Would you date someone that was a victim of a child molester ?

[WyteWatt]

Would you?

 

[Toastedlightly]

Depends.

 

Nope...too many issues to deal with.

 

[aidanjm]

um, sure, why not?

 

[dugweb]

sure, but id be afriad of her getting too attached and feeling like there was no way out of the relationship, so no

 

[WyteWatt]

Originally posted by: jumpr
Nope...too many issues to deal with.

What if they didn't tell you till after you all were married ? :Q

 

[yllus]

hi imtim83

If she was crazy (well, crazier than the average female), no.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: jumpr
Nope...too many issues to deal with.

What if they didn't tell you till after you all were married ? :Q

You just turned this thread into a repost.

For what it's worth:
No, imtim83, I would not date you.

 

[Amplifier]

I'd make her call me daddy.

 

[thegimp03]

No, I wouldn't. Too much other stuff to deal with.

 

[Pepsei]

sure.

 

[DeadByDawn]

Been there, wouldn't go back.

 

[Mojoed]

Like any relationship, it completely depends on the person.

 

[DAGTA]

Yes. Take it on a case by case basis, like I do with most dating criteria.

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: aidanjm
um, sure, why not?

 

[shimsham]

just depends on the person and how it effects them. if their whole life revolved around that one horrible thing that happened to them in the past, probably not. if its something that happened in the past and they dont let it dictate how they live their life today, id date them with admiration.

 

[BD2003]

Funny, I never really put two and two together, but now that I think of it, it sure does explain a lot.

 

[isasir]

What's with all the child molester threads today, imtim83?

 

[exilera]

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: jumpr
Nope...too many issues to deal with.

What if they didn't tell you till after you all were married ? :Q

Personal experience?

 

[WyteWatt]

Originally posted by: exilera

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: jumpr
Nope...too many issues to deal with.

What if they didn't tell you till after you all were married ? :Q

Personal experience?

Nope I don't date, have any relationships ever, and will never get married so I will never have this problem.

I hate all human beings.

 

[MaverickBP]

i have and its not an easy thing to deal with..but if you care for the person..you'll do what you can to help

 

[Mrvile]

If they had enough issues to bother you, wouldn't you notice before you married them?

And for the OP, not likely.

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: exilera

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: jumpr
Nope...too many issues to deal with.

What if they didn't tell you till after you all were married ? :Q

Personal experience?

Nope I don't date, have any relationships ever, and will never get married so I will never have this problem.

I hate all human beings.

It's a good thing everyone posting on Anandtech is a robot or a small furry animal.

Me, I'm a talking cow. Moo.

 

[KarenMarie]

depends... if they had worked their sh!t out or were working their sh!t out... maybe.

but there is a HUGE difference between a VICTIM of something and a SURVIVOR of something.

i would consider the latter, but never the former.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: exilera

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: jumpr
Nope...too many issues to deal with.

What if they didn't tell you till after you all were married ? :Q

Personal experience?

Nope I don't date, have any relationships ever, and will never get married so I will never have this problem.

I hate all human beings.

:roll:
Go live by yourself in a shack in the woods of Montana or something.