YAGT: 1 Week Plan

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atomicacid55

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January 13th

Called her up and asked her to go to a movie the next day.

Response: Sure what movie?

I pick a movie and then she asks who else is coming?. I guess that's supposed to mean I'm a friend only (ladder theory). Definitely the wrong ladder there. Of course I can't just stop there. I go WTF in my head, but I ask who's back at school already blah blah blah, and we talk a bit and then it's settled. We're going to movie. Whether someone else is going or not is up in the air.

Point is I feel like I'm shot.... Game Over? Insert Token?

January 10th

Got back from a 3 1/2 hr hangout or so. Her mom wanted her back home before dinner, so that was fine.

Unfortunately she's going back to school tomorrow. I didnt plan on returning till Sunday. FRACK. I'm busy Sunday and Monday nights too and shcool starts on Tuesday. I could possibly go back Friday or Saturday and ask her out for something on Saturday.

I figure I have to move in soon though after Saturday. Maybe at the end ask her out? Anyone?

January 9th

Ok. I got this 1 week plan basically for a girl I like. Well, it's more like I want to get this done with in one week because school will be starting and I don't want to deal with this when school starts. I'd rather have a result (either profit or pwned) in my hands by then.

I know this girl from class and from some extracurricular activities. We've hung out a couple times outside of class. She's really nice and cute + hot of course (IMO at least). I want. I know ATOT wants pics, but I can't provide you any in fear of my real identity being found UNLESS I score.. then maybe I'll think about it =P.

With only 1 week of break left, I decided to take action. I think we're good as friends, maybe not super close friends, but I'd rather try now rather than try to become very close friends because then there could potentially be plenty of drama there.

I called her up tonight and asked her to hang out tomorrow. She said yes. Of course this is just hanging out. I still got plenty of errands to run too before I move back to my apartment, so I'm obviously hoping we can hang again.

I don't know how best to do this because I can only ask her to hang out as a friend right now, but how do I make it clear to her that I like her? I mean I was thinking of maybe hanging out another day and then confessing at a more romantic spot or something. Ehhh... I'm a noob and totally inexperienced. Thus I'm seeking help from you ATOT! :)

Cliffs:
1) Like girl from school
2) Asked her out to hang out today
3) Wanna somehow get the message out to her by end of the week
4) Help me plz?

Edit: I promise to keep you guys all updated
 
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KarenMarie

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Originally posted by: ElMonoDelMar
What's with all the WWYBYWB stuff?
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three new posters within a few hours... two of which claim to be female. all have changed the default avatar, know the slang and use cliffs.

;)
 
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Sluggo

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Just make some crap up that you had a dream about her last night.

She will ask what was it about.

You ask her what she thought it should have been like.

Depending on how she pitches that...you might be able to take it for a homerun.
 
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atomicacid55

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: ElMonoDelMar
What's with all the WWYBYWB stuff?
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three new posters within a few hours... two of which claim to be female. all have changed the default avatar, know the slang and use cliffs.

;)
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Look. Let's just forget that for a second ok? I really need help here and I'm serious. I would rather be able to stay friends even if she says no to me, that's fine, but i wanna be friends.
 
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shimsham

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Originally posted by: Sluggo
Just make some crap up that you had a dream about her last night.

She will ask what was it about.

You ask her what she thought it should have been like.

Depending on how she pitches that...you might be able to take it for a homerun.
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not bad.

you could also just talk about how much fun youve had and how much you enjoy spending time with her. is she seems as into it as you are, then go from there. "maybe we could take this further?", or something along those lines. is shes game, great.

if shes not, then just give a short "thats cool. had to take a shot" type reply, and then just drop it. act like it never happened. dont mope or get all wierd about it. that may pluck the old "challenge" string, since you seem indifferent, and get her to want you.
 
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robothouse77

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1) where and what are you going to do while "hanging out".

