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Would you spoon even if its all that you're going to get?

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Originally posted by: Descartes
Sure. I might have to turn in my man card after saying this, but one of the things I loved the most about my ex-girlfriend is that I could show up ~7AM at her place for a few hours of spooning followed by breakfast, nothing more. It's little things like that that I tend to remember and appreciate the most.
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Dam right.

The feeling of closeness is sweet :thumbsup:.

Koing
 
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
You need to learn to read women better then. Some women do like to be held, and to cuddle. If all you focus on is the pure act of sex, you won't get very far with women. You meet her needs, she'll meet yours, trust me on that.

When a guy pays attention to what my needs are, there is nothing else like it, because he cares, and that shows he is listening to me, and not just paying attention to what his d!ck is telling him. 😛 🙂
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Sing it, sister!! 😀
 
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
You need to learn to read women better then. Some women do like to be held, and to cuddle. If all you focus on is the pure act of sex, you won't get very far with women. You meet her needs, she'll meet yours, trust me on that.

When a guy pays attention to what my needs are, there is nothing else like it, because he cares, and that shows he is listening to me, and not just paying attention to what his d!ck is telling him. 😛 🙂
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Sing it, sister!! 😀
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:spoon;
 
But descartes, would you have enjoyed it as much without breakfast?? What kind of woman is this where you go for breakfast away from your home multi-million dollar coffee maker?

I am not sure if I would spoon in this situation. I have had "Friends" cuddle a bit and it never went anywhere, just a female hormone "my boyfriend is across the country and my hormones are raging" thing.

But if there is breakfast involved, maybe.

Speaking of which, I'm late for breakfast with someone where there will be no spooning (probably).
 
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
You need to learn to read women better then. Some women do like to be held, and to cuddle. If all you focus on is the pure act of sex, you won't get very far with women. You meet her needs, she'll meet yours, trust me on that.

When a guy pays attention to what my needs are, there is nothing else like it, because he cares, and that shows he is listening to me, and not just paying attention to what his d!ck is telling him. 😛 🙂
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Sing it, sister!! 😀
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:thumbsup:😀

Get it on!
 
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
You need to learn to read women better then. Some women do like to be held, and to cuddle. If all you focus on is the pure act of sex, you won't get very far with women. You meet her needs, she'll meet yours, trust me on that.

When a guy pays attention to what my needs are, there is nothing else like it, because he cares, and that shows he is listening to me, and not just paying attention to what his d!ck is telling him. 😛 🙂
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Sing it, sister!! 😀
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:thumbsup:😀

Get it on!
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:laugh:

 
snuggling up close to my husband at the end of the day is one of the best parts of my day. So big,so well muscled, so strong, smells so good.... hmmmmmbetter stop now 😛
 
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
You need to learn to read women better then. Some women do like to be held, and to cuddle. If all you focus on is the pure act of sex, you won't get very far with women. You meet her needs, she'll meet yours, trust me on that.

When a guy pays attention to what my needs are, there is nothing else like it, because he cares, and that shows he is listening to me, and not just paying attention to what his d!ck is telling him. 😛 🙂
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Sing it, sister!! 😀
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See, it's either selfish men focusing on nothing but sex or selfish women bitching about how their needs come first.

Either way, both parties are pathetic wastes and horrid partners.
 
Originally posted by: Fullmetal Chocobo
Didn't pay $150 for that first date? :laugh:
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Wanna spoon when you get home? 😉

And as I recall our first date was over $70 so that is nothing to sneeze at. Though, Mark was there also because you didn't have a license yet...
 
No, because if it's not leading to sex, then I've got better things to do than to be some ditzy broad's cuddle bitch.
 
Originally posted by: lizardth
Originally posted by: Fullmetal Chocobo
Didn't pay $150 for that first date? :laugh:
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Wanna spoon when you get home? 😉

And as I recall our first date was over $70 so that is nothing to sneeze at. Though, Mark was there also because you didn't have a license yet...
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Sure.
 
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
You need to learn to read women better then. Some women do like to be held, and to cuddle. If all you focus on is the pure act of sex, you won't get very far with women. You meet her needs, she'll meet yours, trust me on that.

When a guy pays attention to what my needs are, there is nothing else like it, because he cares, and that shows he is listening to me, and not just paying attention to what his d!ck is telling him. 😛 🙂
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I am sure you can find a lot of guys who can attest to being "used" for whatever purposes only to be turned down when he asks for a date.
 
This question needs clarification. If you're talking about spooning with a women who you are getting more intimate with then that's one thing. It might not be just then, but that's ok since spooning is great. If you're talking about a women who keeps shooting you down and only wants to spoon then that's another thing.

Don't waste your time with a women who is uncomfortable with her sexual being and puts a wall up at spooning. If all you're doing is spooning then that's awkward. Something is wrong. How much spooning are we talking about here? Are you like the spoon master? Date older women and this won't be a problem imop.
 
Originally posted by: astrocase
This question needs clarification. If you're talking about spooning with a women who you are getting more intimate with then that's one thing. It might not be just then, but that's ok since spooning is great. If you're talking about a women who keeps shooting you down and only wants to spoon then that's another thing.

Don't waste your time with a women who is uncomfortable with her sexual being and puts a wall up at spooning. If all you're doing is spooning then that's awkward. Something is wrong. How much spooning are we talking about here? Are you like the spoon master? Date older women and this won't be a problem imop.
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Tell her that if she doesn't start putting out you're just going to spoon with the cat or dog since they at least lick you.

Seriously, I don't have time for a woman who just wants to spoon. That would just frustrate me and ruin the relationship if there ever was going to be one.
 
Originally posted by: astrocase
Tell her that if she doesn't start putting out you're just going to spoon with the cat or dog since they at least lick you.

Seriously, I don't have time for a woman who just wants to spoon. That would just frustrate me and ruin the relationship if there ever was going to be one.
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...so what you're saying is that relationship == sex?
 
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