YAGT... before having sex with your partner... do yu ask if she has any medical problems...?

AgaBoogaBoo

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Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
of course... youd be a moron not to

I haven't done it yet, and don't plan to for some time, but if you had a dought or thought of getting an STD, why wouldn't you ask? The thing I'm questioning now is their answer...
 

nativesunshine

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Unless you're one of those morons who doesn't care..and will hook up with any girl regardless.

I know so many people like that..it's disgusting.
 

Rage187

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I usually get that out of the way after I introduce myself.


Dont forget to take a peak around home plate for anything that does not belong. Use a flashlight if need be.
 

TwinkleToes77

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I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.
 

Electric Amish

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When we hit the 5 year mark in our marriage I stopped asking.
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CrazyPerson

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Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?
 

Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

 

freakflag

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Not only STD's...

fungal infections
cold sores
athletes foot
halitosis...


you get the idea.
 

Descartes

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I'm so paranoid about things that I won't even touch them without a certificate from their doctor :)

I'm only being 5% facetious...
 

TwinkleToes77

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Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?

oh i dont know.. spend more than a few days getting to know before sleeping together. whatever happened to courting?


Edit: that makes me sound so old.
 

Descartes

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Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?

oh i dont know.. spend more than a few days getting to know before sleeping together. whatever happened to courting?


Edit: that makes me sound so old.

So one has to be chronologically mature in order to be responsible? A "few days" still seems pretty quick to me. It takes a fair amount of time for most people to be forthcoming with information potentially detrimental to the courting process (e.g. Oh, I have Hep B).
 

y2kc

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if i were single (and I haven't been for a looooong time) I would. I feel sorry for you kids.. in the days of "free love" we copulated without angst.
 

TwinkleToes77

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Originally posted by: Descartes
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?

oh i dont know.. spend more than a few days getting to know before sleeping together. whatever happened to courting?


Edit: that makes me sound so old.

So one has to be chronologically mature in order to be responsible? A "few days" still seems pretty quick to me. It takes a fair amount of time for most people to be forthcoming with information potentially detrimental to the courting process (e.g. Oh, I have Hep B).


notice i said MORE THAN a few days.
 

datalink7

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Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?

oh i dont know.. spend more than a few days getting to know before sleeping together. whatever happened to courting?


Edit: that makes me sound so old.

Yuo are teh old!

;):p
 

Ameesh

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Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?

oh i dont know.. spend more than a few days getting to know before sleeping together. whatever happened to courting?


Edit: that makes me sound so old.

dont forget a prude ;)
 

TwinkleToes77

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Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
I normally find out that stuff in the course of getting to know him, i dont tend to jump into bed with strangers.

how do you find out... ?

oh i dont know.. spend more than a few days getting to know before sleeping together. whatever happened to courting?


Edit: that makes me sound so old.

dont forget a prude ;)

Not in the least. I just like to get to know that man that I might accidently wind up having to have contact with the rest of my life.. Go figure :) But that doesnt matter anymore anyhow.. im off the market.