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Aug 16, 2001
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I just asked this girl out for Saturday night and she said she probably could go out if she doesn't get tickets for a Halloween party with her brother because if she does then she is going. She said she will let me know later today.

Should I just cancel with her even if she does say yes later today?

Triforce

Update:

Bitch never called me back tonight........

Cancel indefinately.....

 

DainBramaged

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Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update:

Bitch never called me back tonight........
Then forget it. Sounds like you only went out on one date with her anyway and wasn't too impressed. No reason to get so worked up about it.

Go out and have some fun with your friends.

Read "friends" as "hands." lol
 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update:

Bitch never called me back tonight........
Then forget it. Sounds like you only went out on one date with her anyway and wasn't too impressed. No reason to get so worked up about it.

Go out and have some fun with your friends.

Read "friends" as "hands." lol
:laugh:
 

renaldoriggs

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: JDMnAR1
If you cancel after she has worked you in to her weekend schedule on short notice, you may have just blown your only chance.

Something rubs me the wrong way about her basically wanting to do something else and I am the concellation prize for obvious reasons.

WTF...what part of "she might have already had plans" do you not understand? She might even *want* to go with you but is honoring something that she previously committed to. With her *brother,* for Christ's sake. :roll:

Also, learn to spell "consolation."

Agreed. Sounds like he has some control issues.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Feb 21, 2004
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Update:2

Called me up just now, apologized for not calling me last night and said she can get tickets but would prefer to see me tonight and she will see her family tomorrow. So I am picking her up at 7 :)
 

renaldoriggs

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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update:2

Called me up just now, apologized for not calling me last night and said she can get tickets but would prefer to see me tonight and she will see her family tomorrow. So I am picking her up at 7 :)

All this after you called her a "bitch" and made other remarks about her on an Internet forum. If I were her and knew about this, I'd drop you.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Feb 21, 2004
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Originally posted by: renaldoriggs
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update:2

Called me up just now, apologized for not calling me last night and said she can get tickets but would prefer to see me tonight and she will see her family tomorrow. So I am picking her up at 7 :)

All this after you called her a "bitch" and made other remarks about her on an Internet forum. If I were her and knew about this, I'd drop you.

Fortunately for me that you are not her then :D
 

rise

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Dec 13, 2004
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
bump for day crew.
why? so people know you have a date? you say you're picking her up so i guess you're 16 or over. is this your first date ever or something?
 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: rise
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
bump for day crew.
why? so people know you have a date? you say you're picking her up so i guess you're 16 or over. is this your first date ever or something?

lol

actually, he has a completely valid point. There was absolutely no need to bump the thread.

PS: I'm sure the girl in question wouldn't appreciate being called a bitch. Really bad form.

I'd say, forget about her, you are wasting HER time.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Feb 21, 2004
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Originally posted by: Wapp
So did the OP hook it or what?

Update:

Took her out to dinner, then mini golf, then finished off the night at the beach. It went pretty well. I took her home and kissed her goodnight on the lips. Nothing to crazy, but still on the lips. I am going to call her tomorrow and invite her over to watch a movie Saturday night.
 

krotchy

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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: Wapp
So did the OP hook it or what?

Update:

Took her out to dinner, then mini golf, then finished off the night at the beach. It went pretty well. I took her home and kissed her goodnight on the lips. Nothing to crazy, but still on the lips. I am going to call her tomorrow and invite her over to watch a movie Saturday night.

Dude, dont call her tomorrow. Wait till Wednesday or Thursday. Calling to soon = bad idea.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Feb 21, 2004
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Originally posted by: krotchy
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: Wapp
So did the OP hook it or what?

Update:

Took her out to dinner, then mini golf, then finished off the night at the beach. It went pretty well. I took her home and kissed her goodnight on the lips. Nothing to crazy, but still on the lips. I am going to call her tomorrow and invite her over to watch a movie Saturday night.

Dude, dont call her tomorrow. Wait till Wednesday or Thursday. Calling to soon = bad idea.


How is tomorrow too early? The date was on Saturday. If I call tomorrow it will be Tuesday. Isn't 3 days enough? The date I will be asking her on will be for the upcoming Saturday.
 

Xyo II

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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: krotchy
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: Wapp
So did the OP hook it or what?

Update:

Took her out to dinner, then mini golf, then finished off the night at the beach. It went pretty well. I took her home and kissed her goodnight on the lips. Nothing to crazy, but still on the lips. I am going to call her tomorrow and invite her over to watch a movie Saturday night.

Dude, dont call her tomorrow. Wait till Wednesday or Thursday. Calling to soon = bad idea.


How is tomorrow too early? The date was on Saturday. If I call tomorrow it will be Tuesday. Isn't 3 days enough? The date I will be asking her on will be for the upcoming Saturday.

3 days is plenty, have fun!
 

Garet Jax

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Originally posted by: krotchy
Dude, dont call her tomorrow. Wait till Wednesday or Thursday. Calling to soon = bad idea.

Bad advice.

Don't play games with a girl unless you want a girl who plays games.

If you like her, then call her next day. If she dumps you because you called her too soon, then she would have wasted your time down the road anyway.

After the first date with my now wife, I called her the next morning (ended up waking her up). We have been together 11 years (married 5) and she still comments on how much she like that I called her so quickly.
 

Dacalo

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Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Originally posted by: krotchy
Dude, dont call her tomorrow. Wait till Wednesday or Thursday. Calling to soon = bad idea.

Bad advice.

Don't play games with a girl unless you want a girl who plays games.

If you like her, then call her next day. If she dumps you because you called her too soon, then she would have wasted your time down the road anyway.

After the first date with my now wife, I called her the next morning (ended up waking her up). We have been together 11 years (married 5) and she still comments on how much she like that I called her so quickly.

Listen to this man.

If she likes you, then she wouldn't mind if you call her the next day. All this waiting BS is ridiculous.