YAGT: Back to the single life

[Bumrush99]

Just came off a year and half of a schizophrenic relationship, which has finally drawn to its natural progression of ending. It took me quite a while to finalize the process, it is not easy when your so used to being around another person. For the first time in my life I exhibited sado-masochist behavior in taking forever to detach myself from an angry, cold person that acted like a 50 year old instead of a 25 year old... Every fun activity was scrutinized to 10th degree, every smile on my face seemed to have brought a frown to hers. She needed constant attention and praise, and even when she got it, it was never enough. Never thought I would allow myself to be harrassed by a woman, but I guess we all have to go through it at one point or another. The last six months were pure hell, I think we had sex a total of 10 times after she drew me in with cupious amounts of sex at the start. The prototypical story that I hear from married people happened to me while I was still dating. I can thank her for giving me advance notice of what marriage would have been like with her, so it could have been worse...

Anyways, back to the grind of being single without the horrors and pain of being depressed about my ex.. Last time around I came off a 5 year relationship with my college sweetheart, it was almost impossible to get back in to the single lifestyle. This time around I want to meet new people outside of the bar/club enviorment and want no part of online dating.. Any suggestions

:beer: TO FREEDOM

 

[dbzwukan]

So how did she take it?

 

[pulse8]

Are you sure you broke up with the right person?

 

[Bumrush99]

Originally posted by: dbzwukan
So how did she take it?

Acting nice and loving of course to make me think she had changed her attitude, but I had been through it one to many times... So now I refuse to pick up the phone, but judging by the amount of calls I would assume not well.

 

[frankierx]

I hooked up twice through contacts at work. I don't work with these 2 women, but I was able to hook up through either company functions, or just being at the right place at the right time. 1 of them is single and is looking like a good prospect for a relationship since she's all on me. The other has a bf on the opposite coast with leukemia and is my friend who has done wonders to jump start me as dating material.

 

[Ogg]

Originally posted by: pulse8
Are you sure you broke up with the right person?

:Q

 

[iotone]

good job :beer:

 

[cloude27]

good for you... a :beer: for being single

 

[dragonballgtz]

:beer::thumbsup:

 

[George P Burdell]

:beer: TO FREEDOM

edit for typo

 

[UsandThem]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99
in taking forever to detach myself from an angry, cold person that acted like a 50 year old instead of a 25 year old... Every fun activity was scrutinized to 10th degree, every smile on my face seemed to have brought a frown to hers. She needed constant attention and praise, and even when she got it, it was never enough. Never thought I would allow myself to be harrassed by a woman, but I guess we all have to go through it at one point or another. The last six months were pure hell, I think we had sex a total of 10 times after she drew me in with cupious amounts of sex at the start. The prototypical story that I hear from married people happened to me while I was still dating. I can thank her for giving me advance notice of what marriage would have been like with her

Wife: "Husband"

Husband: "Yes Master?"

Wife: "Arise"

It only gets worse from here.

My wife, while dating her, gave me sex with the frequency and skill of a porn star. Let's say that didn't last after we got married

 

[LukFilm]

A married man: "What is sex?"

Unless you marry an awesome person, of course.

 

[slightlyhuman]

:beer: