would you ever consider getting married just to have a baby?

moshquerade

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i know someone who is doing this, and while the couple are really great friends, too, she really doesn't "love" him, but wants a baby that bad, and won't do it unless they are married. he, on the other hand, has loved her and wanted to marry her for quite some time. he knows she doesn't quite have the same deep feelings for him and wants to have a baby with her, but he loves her enough to feel it's going to work.
 

Ameesh

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sounds like a mistake to me, eventually people are going to resent each other. marriage isnt about babies.

EDIT: I am not married, so what do i know...
 

Orsorum

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Oh my. Seriously, fvck her and all demented people like that. I have no patience for such selfish people.
 

hjo3

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Sounds like it'll work if she doesn't change her mind down the line. Women being what they are, I bet she wakes up in eight years and starts bitching about being trapped in a loveless marriage. Great recipe to produce a messed up kid.
 

moshquerade

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i know it's messed up... but i hope it works for the sake of all involved, because they are going forward with it.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Sounds like it'll work if she doesn't change her mind down the line. Women being what they are, I bet she wakes up in eight years and starts bitching about being trapped in a loveless marriage. Great recipe to produce a messed up kid.

And fvck over the man.
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: hjo3
Sounds like it'll work if she doesn't change her mind down the line. Women being what they are, I bet she wakes up in eight years and starts bitching about being trapped in a loveless marriage. Great recipe to produce a messed up kid.

And fvck over the man.
Well that's a given. :D
 

jaedaliu

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If she respects him, it can work. my parents have been married for 30 years, and they never felt the spark. (kind of an arranged marriage) My mom always tells the story about how she always thought my dad was a lazy bum, and the only reason she married him was that she was getting old and he was her "last chance"

fast forward to now, 2 kids, still together, and they bicker like an old, married couple.
 

SnOop005

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Kinda selfish on her part, what if the marriage turns out to be a diaster then the baby have to live through with the fights/divorce.
 

shilala

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Sounds like your typical selfish, self-serving, self-important female.
So long as she's happy, that's the important thing.
 

Saulbadguy

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She could have a baby without getting married. I'm assuming she is just mentally retarded.
 

KingPhil

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They will have a baby, and then she will get REAL bitchy and leave him....... only to stick him with child support payments for a kid he'll never get to see......
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: m2kewl
i'd use a condom just to piss her off!
but he wants to have a baby with her. this guy really loves her.

Why doesn't she reciprocate his feelings then..

GF = curb

Women are too plentiful in this world to not find one that will love you back.
 

Nomada

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Stuff like that is all too common. This girl ever say she's been in love with anyone else? I bet not. Marriage of convenience; that's damn near one out of every two isn't it. I say why not though.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Saulbadguy
She could have a baby without getting married. I'm assuming she is just mentally retarded.
no... she's not. she just wants to be married before she has a baby.

 

jamesbond007

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Originally posted by: m2kewl
i'd use a condom just to piss her off!

LMFAO!

I honestly can't believe the guy would be so dumb and blind to walk into such a b!tch trap. Sad day for us guys...