YAGT: 24 y/o with 5 year old kid

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tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: tami
i repeat the question that i posted in this thread. apparently, i'm not the only one who has that thought in their minds.

To kill down time at work... i'm too lazy to change my sig tho

changing your sig = another way to kill time at work.
 

mcvickj

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Dec 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: Ciber
Originally posted by: mcvickj
Originally posted by: Ciber
Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: Ciber
Leave before YOU get attached... right now you're sure you can easily leave her, but what if you start going out with this chick and slowly get attached? Then you'll be stuck with someone else's kid, and what if you end up paying child support because the kid gets attached to you etc...


RUN!!!

WTF, that's possible if the kid isn't mine?

Yes it is.


Huh? I call shens on that one. Unless he were to adpot the kid he wouldn't have any type of legal ties to him. How could the mother collect on child support?

I remember a thread here about a dude got stuck paying child support for a kid that wasn't his and i don't remember it saying the kid was adopted.

Was something along the lines of the child getting attached or whatever because of him being around and the kid looking at him as a father figure.


Either way you should run, there are plenty of women out there without a damn kid.


Look at it this way.... if the government can take your house so someone can build a hotel on your land... and parents can sue car companies when they run over their own children.... do you have any doubt that some woman can sue you for child support of a kid who thinks of you as his "daddy"?

-Max

Plenty. A simple DNA test would shoot down any claim to child support.
 

Mandos

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May 20, 2004
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oh AND yeah... dude.. she screwed you first time you hung out. or at leat did something with you beyond making out. thats slut material if I've ever come up with it.
 

Landroval

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
you get inimate with a girl and THEN wonder if it is worth persuing... ???

man, i must be old than I thought?

Nothing wrong with an indpendant single mom. They are strong, hard working and underappreciated. :)


:thumbsup:
 

Yossarian

Lifer
Dec 26, 2000
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Originally posted by: mcvickj
Plenty. A simple DNA test would shoot down any claim to child support.

negative ghostrider. there have been several reported instances of guys being forced to pay child support for children that are not theirs.
 

AccruedExpenditure

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May 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: Landroval
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
you get inimate with a girl and THEN wonder if it is worth persuing... ???

man, i must be old than I thought?

Nothing wrong with an indpendant single mom. They are strong, hard working and underappreciated. :)


:thumbsup:

You've got to remember, i didn' t know she had a kid till we were at her place...
 

Hottie

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Nov 29, 2002
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Man will tell you "run"

Woman will tell you "Depend on how much you love her....etc"

I will said try it or you will be sorry.
 

EatSpam

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Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: Ciber
Leave before YOU get attached... right now you're sure you can easily leave her, but what if you start going out with this chick and slowly get attached? Then you'll be stuck with someone else's kid, and what if you end up paying child support because the kid gets attached to you etc...


RUN!!!

WTF, that's possible if the kid isn't mine?

Kids are cool. They'll grow on you. You might find yourself sticking with this girl longer than you'd want because you like the kid.
 

V00DOO

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Dec 2, 2000
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You hit it now RUN. In some states you'll be force to pay child support even if it not your kid or even marry to her.
 

m2kewl

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Oct 7, 2001
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i wouldn't deal with kids until i'm in the 30's

hope you used protection :p

oh yes, unless she's really hot and you really want to deal with the issues - RUN!!!
 

sygyzy

Lifer
Oct 21, 2000
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Originally posted by: tami
Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: tami
i repeat the question that i posted in this thread. apparently, i'm not the only one who has that thought in their minds.

To kill down time at work... i'm too lazy to change my sig tho

changing your sig = another way to kill time at work.

Maybe I didn't catch the whole story, but why is this bothering you so much? Apparently, you ARE the only one that has this thought on your mind.
 

glugglug

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Jun 9, 2002
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Good luck with the child support payments DAD

P.S. Am I the only one that read the thread title and thought it the thread would be about a pedophile?
 

Buck Armstrong

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Dec 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: Ciber
Leave before YOU get attached... right now you're sure you can easily leave her, but what if you start going out with this chick and slowly get attached? Then you'll be stuck with someone else's kid, and what if you end up paying child support because the kid gets attached to you etc...


RUN!!!

WTF, that's possible if the kid isn't mine?

ONLY if you legally adopt the kid, which you have no reason to do, since it would mean the biological father no longer has to pay child support (so a dumb move for the girl and you.)