YABT: Saw someone I haven't seen since May 19th, 2002...

imported_Tomato

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I worked registration all night at BBoySummit's theater show yesterday (in charge of the guest list/talent). The performances were incredible, and after the shows, I sold water (only $2/bottle :p ). This guy walked up who looked incredibly familiar... he was a dancer in one of the shows, but I could've sworn I'd seen him before. He looked at me and said "You don't remember who I am, do you..."

It took a second, but then it clicked. I'd met him in Miami, last May... nothing happened, but we exchanged numbers and talked a LOT (almost every day) when I went back to school in Massachusetts. He was a great listener, and a very sweet guy overall... unfortunately, I had my number changed in September, and we stopped talking because I lost his number during the transfer and didn't have time to give him my new one.

So last night, the guy standing in front of me was HIM, the dancer I'd met in Miami over a year ago... apparently he's in town for BBoySummit, and will be here until Tuesday. We talked for a bit, and then he asked, "What happened to you? You just disappeared... I've been trying to call you forever. Hell, I just tried calling you again this morning."

Me: :confused: "This morning? Er... whatever..."

Him: "No, seriously... here, look..."

He showed me his cell, and true enough, my OLD cell phone number was listed as one of his earlier "Outgoing Calls."

I couldn't believe it. After over a year without seeing each other, and after I'd had a different number for TEN MONTHS, he was STILL trying to call.

I gave him my new number before I left, turned off my phone before I went to sleep, and woke up the next morning to see he'd already tried calling three times. :Q

My question: What the heck does all of that mean, if anything? Did he miss a really good friend, does he want to hook up (I don't suspect so, after all that time), is he really devoted/dedicated, or is he just is stupid?


Cliffnotes: Saw boy I haven't seen in over a year, he's been trying to call (using my old number) for the past 10 months, called me earlier yesterday morning (before I saw him again), what gives?
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Vortex22
Beware of Stalker! :confused:

That thought briefly came to mind, but he's genuinely a very kind person (at least, that's what I got from all the talks we had over the phone... we only spent a few hours together in person). And he's never asked for my address or anything... :eek:
 

rahvin

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He's hedging his bets, he wants in your pants. Or he's gay. Take your pick. :)
 

BruinEd03

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He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed
 

LordSnailz

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3 times in one night is a bit too much, unless he told you, he was going to call and kinda freak'd out since you didn't answer the phone ... unless you're a real hottie or a really really good friend, I wouldn't be crazy about calling back so soon ..
 

Aquaman

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Stalker?........... I think not. It's cool to get re-acquainted with people you like to talk to :D

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: BruinEd03
He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed

Right now, I'm interpreting it as "likes ya" in a friendly way. I mean, come on. Why would you call a girl eight states away every day for over a year (of which 10 months you don't hear from her (BECAUSE HER NUMBER IS DIFFERENT)), not knowing if you're ever going to see her again? He's an attractive guy, and I don't think he'd have any problem getting into some girl's pants.
 

Hammer

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he likes you a lot obviously, but damn...

he's either got OCD, a psycho, or a stalker. or all of the above. ;)

best case. 1/3 :p
 

TheNinja

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Stalkers can appear to be really nice guys. To me it sounds like you two got along great and now that he is in the area for a couple days he probably wants a piece of a$$. That doesn't mean he isn't a nice guy. He just seems to like you quite a bit....maybe too much for comfort if he called three times. But speaking from a guy's point of view.....he's horny ;)
 

newbiepcuser

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Okay, he likes you just like every other guy here on ATOT. If you like him, cool. If not, make it clear to him.



 

BruinEd03

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed

Right now, I'm interpreting it as "likes ya" in a friendly way. I mean, come on. Why would you call a girl eight states away every day for over a year (of which 10 months you don't hear from her (BECAUSE HER NUMBER IS DIFFERENT)), not knowing if you're ever going to see her again? He's an attractive guy, and I don't think he'd have any problem getting into some girl's pants.

cuz...there's always the chance. And it's not like he knew you didn't like him...you just disappeared suddenly.

-Ed
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: BruinEd03
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed

Right now, I'm interpreting it as "likes ya" in a friendly way. I mean, come on. Why would you call a girl eight states away every day for over a year (of which 10 months you don't hear from her (BECAUSE HER NUMBER IS DIFFERENT)), not knowing if you're ever going to see her again? He's an attractive guy, and I don't think he'd have any problem getting into some girl's pants.

cuz...there's always the chance. And it's not like he knew you didn't like him...you just disappeared suddenly.

-Ed

Do a lot of guys' minds work this way? It certainly seems like going down the path of most resistance. Gah.
 

Yax

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed

Right now, I'm interpreting it as "likes ya" in a friendly way. I mean, come on. Why would you call a girl eight states away every day for over a year (of which 10 months you don't hear from her (BECAUSE HER NUMBER IS DIFFERENT)), not knowing if you're ever going to see her again? He's an attractive guy, and I don't think he'd have any problem getting into some girl's pants.

1. You only want him as a friend because he's a nice guy and girls only go for bad boyz so too bad for him.
2. There's something wrong when a guy tries to call you that many times, its a sign of compulsive behavior, which equates to stalking as soon as you tell him no.
3. he'll be as nice as he can to get close to you, but when you let him in, he's not going to want to leave, again, sign of stalking coming on.
4. He's gonna kill you let him get close to you, you were stupid to give him your number, should have just asked for his and give him a call or something.
5. Do him and see if 3-4 come true, then I can say I told you so.
6. Harsh, but sometimes people need to be warned cruely to be saved.
 

richardycc

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I think this guy has issue, why would he keep trying to call that same number again after it was disconnected/changed? I hope he doesn't think that you will magically reassign that same number again in the future and answer his call one day.
 

BruinEd03

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed

Right now, I'm interpreting it as "likes ya" in a friendly way. I mean, come on. Why would you call a girl eight states away every day for over a year (of which 10 months you don't hear from her (BECAUSE HER NUMBER IS DIFFERENT)), not knowing if you're ever going to see her again? He's an attractive guy, and I don't think he'd have any problem getting into some girl's pants.

cuz...there's always the chance. And it's not like he knew you didn't like him...you just disappeared suddenly.

-Ed

Do a lot of guys' minds work this way? It certainly seems like going down the path of most resistance. Gah.

Yup.

-Ed
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: BruinEd03
He likes ya. <Insert Big Fat DUH! here>. Probably interested...yes...in that way.

-Ed

Right now, I'm interpreting it as "likes ya" in a friendly way. I mean, come on. Why would you call a girl eight states away every day for over a year (of which 10 months you don't hear from her (BECAUSE HER NUMBER IS DIFFERENT)), not knowing if you're ever going to see her again? He's an attractive guy, and I don't think he'd have any problem getting into some girl's pants.

cuz...there's always the chance. And it's not like he knew you didn't like him...you just disappeared suddenly.

-Ed

Do a lot of guys' minds work this way? It certainly seems like going down the path of most resistance. Gah.

A long shot booty call is better than no booty call, right? ;)