YAGT: 2 ex-bf's of a girl start to communicate.

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Aharami

Lifer
Aug 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: CKent
I wouldn't even speak to a primate like that... but then, it would take a female primate to date one, and I wouldn't in turn date her, so I guess it's not a situation I'd ever have to deal with... *throws OP a banana*

:laugh: :laugh:
 

Scarpozzi

Lifer
Jun 13, 2000
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Tell him that you're going to write about him your your myspace account and let the world know what a tool he is. That'll show him. You could probably drop some stuff on Xanga too.....I'll give you some eprops if you want.
 

RagingBITCH

Lifer
Sep 27, 2003
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I'd tell him if he really wants to talk it over, come over to your house. You'll be the guy sitting on the porch with a 6 pack and a 12 gauge. Ask him if he really wants to break your legs again now that you're face to face.
 

DaShen

Lifer
Dec 1, 2000
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Hi OP,

:) Good email. Since you aren't really friends with the guy, you have no responsibility to clear things up with him. If he was a friend or someone you respected from before, then maybe there would be a need to explain yourself, but otherwise, not your problem.

Either, don't send the email and just don't say anything, or if you want to be clear, then send the email you made. It seems pretty straightforward and mature.

Good luck to you. Hopefully, things won't be weird between all of you, unless they have to be.
 

Injury

Lifer
Jul 19, 2004
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So which one of you gets to take her to Junior Prom?

You're both a couple of rejects. You both obviously don't realize there is a reason she is your ex.
 

DaShen

Lifer
Dec 1, 2000
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Originally posted by: postmortemIA
this guy is also now an ex-bf of my ex-gf.

do you see how ridiculous whole thing is

As long as he and the ex broke up on good terms and they still respect each other, then there is no problem just remaining friends. It just means that they aren't compatible for an exclusive relationship.

Of course, if the OP was trying to win the ex-girlfriends heart while the other person was dating the girl, that is foul on his side, but really, there is not enough information given to make that assessment, and added from what has been given, the friendship is innocent enough.
 

IceBergSLiM

Lifer
Jul 11, 2000
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you should have just signed him up for infinite spam. You are doing him to much justice with a full written reply.
 

FDF12389

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Sep 8, 2005
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Originally posted by: pontifex
so your ex-gf's other ex-bf is jealous of you?

can this get any more retarded?

Yes, it can get more retarded. Do a search for "YAGT" on google. This thread is only 5% retarded compared to what else you will find.
 
Jan 31, 2002
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Uh, I'm going to have to go with "Kick his ass" for $1000, Alex.

JoeSmith,

While I have no intentions of dating ExGF again, she's fair game because you two broke up. If you've got a problem with me remaining friends with her, feel free to step up and get knocked the f*ck out.

Love,

BillyBob

- M4H
 

Chrono

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Jan 2, 2001
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HAHAHA. Dude. The more I read this thread over, the funnier it gets actually.

I'd kick his ass if he continues to harass you for no apparent reason.
 

zerocool1

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Jun 7, 2002
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Originally posted by: BigToque
, I have absolutely no reason to think anything positive about you or your involvement with [ex-gf] (whatever that may be at this point in time or any time in the future).

My intentions for any relationship I have with anyone (platonic, romantic or otherwise), whether that be with [ex-gf] or anyone else, are of no concern to you.

i'm not sure if i'd say all thta
 

y2kc

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Sep 2, 2000
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Ignore him. He's subtly trying to control the situation behind the facade of sounding semi-reasonable whilst at the same time putting you on notice that he doesn't want you in her life.

I recently had a friends ex call me at 3 in the morning spouting rhetoric (he's gonna knock my head off, don't email or text her, it won't be pretty, etc.). I did not engage him at all and I accomplished 2 things;

1. I took the high road, so I scored points with woman.

2. It drove him nuts that all he got from me was a chuckle and a dial tone. his reaction was a real turn off for her (not that she was considering a reunion with him, but it made him look worse in her eyes and made her choice seem even wiser).

Let it slide, be the adult. He'll bury himself soon enough.