YAGT: best approach for second date?

[Deleted member 4644]

Assuming the first date went well (small kiss on the lips at the end), and I have talked and AIMed with her since, what should my approach be on the second in terms of physicality?

A quick kiss when I pick her up? Holding her hand as we walk?

Obviously I should just go with the flow, but what are your experiences?

 

[jpeyton]

YAGT: best approach for second date?

With rubbers in hand.

 

[Balt]

I would say no on the hand-holding until the two of you are an 'official' item.

The reality is if you plan ahead for what you want to do, it's going to make you nervous and tense and it's going to make the entire date awkward. Just go with your gut and don't bother with the pre-date scheming.

 

[jamesbond007]

"Hey, I really had a great time the other night! I was wondering if you'd like to go out again and *INSERT ACTIVITY HERE."

*NOTE: Activity should probably not include sex. (particularly on the second date) At least that's not the way I work my relationships.

Oops, thought you meant in a vocal sense. I wouldn't rush things - no hand-holding or kissing too fast. Maybe a hug or something, but not too physical too fast.

 

[Deleted member 4644]

Originally posted by: jpeyton

YAGT: best approach for second date?

With rubbers in hand.

Really? I have never had a kiss on a first date before...

Rubber took 6 dates last time....

 

[HamSupLo]

are you going out with that one girl you approached who had a bunch of friends in your last YAGT?

 

[Deleted member 4644]

Originally posted by: HamSupLo
are you going out with that one girl you approached who had a bunch of friends in your last YAGT?

?

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

1. Cut a hole in a box...

 

[cheapgoose]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
1. Cut a hole in a box...

lol....profit?

stop thinking about it. the more you think about it, the less likely anything will happen, especially with sex. Go with the flow and just let it happen.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Originally posted by: cheapgoose

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
1. Cut a hole in a box...

lol....profit?

Only if she's loaded and you're really good.

Edit: If you're this excited about a second date and sex does become an issue you'll be a two-pump wonder bunny anyway. Relax and roll with it. You'll have more fun.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Go with the flow. You should feel a vibe from her.

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: jamesbond007
"Hey, I really had a great time the other night! I was wondering if you'd like to go out again and *INSERT ACTIVITY HERE."

*NOTE: Activity should probably not include sex. (particularly on the second date) At least that's not the way I work my relationships.

Oops, thought you meant in a vocal sense. I wouldn't rush things - no hand-holding or kissing too fast. Maybe a hug or something, but not too physical too fast.

WTF!?!?!?! :Q and you call yourself James Bond :Q

Cheers,
Aquaman

 

[Shortcut]

ixnay on the andholding for now

arm around shoulder/waist will be ok, though!

 

[Colt45]

Approach door
whip it out
ring doorbell

 

[Kadarin]

Ask her to hold out her hand...

 

[Skunkwourk]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Ask her to hold out her hand...

haha, I almost forgot about that thread

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Ask her to hold out her hand...

haha, I almost forgot about that thread

That thread was worth it's weight in gold

"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME

"Uh ok..." ~ Her

"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: LordSegan
Assuming the first date went well (small kiss on the lips at the end), and I have talked and AIMed with her since, what should my approach be on the second in terms of physicality?

A quick kiss when I pick her up? Holding her hand as we walk?

Obviously I should just go with the flow, but what are your experiences?

You're main concern should be not to force anything, especially physically. Things like holding hands, a kiss, making out, touching of any kind.. these things will come naturally.

They can happen one of two ways.

One, you force it upon you two just because you feel it's time. This will make things awkward and possibly affect the flavor of your relationship.

Or two, you just let it happen naturally, whether it be on the next date or in a few weeks. No one feels pressured, and when it happens, it will feel right and it'll be fun.

Now run along son and experience the joys of women!

Damn, I feel like a sex-ed teacher.

 

[Spineshank]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Ask her to hold out her hand...

haha, I almost forgot about that thread

That thread was worth it's weight in gold

"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME

"Uh ok..." ~ Her

"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME

That thread should be stickied forever.

 

[leftyman]

take her out for a rice dinner

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: Gnrslash4life

Originally posted by: George P Burdell

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Ask her to hold out her hand...

haha, I almost forgot about that thread

That thread was worth it's weight in gold

"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME

"Uh ok..." ~ Her

"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME

That thread should be stickied forever.

I know! If it's any consolation, it's linked at the wiki:
http://www.at-wiki.com/wiki/index.php/Notable_Threads

 

[fallenangel99]

While we are talking about girls, how do you apologize to a girl who sorta called a whore?

Cliffs: Me and this girl hung out a couple of time, she went to a party one weekend and slept at her friend's bfs place (so her, her friend, friend's bf, and bf's roomate). I joked and asked if she cuddled with the roommate. She got upset and told me not to make comments like that.

I called and left a voice mail with apology and txted her with apology. She hasn't called me back or anything.. I screwed this up huh? Oh well, I'll get it a couple more days before I call again. I see her online but I hate talking to girls online!

 

[psteng19]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Ask her to hold out her hand...

haha, I almost forgot about that thread

That thread was worth it's weight in gold

"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME

"Uh ok..." ~ Her

"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME

How much do threads weigh?

 

[imported_Ned Flanders]

If you aren't fisting her ass by the end of the first date you have no chance with her.

That's how I roll...

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: fallenangel99
While we are talking about girls, how do you apologize to a girl who sorta called a whore?

Cliffs: Me and this girl hung out a couple of time, she went to a party one weekend and slept at her friend's bfs place (so her, her friend, friend's bf, and bf's roomate). I joked and asked if she cuddled with the roommate. She got upset and told me not to make comments like that.

I called and left a voice mail with apology and txted her with apology. She hasn't called me back or anything.. I screwed this up huh? Oh well, I'll get it a couple more days before I call again. I see her online but I hate talking to girls online!

How long ago was this?