*wraps self in flame suit*
To be fair, many males "use females" as well. There are many men who will not hesitate to use women for sex, lying to them to get in their pants ("I love you!") or doing other deceptive, hurtful, or damaging things to have their sexual desires met.
I have had an unfortunate number of people use me for my financial resources, limited as though they may have been at the time. My willingness to help those supposedly in need has also been abused, and many times unreciprocated. You learn from these mistakes, and you grow from them.
The bottom line is, there are shady and despicable people of all genders. There are also good, kind, caring, wonderful people of all genders, and those are the people that I have chosen to surround myself with.
You also have a choice when it comes to who you choose as a friend, and it sounds like this particular individual may not be one that you should invest any further time or energy into, unless you like the drama.
To be fair, many males "use females" as well. There are many men who will not hesitate to use women for sex, lying to them to get in their pants ("I love you!") or doing other deceptive, hurtful, or damaging things to have their sexual desires met.
I have had an unfortunate number of people use me for my financial resources, limited as though they may have been at the time. My willingness to help those supposedly in need has also been abused, and many times unreciprocated. You learn from these mistakes, and you grow from them.
The bottom line is, there are shady and despicable people of all genders. There are also good, kind, caring, wonderful people of all genders, and those are the people that I have chosen to surround myself with.
You also have a choice when it comes to who you choose as a friend, and it sounds like this particular individual may not be one that you should invest any further time or energy into, unless you like the drama.
