yagt: Ever had a girl totally fall for you out of no where

[imacbad]

my friends sister ( 2 years younger than me) has apparently had a huge crush on me for the last 4 months even though during that time I've said maybe 10 words to her. Now she's kinda pretty but she's my friends sister and she's kinda young so I'm really not interested but its weird. Like her brother imed me before from her name to tell me something and so I imed that name back and it was her and it was the first time we ever talked online and I could tell she was really nervous and I felt really bad because I'd been in the same situations before so I was really nice to her but I don't want to lead her on or anything. Also I think she was the person who sent me a secret admirer letter on valentines day that I had no clue about. In this situation do you let the girl know nothing will happen or you do be nice and let her crush on you till she falls for someone else? I've been doing the latter but I'm not sure if its the right thing to do.

 

Lock one of them, dude.

 

[chiwawa626]

double post!

 

[amnesiac]

Hit it. Get permission from your friend first. If he's a good friend he'll be cool with it.

 

[Isla]

Yes

 

[Eli]

Nahh, don't tell her...

You won't help but lead her on.. and actually, it's her leading herself on.. She'll take anything you do in a good, "he likes me" way.. lol

 

[minendo]

yagt: Ever had a girl totally fall for you out of no where

Damn curbs.

 

[imacbad]

sorry bout the double post my comp is screwed up right now. and to be quite honest I have been tempted to do something once or twice but I'm not that desperate for girls. I do have a weird hook up thing going with a girl right now. All the action without the strings of a girlfriend.

 

[rh71]

Wait till she's 18... then you're good to go... you said she was already "pretty" right ?

 

[LongCoolMother]

happens all the time to all of us, just dont do anything, itll be over

 

[Looney]

Yep, but i wasn't even remotely attracted to her.

 

[imacbad]

Originally posted by: Eli
Nahh, don't tell her...

You won't help but lead her on.. and actually, it's her leading herself on.. She'll take anything you do in a good, "he likes me" way.. lol

yeah thats a funny thing to play around with, but I don't like to do it cause its mean. for example, shes in my gym class and I got in trouble for cursing so I acted distraught and she consoled me.

 

[cmv]

Yeah, in my math class at college last semester and she is in my math class again this semester. She is actually attractive but somehow when people really fall for you they just throw the chances of a relationship off a bit. Something about the desperation or the sheer feeling that they somehow "need" you.

I really should go get liquored up, throw out these dumb thoughts, and then go ask her out (not when I'm liquored up, liquored up only to pass the logical fallacy in my braino) but I think it is too late... Oh well, there are plenty 'o fish out there.

 

[illusion88]

Nope. I learned that chicks dont like me. All of the "picking up" is %100 of my effort. And about %75 of all girls who date me do it out of simpathy! YEA!

 

[zsouthboy]

Yay for losers like me who don't EVAR have this problem!

 

[brxndxn]

Nope. I learned that chicks dont like me. All of the "picking up" is %100 of my effort. And about %75 of all girls who date me do it out of simpathy! YEA! [q/]

LOL...

When I'm a nice guy, girls ask me for favors then walk all over me. When I'm a mean guy, they fall in love with me.

 

[KC5AV]

From the tone of your post, I'm guessing you're 14, and she's 11. Dude, if you don't want any kind of relationship with her, don't lead her on. Don't be cold about it, but let her know you aren't interested.

 

[pulse8]

Yes and it's always been a girl I didn't feel jack sh!t for.

 

[cressida]

Originally posted by: illusion88
Nope. I learned that chicks dont like me. All of the "picking up" is %100 of my effort. And about %75 of all girls who date me do it out of simpathy! YEA!

me too.

 

[Ns1]

hit it then quit it


and make sure your sis doesn't find out

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Isla
Yes

bwhaha

 

[Angrymarshmello]

Originally posted by: NeuroSynapsis
hit it then quit it


and make sure your sis doesn't find out

 

[rh71]

I think this whole situation UNDERSCORES how much people (men & women) want only what they don't have or cannot get...

 

[Yossarian451]

Originally posted by: illusion88
Nope. I learned that chicks dont like me. All of the "picking up" is %100 of my effort. And about %75 of all girls who date me do it out of simpathy! YEA!

Had a friend with the same philosophy, then this week, a vica competition, this super hot chick just simgles him out and starts booty dancing with him...long story made short she left him name. # + email. we all had to laugh because he was saying that we were always the ones who get teh chicks. (BY the way he said that becasue this same girl had initiated conversation with me earlier)

 

[EvilYoda]

yeah, I'm still not sure on your ages here...maybe that'll help us give some advice. If you're sure you don't want anything to do with her romatically, just address her..."are you attracted to me"...but that's just me, I like the open-communication road. good luck.