YAGT... bit of a dilemma between 2 girls

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phreakah

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okay, so i have a girlfriend, been with her for about a year and a half... things are going fine between us.. we fight occasionally, but overall i'd say things are cool

however, a few days ago i met this girl that was awesome.. she was into all the things that i am really into that my gf doesnt like...basically, my gf pretty much makes it clear that she is not interested in the things me and this girl talked about pretty much the whole time we met

anyway, would it be bad of me to hang out with this girl on the side for a little bit, to see if i'm really into her? i've never been in this situation before :(

 
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Semidevil

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it would be right if you hang out with her because she is a cool friend, but it would be wrong for you to hang out with her to see if she is better then your girlfriend.....



what you are feeling w/ the new girl are just excitement since she is new, and different...dont let that get to your head(the top and bottom ones).
 
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conjur

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Don't do it unless you want to end your relationship with your girlfriend.


What if your gf started hanging with some guy that had interests with her that you don't?
 
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xXped0thugXx

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Originally posted by: Semidevil
it would be right if you hang out with her because she is a cool friend, but it would be wrong for you to hang out with her to see if she is better then your girlfriend.....



what you are feeling w/ the new girl are just excitement since she is new, and different...dont let that get to your head(the top and bottom ones).
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agreed, the new excitement is drawing you in. If you remember back to the beginning of your relationship with your gf I'll bet it was the same way.
 
meltdown75

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: xXped0thugXx
agreed, the new excitement is drawing you in. If you remember back to the beginning of your relationship with your gf I'll bet it was the same way.
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qft.
 
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ragazzo

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having a lot of things in common does not guarantee a successful long-term relationship.
 
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phreakah

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well, this thing w/ my current girlfriend is my first long term relationship.. and i think i sort of just settled with her, in regards to my attraction towards her as a gf... i mean she's a really great person and really nice and all that, but sometimes i wonder why or how im still with her

maybe i'm just confused or affraid of thinking about this long term stuff? :confused:
 
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RegularK

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Originally posted by: Semidevil
it would be right if you hang out with her because she is a cool friend, but it would be wrong for you to hang out with her to see if she is better then your girlfriend.....



what you are feeling w/ the new girl are just excitement since she is new, and different...dont let that get to your head(the top and bottom ones).
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Everyone seems to be right on with their advice so far (Edit: except for the people giving advice on the threesomes :) ). If your intentions of hanging out with the new girl aren't purely platonic, then that's a big no no. And if you mean "on the side" as in, without your girlfriend knowing, that's a REALLY big no no and will blow up in your face.
 
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RegularK

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also, where'd you meet this new girl? And was your girlfriend jealous at all when you guys were hanging out together before?
 
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Bryan

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Put yourself in your current girlfriend's shoes and let your conscience provide the answers you seek.
 
HardcoreRobot

HardcoreRobot

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if you are interested in pursuing other girls you need to break up with your gf

thats all there is to it
 
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TheNinja

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Are you married? If the answer is no, then I'm going against the grain here and saying go ahead and hang out with the new girl. Whether your intentions are as friends or a possibly girlfriend, you should hang out and find out for yourself. Don't pass up opportunities that come around very often or you'll always wonder...."what if".
 
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maziwanka

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Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
if you are interested in pursuing other girls you need to break up with your gf

thats all there is to it
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i agree here. but breakups suck. too bad they're not easy
 
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Accipiter22

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NEW GIRL SYNDROME ALERT!! any person when you first meet them seems cool....the new girl probably has herpes or something....
 
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ragazzo

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actually, you know what? just break up with her. if you're not sure why you're in the relationship then there's something wrong. just don't be a coward and give her some lame excuse. just tell her the truth.
 
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