with her because I just didn't want a gf, and because she doesn't live near me, and that was annoying. I now feel that it's not fair for me to have to talk on the phone with a woman, because unlike women, I do not like talking on the phone to people when I don't have anything new to say. What do I know?
-Details-
Broke up with her in June.
She called me at 2:00 AM about 3 weeks ago. I picked up but immediately freaked and hung up when I realized it was her.
She called again last weekend, twice, the second time 10 minutes after the first, and didn't leave a message.
I didn't want to be a d1ck, so I called her and left a message explaining that I didn't mean to hang up on her the other weekend, and that I was busy when she called earlier.
Then we played phone tag for a few days, and she finally left a message last night saying:
"It's me, I'm working 2 jobs, so sorry for the phone tag. I'm off tomorrow night at 5:00, so I'll call you then."
I'm expecting a call in a little over and hour, and I don't know how to best tell her that I don't want to have anything to do with her.
So my ex is calling, and while we ended on good terms, I really don't want to talk to her. If broke up with her because I just didn't want a gf, and because she doesn't live near me, and that was annoying. I now feel that it's not fair for me to have to talk on the phone with a woman, because unlike women, I do not like talking on the phone to people when I don't have anything new to say. What do I know?
-Details-
Broke up with her in June.
She called me at 2:00 AM about 3 weeks ago. I picked up but immediately freaked and hung up when I realized it was her.
She called again last weekend, twice, the second time 10 minutes after the first, and didn't leave a message.
I didn't want to be a d1ck, so I called her and left a message explaining that I didn't mean to hang up on her the other weekend, and that I was busy when she called earlier.
Then we played phone tag for a few days, and she finally left a message last night saying:
"It's me, I'm working 2 jobs, so sorry for the phone tag. I'm off tomorrow night at 5:00, so I'll call you then."
I'm expecting a call in a little over and hour, and I don't know how to best tell her that I don't want to have anything to do with her.