YAGT: Called Ex up on Bootie Call. She wants to get married

TechBoyJK

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I actually sent her a text message last night basically said, hey, now that I live so close to you, we ought to be hangingout. (i just moved to an apartment about 5 minutes from her)

anyways, that was last night, and this morning, just a few minutes ago, she called me back.

basically said she was involved with someone, and she isn't going to cheat just for bootie. then, she starts with this stuff. Baby, i just want to let you know, that you have always been the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I just don't want to loose what I have now if I don't know if you want me the way I want you. But if you want me, marry me, please.

holy shlt. unfortunately, she was like the 5th string of my booty call lineup. the last thing I want to do is marry this girl.
 

PunDogg

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haha message her and let he leave long long long voice mails then you can post on ATOT and give enteraintment to all of us hehehe na just forget about her

Dogg
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
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naw, i dont hate her like that. she is a great lay, i just don't want to be committed to her.
 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
naw, i dont hate her like that. she is a great lay, i just don't want to be committed to her.
i'll bet you felt complimented that she suggested marriage, but won't admit it.

 

TechBoyJK

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definately. She is a picky girl, rich parents, could be a model. I felt flattered. Unfortunately, I know that I can commit to her. She cheated on me along time ago, and even though I know she is totally different, I just can't bank on it.
 

TechBoyJK

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Oct 17, 2002
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i'm honest enough with myself to wonder if she was just trying to scare me away, but everytime I am with her, thats all she talks about, and then she tries to screw me.
 

mpitts

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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
definately. She is a picky girl, rich parents, could be a model. I felt flattered. Unfortunately, I know that I can commit to her. She cheated on me along time ago, and even though I know she is totally different, I just can't bank on it.

Dude, you are looking at this all wrong.

Marry her.. Have her cheat.. The take her for everything she's got.

:D
 

KarenMarie

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Sep 20, 2003
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
she sounds desperate...

don't message her again. let it die.

Absolutely!
Not only that, but if she would speak thusly to you behind his back...what would stop her from doing it to you. And if she were honest in her feelings for you, she would never be so 'involved' with someone else. That is just wrong to him and herself.

she has issues.

:)

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definately. She is a picky girl, rich parents, could be a model. I felt flattered. Unfortunately, I know that I can commit to her. She cheated on me along time ago, and even though I know she is totally different, I just can't bank on it.

Ha! Once a cheater, always a cheater. How happy would the present B/F be if he knew she said these things to you. I bet he would feel betrayed!
 

PingSpike

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Tell her you want her, then when she leaves the other guy...dump her ass. Save you and that other guy some time. She clearly isn't anyone's marriage material. I can't stand people who are to weak to just break up with some one when they don't really want to be with them.
 

jjones

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Oct 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Tell her you want her, then when she leaves the other guy...dump her ass. Save you and that other guy some time. She clearly isn't anyone's marriage material. I can't stand people who are to weak to just break up with some one when they don't really want to be with them.
Best advice yet. Except dump her after you've banged her a few more times. She sounds like a headcase.