2) depends on answer to 1)

3) if 1 is watching a movie or hanging out with friends, wait until an opportune time when friends are busy amongst themselves, take her aside and with as big and sparking eyes as possible, ask her if she would like to go to dinner with you. you MUST ask her looking in her eyes, with a bit of a smile.

She will pick up on what you are doing (most girls pick up on human expressions), and if she says yes and doesn't bring a friend, then it's settled.

Pretty easy huh?
 
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DougK62

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Do NOT "confess" some sort of romantic feelings for her. That is wussy bulls#it stuff. Don't TELL her that you're into her -- SHOW her. Show her that you have some backbone. Show her that you're fun to be with. Unless she's an idiot, she'll get the picture.

 
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NissanGurl

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**Warning: The following suggestion must be done with the right tone, look, and mood. I am not responsible for results, good or bad. You wanted a suggestion so here ya go:

Next time she's over and mentions her feet are aching offer her a foot massage (you may have to ask her if she wants a massage if the prementioned situation doesn't happen). Most women wear shoes designed for looks rather than comfort so more than likely she won't immediately turn you down. Give her a choice between some romantic, good smelling massage oil or some plain old lotion. You have to give "the devilish grin" when suggesting the oil though. If she chooses the oil over the lotion, you can try one step further and while you are massaging her feet start moving up to massaging her calf. If you meet no resistance or there is a moan of pleasure you are most likely "in." At that point make your move or continue moving the massage upward until you make your move.

Obviously if she chose the plain lotion, I would guess she's got you in the friend frame of mind.

Edit: You may want to note this has never happened to me, but it's all I could think of doing if you don't just want to come out and say "I like you more than a friend. If you feel the same GREAT, if not I still want to be friends." Or something like that....
 
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MisterJackson

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Originally posted by: NissanGurl
**Warning: The following suggestion must be done with the right tone, look, and mood. I am not responsible for results, good or bad. You wanted a suggestion so here ya go:

Next time she's over and mentions her feet are aching offer her a foot massage (you may have to ask her if she wants a massage if the prementioned situation doesn't happen). Most women wear shoes designed for looks rather than comfort so more than likely she won't immediately turn you down. Give her a choice between some romantic, good smelling massage oil or some plain old lotion. You have to give "the devilish grin" when suggesting the oil though. If she chooses the oil over the lotion, you can try one step further and while you are massaging her feet start moving up to massaging her calf. If you meet no resistance or there is a moan of pleasure you are most likely "in." At that point make your move or continue moving the massage upward until you make your move.

Obviously if she chose the plain lotion, I would guess she's got you in the friend frame of mind.

Edit: You may want to note this has never happened to me, but it's all I could think of doing if you don't just want to come out and say "I like you more than a friend. If you feel the same GREAT, if not I still want to be friends." Or something like that....
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so, do you prefer the oil or the lotion my lady?

<____Smiles with "Devilish grin"
 
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doze

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Lean over and whisper this in her ear "Hey baby are you gonna let me get that?" If she says yes then score if not then just play it off like a joke. I'm telling you it works dude.
 
slatr

slatr

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that is certainly one weak plan.

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Yeah! What if she has scraggle toe?

Do you prefer the hedge trimmers or the hacksaw my lady?

 
MustangSVT

MustangSVT

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wow.. so pathetic.

tell her that you really like her .

that's the risk you gotta take either way. dont pussy around it.. be a man.. -_-;
 
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NissanGurl

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Just trying to be helpful....guess he would have to sort through the numerous other suggestions and pick his favorite :roll:

BTW, never said it was a good plan, just a suggestion. I'm not the one looking for advise on an internet forum. He doesn't have to take my suggestion. And what are some "strong" plans? It's all too easy to criticize and not contribute.
 
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atomicacid55

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Ok, well I think we're just going to hang today and then before I drop her off at home or whatever I'll ask her if she wants to go on a date.. That could mean date like just hang out or sure maybe a step up right? I'll judge from there?

Crapo. Parents decide to go out today and I get the sh!tty car.... Grrrr

And I guess I agree with what you guys said.. More dates are necessary.
 
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