Would you ever date a girl that has had an abortion?

[Kelvrick]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So you don't consider the fact that she may not be comfortable talking to you about those things yet? Like she made mistakes with past guys thinking they were someone they weren't. The more you reply, the more I think I'm happy you wouldn't consider them because then I'd feel sorry for them being with you. They might like you and then will just end up getting hurt when you decide they aren't your idea of pure and good.

If you find someone that thinks like you though, then kudos.

 

[Thegonagle]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

Threesome?

(You be 'da meat in 'da sandwich, baby!)

 

[dquan97]

depends on the circumstances of why she did it

 

[Whisper]

Yes

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So what do you do, ask "have you ever had an abortion" as part of your prepared questionnaire? She'd have to volunteer that information, and she has every right not to do so. Even if you had the chutzpah (and bad taste) to ask, what if she answered with something like "I refuse to answer on the grounds that I believe that I have the right to keep this information private" or simply "that's none of your business"? You would then dump her? Wow... in that case, she'd be better off without you, that's for sure.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: nick1985


my girlfriend hasnt had sex. so yes, i do think there are people who have abstained...heaven forbid.

She just hasn't had sex with you.

 

[iwearnosox]

Originally posted by: Thegonagle

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

Threesome?

That's it, I need a beer.

 

If they had an abortion, they are easy.
So yes.

 

[MiniDoom]

I?ve done worse things as a teenager.

 

[Thegonagle]

:beer::beer:

(Catch my edit too. )

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

It's a no go then.

 

[dirtboy]

You bet. That way if she accidentally gets pregnant again, she already knows the routine.

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: Kelvrick

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So you don't consider the fact that she may not be comfortable talking to you about those things yet? Like she made mistakes with past guys thinking they were someone they weren't. The more you reply, the more I think I'm happy you wouldn't consider them because then I'd feel sorry for them being with you. They might like you and then will just end up getting hurt when you decide they aren't your idea of pure and good.

If you find someone that thinks like you though, then kudos.

I get right to the point. I find out a girl's views and history on sex, politics, religion, and whatever else right away.

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So what do you do, ask "have you ever had an abortion" as part of your prepared questionnaire? She'd have to volunteer that information, and she has every right not to do so. Even if you had the chutzpah (and bad taste) to ask, what if she answered with something like "I refuse to answer on the grounds that I believe that I have the right to keep this information private" or simply "that's none of your business"? You would then dump her? Wow... in that case, she'd be better off without you, that's for sure.

Sure, I'll straight up ask after we've talked about ourselves a bit. If she say's it's none of my business then she's not an open person and I'd drop her right then.

 

[luv2chill]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

It's a no go then.

LOL!!!! What about if her second cousin was gay? Is that far enough removed for ya? What if her uncle's first wife had an abortion? No go?

You're destined to be single. Fact is, there are just no perfect people out there, well except for you of course.

l2c

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So what do you do, ask "have you ever had an abortion" as part of your prepared questionnaire? She'd have to volunteer that information, and she has every right not to do so. Even if you had the chutzpah (and bad taste) to ask, what if she answered with something like "I refuse to answer on the grounds that I believe that I have the right to keep this information private" or simply "that's none of your business"? You would then dump her? Wow... in that case, she'd be better off without you, that's for sure.

Sure, I'll straight up ask after we've talked about ourselves a bit. If she say's it's none of my business then she's not an open person and I'd drop her right then.

So... I'm going to guess that you've never had a girlfriend.

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: luv2chill

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

It's a no go then.

LOL!!!! What about if her second cousin was gay? Is that far enough removed for ya? What if her uncle's first wife had an abortion? No go?

You're destined to be single. Fact is, there are just no perfect people out there, well except for you of course.

l2c

I'm not single. I have a gf that's loving and sweet... she shares most of my views, but she's just a touch less conservative than I am.

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: luv2chill

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

It's a no go then.

LOL!!!! What about if her second cousin was gay? Is that far enough removed for ya? What if her uncle's first wife had an abortion? No go?

