YAGT: any way to nicely let a girl know she IS puttin on weight?

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Alex

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ok i know im gonna get some flack for this... BUT

lately my girl has been packin a few extra lbs and shes like "do i look fat?" and of course im like "no baby you look gorgeous"

but lately, shes like "my ass is gettin bigger" and i look and im thinkin like "you're right, it is" ,... its not like im gonna stop dating her or anything we've been together for over a year now and i love her very much, but i dont like lying to her about that and the fact is that she has indeed put on a coule lbs... so what do i do?

just suck it up? i cant tell her because, well, she's a girl! lol she'll hate me! and id hate me too! i try to get her to come to the gym with me but she only likes goin with her girlfriends if she goes at all...

 
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MrYogi

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Originally posted by: Semidevil
just joke around and say something like "wow, those pants might have shrunk."
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or email her a link to this thread?

 
FoBoT

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she knows how much she weighs, whether she wants to do something about it, there is nothing you can do
 
freakflag

freakflag

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Buy her a mountain bike for Christmas.

Then tell her to get her fat ass on and ride it like she stole it.


That should work for ya.
 
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Help her lose some of the weight in the bedroom. I mean you really have to make her sweat, you should "workout" with her more often if necessary.

Basically I'm saying: Fvck the Fat off Her :D

:p ;)
 
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Grey

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Most of us want to avoid this situation at all costs. You want to BRING IT UP? Have you lost your mind!
 
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TommyVercetti

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Reminds me of the time when I broke a couple up because I called the girl fat. My classmate/friend introduces me to his girl friend. Later on I tell him, "Dude, she would be so hot, if she lost a little weight". Well sometime later, they had an argument, and he said "Oh and Tommy said you should lose some weight". Well that was it, the first spark in the break up. This caused things to rift apart, and they broke up a month later. I im'd her some time later (really to see if I could get some), and she said that I was responsible for their breakup because I put it in his head that she was fat. I didn't get any.
 
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Originally posted by: franguinho
ok i know im gonna get some flack for this... BUT

lately my girl has been packin a few extra lbs and shes like "do i look fat?" and of course im like "no baby you look gorgeous"

but lately, shes like "my ass is gettin bigger" and i look and im thinkin like "you're right, it is" ,... its not like im gonna stop dating her or anything we've been together for over a year now and i love her very much, but i dont like lying to her about that and the fact is that she has indeed put on a coule lbs... so what do i do?

just suck it up? i cant tell her because, well, she's a girl! lol she'll hate me! and id hate me too! i try to get her to come to the gym with me but she only likes goin with her girlfriends if she goes at all...
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ARE YOU FVUCKING INSANE? You NEVER tell a women that she is putting on weight. Unless you want her to break up with you or kill you.


sheesh. kids today i tell you. no sense at all.
 
freakflag

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I just looked at the pic in your sig....maybe you should just keep your mouth shut.;):beer:
 
AgaBoogaBoo

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Seriously, what you can do is the next time she says it, nicely and quietly tell her that she looks gorgeous no matter how she looks because its whats on the inside that count and such but that she has put on a few extra pounds, not really noticeable to most people except you since you see her a lot. That way she won't feel the whole world knows about it and feels good you fessed up.
 
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db

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She knows she is puttin on pounds, and wants you to say it's ok.
Usually this question is asked when there is NO change in weight.
There is probably no correct answer--just ask any married man.
Most likely, you're an @$$hole in her eyes if you say yes, and a liar if you say no, so you can't win.
 
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Alex

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Originally posted by: freakflag
I just looked at the pic in your sig....maybe you should just keep your mouth shut.;):beer:
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lol

she is gorgeous, i love her to bits. :heart:

but she could be even more gorgeous ;)
 
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Alex

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Originally posted by: db
She knows she is puttin on pounds, and wants to know if it's ok w/you.
Usually this question is asked when there is NO change in weight.
There is probably no correct answer--just ask any married man.
Most likely, you're an @$$hole in her eyes if yo say yes, and a liar if you say no, so you can't win.
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thats what i figured :(

 
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