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YAGT: 2 girls, what to do?

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JonTheBaller

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I went on a date with this girl I met at the club last Thursday, and she's supposed to come over tomorrow (Wednesday) for dinner and a movie at my place. I can tell she really likes me, though we haven't done anything physically really.

Today I unexpectedly had dinner with this other girl who was in NYC for a few weeks and just came back in town. We hooked up for the first time today. Now she wants to come over tomorrow, and I didn't say anything to make it clear that she couldn't. I'm more interested in this girl than girl 1, but I also don't want her to think that I'll drop everything on a whim for her.

Of course I can't tell either girl about the other girl. Do I cancel on girl 1, or just tell girl 2 that I can't see her tomorrow? What do I say in either case?

TIA
 
Why not tell girl 2 you already have plans tomorrow but are available on Thursday? At this early stage, I don't see a problem with dating both, but I'd suggest narrowing it to one girl before getting into a relationship. 😉
 
Originally posted by: johnnytightlips
Dude, what do I do for tomorrow night though? Dude!
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LOL

Get them drunk. Dude! 😉

All women are just 1 drink away from being a lesbian. 😛
 
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Why not tell girl 2 you already have plans tomorrow but are available on Thursday? At this early stage, I don't see a problem with dating both, but I'd suggest narrowing it to one girl before getting into a relationship. 😉
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The problem is, I'm more interested in girl 2 but at the same time I like girl 1 and I made plans with her so I don't want to cancel on her. However, girl 2 will know something is up if I tell her all of a sudden that I have plans, even though I never mentioned any such plans when I saw her today and she said she wanted to come over.
 
Originally posted by: johnnytightlips
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Why not tell girl 2 you already have plans tomorrow but are available on Thursday? At this early stage, I don't see a problem with dating both, but I'd suggest narrowing it to one girl before getting into a relationship. 😉
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The problem is, I'm more interested in girl 2 but at the same time I like girl 1 and I made plans with her so I don't want to cancel on her. However, girl 2 will know something is up if I tell her all of a sudden that I have plans, even though I never mentioned any such plans when I saw her today and she said she wanted to come over.
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In all seriousness, I had to make this decision once too.

Its a tough call, because you don't know what will happen. You might suffer from the "What ifs".

I choose wisely, but I still got bit in the a$$. It was later that I met the woman I would eventually fall in love with. She was a friend of my first ex GF Angie.
 
About a month ago I had to make a choice between 2 girls, one that I liked and had known for awhile but never done anything physically with, one that I had just met, hooked up with, and could tell liked me alot, but I didnt know that well. I ended up going with the new girl, and haven't looked back, we've got a great relationship going and I couldn't be happier. Its the luck of the draw.
 
Originally posted by: johnnytightlips
I went on a date with this girl I met at the club last Thursday, and she's supposed to come over tomorrow (Wednesday) for dinner and a movie at my place. I can tell she really likes me, though we haven't done anything physically really.

Today I unexpectedly had dinner with this other girl who was in NYC for a few weeks and just came back in town. We hooked up for the first time today. Now she wants to come over tomorrow, and I didn't say anything to make it clear that she couldn't. I'm more interested in this girl than girl 1, but I also don't want her to think that I'll drop everything on a whim for her.

Of course I can't tell either girl about the other girl. Do I cancel on girl 1, or just tell girl 2 that I can't see her tomorrow? What do I say in either case?

TIA
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Rise to the occasion. Listen you have girl one over for dinner at 6 pm, you eat, put a scratched to hell dvd in the player, mess around with it for 10 minutes of so act really irritated your sh!t doesn't work, make meaningless conversation for another 20-30 minutes, act tired say you had a really great time but have to get up in the morning, send her on her way. Tell Girl 2 to come over about 9:30 for a movie, insert movie you were gonna watch with girl one, hookup half way through, send her packing, get a good nights sleep.
 
Originally posted by: johnnytightlips
Originally posted by: PingSpike
WTF did you not tell girl 2 you were busy?
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Yeah, I sorta blew it in that regard. Damn I'm still not sure what to do.
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Pick one girl to not go out with that night, whichever one its easier to lie too. Say your buddy/brothers girlfriend just dumped him and you have to take him out for drinks to try and cheer him up. I guess the buddy doesn't even really have to exist. Tell the girl you're wicked sorry and you feel terrible for canceling at the last minute on her like this and immediately say you want to make it up to her by taking her out to dinner this weekend.

Thats the best I got, I'm not good at this.

And for god sakes, don't double book again.
 
yeah really, keep the date with girl 1 and go out with girl 2 the next day. I've been in this situation before and one of them always winds up being all wierd but she's the one you decided on (too early) and now the cool chick's gone. I say play it out with two of them as long as you can, just make sure you got caller ID or you'll pick up the phone at the wrong time. If one chick sees the other chick calling just say it's a "good friend" and leave it at that.
 
or use my old trick....

Take one to lunch and spend some time....tell her you have plans for the evening.

Take the other one out to dinner.

old record was one for breakfast, one for lunch and the other for dinner. dang I was tired that day.
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You're not exclusive with either of these girls, so don't tell them about the other, just hang out with them on seperate occasions. You'll do better with both even cause you won't be desperate since you have a backup on each one.
 
you dog you


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2 girls at the same time man. apparantly thats the first thing many people would do if they win the lottery
 
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