You're destined to be single. Fact is, there are just no perfect people out there, well except for you of course.

l2c

I'm not single. I have a gf that's loving and sweet... she shares most of my views, but she's just a touch less conservative than I am.

But you've never asked her if she's had an abortion have you?

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: tweakmm

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So what do you do, ask "have you ever had an abortion" as part of your prepared questionnaire? She'd have to volunteer that information, and she has every right not to do so. Even if you had the chutzpah (and bad taste) to ask, what if she answered with something like "I refuse to answer on the grounds that I believe that I have the right to keep this information private" or simply "that's none of your business"? You would then dump her? Wow... in that case, she'd be better off without you, that's for sure.

Sure, I'll straight up ask after we've talked about ourselves a bit. If she say's it's none of my business then she's not an open person and I'd drop her right then.

So... I'm going to guess that you've never had a girlfriend.

I do, she talks to me about everything.

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: tweakmm

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: luv2chill

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

It's a no go then.

LOL!!!! What about if her second cousin was gay? Is that far enough removed for ya? What if her uncle's first wife had an abortion? No go?

You're destined to be single. Fact is, there are just no perfect people out there, well except for you of course.

l2c

I'm not single. I have a gf that's loving and sweet... she shares most of my views, but she's just a touch less conservative than I am.

But you've never asked her if she's had an abortion have you?

I have, she hasn't.

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: tweakmm

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: luv2chill

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

What if she had a brother that was homosexual?

It's a no go then.

LOL!!!! What about if her second cousin was gay? Is that far enough removed for ya? What if her uncle's first wife had an abortion? No go?

You're destined to be single. Fact is, there are just no perfect people out there, well except for you of course.

l2c

I'm not single. I have a gf that's loving and sweet... she shares most of my views, but she's just a touch less conservative than I am.

But you've never asked her if she's had an abortion have you?

I have, she hasn't.

Wow... just wow. I think if I was a girl and some guy flat out asked me if I had an abortion I would wonder what kind of arrogant prick I got involved with and dump his ass right then.

Did you use a little tact(well, as much as you can have inquiring about past abotions) or did you just say "hey baby, have you ever had an abortion?"

 

[FrustratedUser]

Sure, why not?

 

[luv2chill]

How about if her long-lost half sister had an abortion in 1975. Would you dump her?

l2c

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I highly doubt you're going to be made privy to that info on the first date,if ever.

Which brings up the question (to the original poster): Would you date a girl who won't tell you whether or not she has had an abortion?

I tend to think that most guys here who say "hell no" would seriously think twice or change their minds if actually confronted with the situation. What if you start dating a girl, get attached, fall in love, and so on and so forth, and then learn down the line that she has had an abortion in the past?

Personally, it doesn't bother me at all.

I would date her at first. But when talk of sex and past experiences comes up I would dump her in a heartbeat if she wasn't completely honest and forthcoming. I don't seriously date anyone that's not a potential wife... And I won't have a wife that try's to hide things.

So what do you do, ask "have you ever had an abortion" as part of your prepared questionnaire? She'd have to volunteer that information, and she has every right not to do so. Even if you had the chutzpah (and bad taste) to ask, what if she answered with something like "I refuse to answer on the grounds that I believe that I have the right to keep this information private" or simply "that's none of your business"? You would then dump her? Wow... in that case, she'd be better off without you, that's for sure.

Sure, I'll straight up ask after we've talked about ourselves a bit. If she say's it's none of my business then she's not an open person and I'd drop her right then.

That's your choice, and that's fine. However, I think the majority of people share a slightly more practical point of view.

 

[Thegonagle]

Originally posted by: tweakmm

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: tweakmm
But you've never asked her if she's had an abortion have you?

I have, she hasn't.

Wow... just wow. I think if I was a girl and some guy flat out asked me if I had an abortion I would wonder what kind of arrogant prick I got involved with and dump his ass right then.

I wouldn't ask, because if the next word out of her mouth wasn't "Taxi!," I'd be afraid I was dealing with someone without a ton of self-respect, or common sense. (Talk about a catch 22!)