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WTF... my g/f called and told me she is pregnant *update*

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CrazyPerson

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she had me go wedding ring shopping with her few days back... now she is telling me she is pregnant... 😕 and she wont show me her test... 😕

update:
i guess she call and spoke to my mother... now mom wont stop bitching...
i met her mom for lunch and told her what happend... if she is really pregnant, she is about to know one way or another... why not come out and talk about it first... anyways. it seems to me that her mom does not know whats going on... and she will find out for sure and let me know asap... i am soo messed up... 🙁

update 2:
her mom just call and told she is pregnant... apparently, she saw the test

oh boy.... or girl... pulling my hair out
 
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: iamme why won't she show you the test?
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i dont know... i asked her to show me the result countless times... still say no
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Make sure it's your kid before you get married. Something smells fishy (no pun intended) if she won't show you the test.
 
There are several reasons why most religions preach abstinence - and this is at the top of the list. If you can't handle the responsibilities that come with engaging in intercourse you shouldn't be doing it.
 
Originally posted by: lager
You should of made sure she was on the pill.
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No. He should have made sure he was "safe."

Never trust a woman to use the protection.

I have known too many guys "trapped" with kids due to the woman deciding she wanted a kid.
 
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: iamme
why won't she show you the test?
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i dont know... i asked her to show me the result countless times... still say no
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Disturbing. Any rationale for refusing? Any rationale for calling you instead of telling you in person or her taking the test with you?

From the information given so far, I'd hazard a guess that neither one of you is emotionally or otherwise ready to handle a baby. If in fact that's what's actually happening here.
 
Originally posted by: Flyermax2k3
There are several reasons why most religions preach abstinence - and this is at the top of the list. If you can't handle the responsibilities that come with engaging in intercourse you shouldn't be doing it.
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Religion has nothing to do with this, and need not.
 
Originally posted by: Flyermax2k3
There are several reasons why most religions preach abstinence - and this is at the top of the list. If you can't handle the responsibilities that come with engaging in intercourse you shouldn't be doing it.
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I could not have put it better. You have no one to blame but yourself. This is one of the many reasons you should wait till marraige till you have sex. Sorry about your luck but hopefully someone else here can learn from your mistake.
 
i dunno why she won't show u the test results. i'd probably be pissed. but then again... if u told her u're pissed at that... she's probably get pissed at u for not trusting her. damn. this is a sticky situation.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
Originally posted by: iamme
why won't she show you the test?
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i dont know... i asked her to show me the result countless times... still say no
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Disturbing. Any rationale for refusing? Any rationale for calling you instead of telling you in person or her taking the test with you?

From the information given so far, I'd hazard a guess that neither one of you is emotionally or otherwise ready to handle a baby. If in fact that's what's actually happening here.
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my only guess she called to tell me is because she doesnt want to bug her for the test...😕
 
I would not believe a word that she's saying without seeing the test yourself. That coming from (indirectly personal) experience. A good friend of mine had a g/f pull that stunt... after he thought she was pregnant, he started thinking about marriage, he wasn't happy about having a kid, but he's a great guy and wanted to make the best of it. When he found out she was lying he dumped her.
 
The whole abstinence/safe sex issue is really a moot point here. You did it. It's done. But...please make sure she takes a test that you buy and stand right outside the door and then look at it. Marriage is fine and good, but she's already keeping secrets. There's no GOOD reason not to show you her test results.

I know a few girls that have claimed pregnancy and lied about it the whole time. I even know one girl who tells her man that she's pregnant to get something she wants and then when that starts to not work she fakes a miscarriage to get what she wants and the cycle goes on and on. I believe she's lost five pregnancies in the course of as many years and sadly for her she knows no facts about pregnancy or miscarriage and I do. So I'll ask her seemingly innocent questions and she answers me with something so off the wall that I know she's lying.

If she is pregnant you might hold off marriage until the child is born and you can have paternity tested. That may sound harsh, but I know where I live if you are married to the woman when a child is born you have to pay child support if there is a divorce regardless of whether you're the dad.

Good luck and I hope everything works out.
 
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