Would you guys date a skinny girl?

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LordMaul

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I need boobs. If I wanted flat-chested, I'd date a man.

I got boobs. Let's get it on, big boy. :lips:


 

SilverThief

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I like a real woman...thick, meat on her bones...not afraid to wolf down a porterhouse steak and belch afterwards.
:)
Thats just me though...
 

Kadarin

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As MichaelD says, it's all about proportion and the classic hourglass figure. Deviate from that by too much in either direction, and the sexual chemistry will just not be there.
 

hdeck

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not bone thin. don't want to crush the poor thing ;) girl has to have some meat on her.
 

Aquaman

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Originally posted by: LordMaul
I need boobs. If I wanted flat-chested, I'd date a man.

I got boobs. Let's get it on, big boy. :lips:

No pics please :D

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Ronstang
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
A better question might be would you date a guy that got off on being as breath takingly cruel as some here appear to do?
I'm sorry but having likes and dislikes is not being cruel. Whether I agree with these guys or not doesn't matter but it isn't fair for you to call them cruel for not being attracted to "fat girls". While they might come off rather crass and insensitive here where they are anonymous I highly doubt most or any of them would be cruel to a girl in person over her weight. I personally am not attracted to larger women myself but I would never consider myself cruel. I have slept with some larger women from time to time, mostly because I was free and everyone needs some loving now and then, but I was always up front with them about not being intereested in a relationship.

nobody was talking about going against your preferences.. bragging about spitting on women or telling them off in public restaurants because they don't meet your standards is cruel though.
 

giguana

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it all depends on how skinny. i'm not a small guy myself so i'm not extremely picky. i don't like a girl that i feel like i'm going to break by holding her. my gf is the smallest girl i've ever dated, she's 5'0" and 110 lbs. but she's strong so i don't feel like i'll break her.
 

AreaCode707

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Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)
 

Hammer

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Ronstang
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
A better question might be would you date a guy that got off on being as breath takingly cruel as some here appear to do?
I'm sorry but having likes and dislikes is not being cruel. Whether I agree with these guys or not doesn't matter but it isn't fair for you to call them cruel for not being attracted to "fat girls". While they might come off rather crass and insensitive here where they are anonymous I highly doubt most or any of them would be cruel to a girl in person over her weight. I personally am not attracted to larger women myself but I would never consider myself cruel. I have slept with some larger women from time to time, mostly because I was free and everyone needs some loving now and then, but I was always up front with them about not being intereested in a relationship.

nobody was talking about going against your preferences.. bragging about spitting on women or telling them off in public restaurants because they don't meet your standards is cruel though.

i think that guy was the exception rather than the rule.

 

MichaelD

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Jan 16, 2001
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Originally posted by: LordMaul
I need boobs. If I wanted flat-chested, I'd date a man.

I got boobs. Let's get it on, big boy. :lips:

:Q *backs out of room, hands covering butt* :Q
 

Aquaman

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Dec 17, 1999
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Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: LordMaul
I need boobs. If I wanted flat-chested, I'd date a man.

I got boobs. Let's get it on, big boy. :lips:

:Q *backs out of room, hands covering butt* :Q

Psssst.......... I can sell you an anal chastity belt ;) :D

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

amnesiac

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Oct 13, 1999
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Skinny, model-esque girls may look good, but if I feel like I'm going to snap 'em in two when I hug them, that's not cool.
I'd rather have a girl slightly overweight than underweight. Curves = good. Boney = bad.
 

Hammer

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)

i don't mind thin. unhealthy thin is different though. i don't want a chick with sunken eyes.
 

WinkOsmosis

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)

I am alone, kthx.
 

her209

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Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: HotChic
Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)
The general rule is that guys will date girls of proportionate size to them.
 

Booster

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Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: HotChic
Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)
The general rule is that guys will date girls of proportionate size to them.

If you're not Tom Cruise, of course.
 

AreaCode707

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Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: HotChic
Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)
The general rule is that guys will date girls of proportionate size to them.

I should note that I'm not ragging on anyone for their preferences. Naturally, most people want someone as physically attractive to them as possible. I think the original thread was asking, would you choose NOT to date someone you were otherwise attracted to if they were fat.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Most of you guys seem to rule out both "skinny" and "fat" girls. Sorry to tell you, this is probably most of the population of females. The majority of you, unless you're flexible with your standards, sound like you'll wind up alone. :)

This is true, and in fact I'd argue that most people are flexible at least to some extent with their standards, because otherwise there'd be a lot fewer truly repulsive people in this world. This doesn't just apply to men; women also have physical standards.. How many of you women would even consider dating a really short guy, for example?
 

Geekbabe

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You gotta have some physical attraction in an intimate relationship.That said though,I try to keep myself in reasonable shapeI'm not miss universe but I can out run,out work,out party a lot of folks half my age,I earn a great salary,build a nice computer and actually laugh sometimes in real time,I also have a curious ability to get a golf ball thru a garden hose ,I'm no cover girl but I deserve no less than the best imho :)