YAGT: Confused but happy

hpkeeper

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I swear that I create the most YAGT threads on this board.
*****I DON'T HAVE PICS****** ....sorry guys....

Storytime: ---------------

A couple years ago, I took a girl to her junior prom when I was a senior in HS... I ended up meeting her family, you know, shake the dad's hand, hug the mom, the normal prom pictures and stuff.... well... I was introduced to the sister of the girl I was taking to the prom (Yikees :) ) ....she was quite the looker, she was a freshmen at the time I was a senior, so I didn't really pay much attention to her at the time.

Anyways... about a month ago, I was hanging out at my friends house, he has a younger sister who had a bunch of her friends over... anyways... there was the sister of the girl I took to the prom (of course she got uglier over time...
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). I ended up talking with her, and we ended up having a good time, so I asked her out on a date and things have been going well for a few weeks, coincidentally she asked me to her prom too.... so now she and her sister will have prom pictures with the same guy in it. Although we're not dating, it seems like it's headed that direction...

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first I'd like to mention... all is cool... I used the formula... I'm 19, she's 17...

19/2 = 9.5 + 7 = 16.5

So don't all go being it's a weird age difference.


I'd like to know if it's normal for a girl to be like really quiet about her feelings, and for the most part be rather emotion-less. I haven't bumped into very many females that didn't want to talk about what they were feeling. However, when I want to know sometime and I ask, she's like very direct about what she says, she isn't subtle, she doesn't give hints... she lays it out in front of you and that's how it is....

have I found a kick-ass girl due to that...?


Like I said though, in order to find out what she's thinking, you have to ask her... she won't tell you. So... how do you effectively and smoothly ask a girl wether she likes you "that way" or not? Also, in addition to that... when is the right time to do that? Like I said... she asked me to take her to her prom... is that a good time? like a couple days after..? before...?

Sorry for giving you all the quick version, I figured this was easier to read than the book I thought about giving you all to read.


Let me know what y'all think

:heart:~ThE KeEp~:heart:

...lol I like the new faces and pics we can put in text.....



 
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I got lost in all that but congrats to you.

Oh and um, since she's direct you just ask her "where do I stand with you". No simpler way of doing it
 

floccus

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Meh, I like a woman who's pretty direct and doesn't screw around... makes it a lot easier to tell where I stand. But I dunno, I'll just say have fun at the prom and see how that goes.
 

GroundZero

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i took a gal to my senior prom.
the next year i took her younger sister to her senior prom...
nothing wrong with that.
as long as they don't have problems with it...
could get a little awkward if they have issues though
 

hpkeeper

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oh yeah, I checked with her sister first... I was buggin' out... I really think they younger one is a lot better looking, if it wasn't cool with the older sister I was gonna twitch.
 

everman

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What do the parents think about the same guy taking both of their daughters to the prom? It would strike me as...odd :beer::D
 

hpkeeper

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apparently they don't really care. They like me from when I took their first daughter, they thought I was a good guy, I guess it doesn't matter which daughter I take as long as it's me. So I guess it doesn't matter. I'm hoping that applies to dating. I haven't dated either one of them... so it shouldn't be an issue.
 

GroundZero

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Originally posted by: hpkeeper
apparently they don't really care. They like me from when I took their first daughter, they thought I was a good guy, I guess it doesn't matter which daughter I take as long as it's me. So I guess it doesn't matter. I'm hoping that applies to dating. I haven't dated either one of them... so it shouldn't be an issue.

no worries then mate.
i dated both of them, got interesting a few times...
we're all still friends though.
this was about 15 years ago though

 

MacGaven

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That is badass!

You're picking up both sisters and the parents like you!

Both are hot, this unbelievable!
 

Looney

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first I'd like to mention... all is cool... I used the formula... I'm 19, she's 17...

19/2 = 9.5 + 7 = 16.5

So don't all go being it's a weird age difference.

Ok, i'm not a genius in math... but what the hell is this suppose to mean? And where'd you get the 7?
 

hpkeeper

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I dunno dude... I've seen that formula on this board a million times... it's always been seven, half of your age plus seven, so if you are 26, you are within your range dating someone who is 20.

and yes MacGaven that is badass.