would you get with someone that had a history of cheating?

Maverick

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just a morality question here. Personally I wouldn't because I'm a strong believer in the saying "once a cheater always a cheater".
 

trmiv

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No, I couldn't trust them. Even if they claimed they had changed, it would always be in my mind.
 

Pepsei

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a lot of people are closet cheaters so you can never tell.....

but, 'get with someone' could also mean that you are the 'other guy' who caused her to cheat.....
or you just want some action, and what better than getting with someone whom you know won't have a lasting relationship?


personally, i wouldn't
 

Balt

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There are certain behaviors that seem to be permanent in most people. I've never met someone who cheats and steals and then just gives it up one day. They will promise to but in my experience they never give it up because they don't actually believe there's anything wrong with it.

So no. :p
 

Hammer

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lol, I'll have to remember that quote. :D



<< Remember the 3 F's

Find em
F_ _k em
and Flee
>>

 

mdennison

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It kinda sux to face reality, but 4/5 people I know cheat. Does not matter if they are guy or girl. Thats why i'm still single...

But yes, dating is just dating, not getting married...
 

b0mbrman

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I might "get with" them...but I wouldn't want to be with them for any period of time.

It isn't of a morality question for me, it's just about protecting myself...
 

Murphyrulez

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Phrase the question differently : Would you have a relationship with someone who lies to you? Of course not!! Why would you!