YAGT: 6 years, and we're done

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
1) blaming alchohol for infidelity is a cowardice excuse

2) you cheated because you wanted to not because of alcohol

3) you weren't ready for marriage anyways, grow up and learn some personal responsibility

Did you not read the whole thread? Reading comprehension off? He admitted guilt. Takes a true man to admit when he's wrong.

 

[Baked]

Originally posted by: ScottFern
Was she at least hot?

Learn to read the OP. :roll:

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
1) blaming alchohol for infidelity is a cowardice excuse

2) you cheated because you wanted to not because of alcohol

3) you weren't ready for marriage anyways, grow up and learn some personal responsibility

I don't remember him saying he blamed the alcohol.

 

[Toasthead]

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: Toasthead

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: zendari
Least you didn't get married first.

that's what we both wanted though...

apparently thats not what you wanted...judging by your actions.

it is....i just messed up really bad. i got so drunk, i cheated on her and i've never done that in 6 years with her. i was so messed up i blacked out and threw up before i could "finish"

If you really loved her and wanted to be with her forever like you say, you would have been with her instead of letting yourself get to the point where you could act on your impluses. It is almost impossible for a guy to get raped...you wanted what you got.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
1) blaming alchohol for infidelity is a cowardice excuse

2) you cheated because you wanted to not because of alcohol

3) you weren't ready for marriage anyways, grow up and learn some personal responsibility

Did you not read the whole thread? Reading comprehension off? He admitted guilt. Takes a true man to admit when he's wrong.

I did read the thread

it is....i just messed up really bad. i got so drunk, i cheated on her and i've never done that in 6 years with her. i was so messed up i blacked out and threw up before i could "finish"

 

[Dacalo]

I am sorry what happened, although I will never condone cheating. That said, if you still love her, don't give up.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: Baked
You're Lance Bass?

baaaaaaaaahahahhahahah






ok seriously though, if you love her, you'll find a way to show her. If she says 'once a cheater always a cheater' or something of that ilk, tell her this; that a person will in certain extreme circumstances possibly cheat, but that by no means will they always do so, or does doing it once mean they ever will again. The person just has to be vigilant and make sure they don't get into the situation where they cheated, ever again.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: Toasthead

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: zendari
Least you didn't get married first.

that's what we both wanted though...

apparently thats not what you wanted...judging by your actions.

it is....i just messed up really bad. i got so drunk, i cheated on her and i've never done that in 6 years with her. i was so messed up i blacked out and threw up before i could "finish"

You don't get drunk and accidentally slip your d!ck in another girl. All the alcohol did was lower your inhibitions...

 

[ultimatebob]

Originally posted by: secretanchitman

Originally posted by: krunchykrome
WTF is up with everyone breaking up lately?

i know! first the 8.5 year one...now this!

sorry dude. hope everything works out for you. dont want to be rude, but...why is it your fault? i cant really think of anything to be honest.

Hey, it's summer. Lots of free time, skimpy clothing, and jacked up hormones. You figure it out.

 

[JS80]

1) how did you get it up while THAT drunk?

2) how did she find out?

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: ultimatebob

Originally posted by: secretanchitman

Originally posted by: krunchykrome
WTF is up with everyone breaking up lately?

i know! first the 8.5 year one...now this!

sorry dude. hope everything works out for you. dont want to be rude, but...why is it your fault? i cant really think of anything to be honest.

Hey, it's summer. Lots of free time, skimpy clothing, and jacked up hormones. You figure it out.

I would like to draw one similarity between these two cases that can quite possibly be significant in terms of a root cause.........

both relationships began first year in college(or before possibly?)

In all likelihood both couples never had a chance to sow their wild oats or experience life as an adult outside of the context of the relationship. The relationships defined who they were as people. College is meant to experiment and find out what you like for this reason I have seen that relationships that begin junior/senior years in college usually enjoy increased long term sucess.

Time to discover who you are outside of a relationship is critical, you need time to figure out what you like and dont like etc. Also between 18-mid twenties you do the most changing as a person so the person you dated at 18 is not the person your dating at 25.

just something to consider my .02 of trolling

 

[CPA]

Use the Bill Clinton defense:

"I didn't finish, so technically it wasn't really sex, ergo I didn't cheat on you."

 

[loup garou]

Pics of the other woman?

 

[Firetower]

he had gay secks

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: CPA
Use the Bill Clinton defense:

"I didn't finish, so technically it wasn't really sex, ergo I didn't cheat on you."

don't you mean "oral sex is not sex"?

 

[SurgicalShark]

Originally posted by: loup garou
Pics of the other woman?

you bastardo.

 

[MustangSVT]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: kmr1212
use your imagination

are you retarded just tell the whole story you attention whore.

i've said it in other threads and i'll repeat one more time.

STFU troll!

yeah im trolling :roll: your a loser and Im glad she ditched you.

if your gonna create an ATTN: whore thread tell the whole damn story.

from op's responds, I somehow agree.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Saulbadguy

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: Toasthead

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: zendari
Least you didn't get married first.

that's what we both wanted though...

apparently thats not what you wanted...judging by your actions.

it is....i just messed up really bad. i got so drunk, i cheated on her and i've never done that in 6 years with her. i was so messed up i blacked out and threw up before i could "finish"

You puked on a girl?

That's awesome.

i have a friend that pissed on a girl's bed before they got busy, as she was taking off her clothes. she felt the wet spot a short while after and he just made up some excuse about spilling his beer.


=|

LOL...how the fvck did he manage that? Could he just not hold it?

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Saulbadguy

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: Toasthead

Originally posted by: kmr1212

Originally posted by: zendari
Least you didn't get married first.

that's what we both wanted though...

apparently thats not what you wanted...judging by your actions.

it is....i just messed up really bad. i got so drunk, i cheated on her and i've never done that in 6 years with her. i was so messed up i blacked out and threw up before i could "finish"

You puked on a girl?

That's awesome.

i have a friend that pissed on a girl's bed before they got busy, as she was taking off her clothes. she felt the wet spot a short while after and he just made up some excuse about spilling his beer.


=|

LOL...how the fvck did he manage that? Could he just not hold it?

I think the question is why da fvck he would divulge this to anyone

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: kmr1212
We started dating our first year of college. We've had a couple of rough spots but not in a couple of years. We spent a lot of time together, and were going to get married in a couple of years. We were waiting because I wanted to have some more money and so she could finish grad. school. She's beautiful, smart, ambitious, sweet...I made a big mistake and now everything's over. Done.

I'm sorry. I'll always love you.

Us

So she's single again...

What's her phone #?

yes, i'm being a d1ck because you made this post, but purposely left out what the "mistake" was.

 

[MrChad]

Originally posted by: JEDI

Originally posted by: kmr1212
We started dating our first year of college. We've had a couple of rough spots but not in a couple of years. We spent a lot of time together, and were going to get married in a couple of years. We were waiting because I wanted to have some more money and so she could finish grad. school. She's beautiful, smart, ambitious, sweet...I made a big mistake and now everything's over. Done.

I'm sorry. I'll always love you.

Us

So she's single again...

What's her phone #?

yes, i'm being a d1ck because you made this post, but purposely left out what the "mistake" was.

READ THE THREAD

 

[clamum]

All hope's not lost. Win her back.