YAGT: Best Friend's newly ex-girlfriend wants a relationship with me

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LEDominator

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Tell the friend and if he is as big a jerk as you say then it may be to your advantage to be rid of him in the first place.
 

KarmaPolice

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5 days is too soon. I would wait a few weeks..atleast two.

When i was in highschool..15 or 16 I forget...My friend broke up with his gf. I had known her for a while but never anything but friends. I started dating her rougly 2 weeks after the break up. We are still friends. Granted...we were never BEST friends but still....freinds.
 
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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
5 days is too soon. I would wait a few weeks..atleast two.

When i was in highschool..15 or 16 I forget...My friend broke up with his gf. I had known her for a while but never anything but friends. I started dating her rougly 2 weeks after the break up. We are still friends. Granted...we were never BEST friends but still....freinds.

haha, your name is fitting for this thread.
 

Chrono

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BROS before HOES. It's so fvckin' true. HOES come and go as they please and sh1T!!!!


 

her209

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Your friend's loss is your gain!

EDIT: Its okay in this case because she didn't cause the breakup.
 

Gilligansdingy

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I nailed my best friends exwife a while ago. I even talked to him before starting anything with her. He was all for it, until she decided to him we had sex. I ended up with a radio thrown threw my car window. He got over it a few weeks later... to each his own...
 

NorthRiver

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I married my friends ex, and let me tell you...I saved his ass big time!! We're divorced now, and yeah it was hot while it lasted, but the woman is a fracking nut job! To top it off we have a child together and it has been the most wonderful 12 years of my life..not. 4 more years to go baby...Woohoooooooooo

I say hit it dude, you only live once!
 

angrymaxx

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Sounds like you already made up your mind.
If he was really such a prick to her and really treated her like crap and didn't care for her... Then you could hit it and quit it and then tell him a couple years later... she's pretty cute.
But if you're a really good friend then run for the hills.
 

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
dANGER wILL rOBINSON,dANGER!!!

QFT. If she's really interested, tell her you want to let things cool down -- that you don't want to hurt your friend's feelings.
 
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She is using to to burn your friend.
Your friend will get burned and engage in a drunken brawl with you and give you a bloody nose.

Girl will dump you. Friend will have a vendetta against you. She wins. You two lose.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: ornament
Sounds like she's on the rebound with her ex-boyfriend's best friend.

definitely, wants another 'relationship' right away?

Depends on the friend's take on exes. Most of my friends and myself could care less if the chick is an ex.

 

KarmaPolice

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see if your friend ever gets pissed out you now he can always say "oh yeah? I had sex with your girlfriend"