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linkgoron

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So me and this boy stared going out last week, and suddenly he wants us to move together! He told me that we're soulmates, and that we're perfect for eachother. I didn't want to be rude, so I told my parents to tell him that they won't allow us to move in together, because I'm still in school (I'm 15 and school is VERY important for me, but I told him that if my parents allowed it I would move...).
Anyway, he called me and told me that if he can't live with me he'll commit suicide (something about death being better than living unhappily...), he said he wants to shoot my parents! This guy is a complete stalker, he thinks he can get a job,study and get us a house, and that love will hold us together (what about the debt? :( )...He's living in a freaking Fantasy world...
Anyway, how can I get him off my back ATOT?:(
 
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EngenZerO

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cant... run and hide... do it now!!! wait he is probably watching you!!!


or

restraining order... or have one of you other male freinds kick the living snot out of him...
 
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JDrake

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:music:Every breath you take
Every move you make
Every bond you break
Every step you take
I'll be watching you:music:
 
ConwayJim

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Your right, he does sound like a stalker. Although you may like him, i think it's a pretty good idea to distance yourself from him; there are plenty of people out there; and you sound like an intelligent person.

When he starts disrespecting your family, i draw the line there; he's living in a fantasy and needs a reality check.

I think the best thing is to just come out and say that your not ready for a relationship at the moment, explain your situation and goals; if he truly likes you he'd respect your wishes....

that's all i have to say about the matter :)

good luck
 
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randomlinh

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Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: linkgoron
So me and this boy stared going out last week, and suddenly he wants us to move together! He told me that we're soulmates, and that we're perfect for eachother. I didn't want to be rude, so I told my parents to tell him that they won't allow us to move in together, because I'm still in school (I'm 15 and school is VERY important for me, but I told him that if my parents allowed it I would move...).
Anyway, he called me and told me that if he can't live with me he'll commit suicide (something about death being better than living unhappily...), he said he wants to shoot my parents! This guy is a complete stalker, he thinks he can get a job,study and get us a house, and that love will hold us together (what about the debt? :( )...He's living in a freaking Fantasy world...
Anyway, how can I get him off my back ATOT?:(
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The bolded makes me think that you are leading him on. Make it known ASAP that you are not interested. And, of course, if he has really threatened his life and those of your parents, call the police.
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please tell me that was a bad attempt at being funny

 
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Pegun

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Personally, have a big male friend of your pretend to be your boyfriend and threaten to beat his @$$. From experience this is the only way that will get him away.
 
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altonb1

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with the other thread getting so many hits...how did so many people miss the parody????
 
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bigrash

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i didn't see the other thread, but i think it was obvious that this was a parody or something
 
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