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YAG(ay)T: What really makes a person 'gay'?

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spiderrasmon

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I'm just wondering, I hear so much about gay rights, gay this, gay that, they even have schools for gay people...., what should be the legal/official/socially accepted definition for gay? what's the BARE MINIMUM requirement IYO?

I mean, how is a minor who's never had sex gay?
does cross-dressing make you gay? what about acting effeminate/butch?
does having a great fashion sense do it? what about if you like showtunes?
or think brad pitt is hot?

just wondering here... aaaaaaaand go!
 
good question, and ill add this

one one of the Real Sex shows on HBO a while ago they ran a story about straight men acting in Gay porn because it paied better, however they didnt think of themselfs as gay??? how does that work, they both gave and received
 
Well, gay is a slang word for homosexual. And Homosexual means:

Main Entry: 1ho·mo·sex·u·al
Pronunciation: "hO-m&-'seksh-(&-)w&l, -'sek-sh&l
Function: adjective
1 : of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward individuals of one's own sex ?compare HETEROSEXUAL 1a
2 : of, relating to, or involving sexual intercourse between individuals of the same sex ?compare HETEROSEXUAL 1b ?ho·mo·sex·u·al·ly /-E/ adverb
 
Originally posted by: Anubis
good question, and ill add this

one one of the Real Sex shows on HBO a while ago they ran a story about straight men acting in Gay porn because it paied better, however they didnt think of themselfs as gay??? how does that work, they both gave and received
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lol, that's funny. Reminds me of first-degree murder, in that being gay requires malicious forethought in addition to the actual act. 😛
 
Originally posted by: Anubis
good question, and ill add this

one one of the Real Sex shows on HBO a while ago they ran a story about straight men acting in Gay porn because it paied better, however they didnt think of themselfs as gay??? how does that work, they both gave and received
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Because they prefer women. The same as men in prison can participate in homosexual sex, but when released they prefer and pair up with women.

True homosexuality is a preference. The attraction. It is not the sex itself.
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: spiderrasmon
Originally posted by: meltdown75
gayness, mainly
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gee, thanks. you may step down now.
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well it's an extremely dumb question. 😀

edit: n00b
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is not, notice that the poll results show two schools of thought so far. intercourse versus intent. not a dumb question, you're a dumb-ass
 
sexual desire for the same sex

you can screw sheep, but if you still want to be bumming other men, you are still gay

though, you can screw other dudes and not be gay, and you can screw girls and be gay. its not an action or mannerism or philosophy
 
Originally posted by: spiderrasmon
is not, notice that the poll results show two schools of thought so far. intercourse versus intent. not a dumb question, you're a dumb-ass
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i apologize - yes it's Friday so i'm a dumbass today. what i meant was i don't believe there is any one tangible quality or action(s) inherent in gayness. there seem to be so many different types of gays - gay gays, straight-acting gays. well you get the idea. it's a gay world out there! :Q
 
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
sexual desire for the same sex

you can screw sheep, but if you still want to be bumming other men, you are still gay

though, you can screw other dudes and not be gay, and you can screw girls and be gay. its not an action or mannerism or philosophy
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Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
sexual desire for the same sex

you can screw sheep, but if you still want to be bumming other men, you are still gay

though, you can screw other dudes and not be gay, and you can screw girls and be gay. its not an action or mannerism or philosophy
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Dung, Ding, Ding - we have a winAr!
 
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