Would you consider this person a veteran?

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OP's friend is definitely questionable in character. But he served so he IS a vet. Even if he was just running away from a GF and went kicking and screaming all the way... He's still a vet.




Not all vets are Audie Murphy.
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
OP's friend is definitely questionable in character. But he served so he IS a vet. Even if he was just running away from a GF and went kicking and screaming all the way... He's still a vet.




Not all vets are Audie Murphy.

fvck. not all? hahah

that man rules. remember reading about him in highschool. just amazing.
 

ScottyB

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Why do you care? Or is it just that you are a bigger loser, can't get any, and are jealous?
 

BoomerD

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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: potato28
If he's feeling bad, let him have it. But truly, he aint no vetren because he didnt do any fighting...

my Father-in-law was over in Vietnam. but he was a cook. never shot a gun at anyone while over there. (spent 2 in Vietnam) so is he a veteran? he didn't do any fighting..


If he was a cook in Vietnam, he may not have seen actual combat, but he may have killed lots of people...;) ROFL! Military cooks tend to be some of the worst in the world. Not always because they lack any basic skills, but because of what they have to work with, (often) working conditions, and the quantities they prepare...
Having said that, I miss chow hall SOS...
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: potato28
If he's feeling bad, let him have it. But truly, he aint no vetren because he didnt do any fighting...

my Father-in-law was over in Vietnam. but he was a cook. never shot a gun at anyone while over there. (spent 2 in Vietnam) so is he a veteran? he didn't do any fighting..


If he was a cook in Vietnam, he may not have seen actual combat, but he may have killed lots of people...;) ROFL! Military cooks tend to be some of the worst in the world. Not always because they lack any basic skills, but because of what they have to work with, (often) working conditions, and the quantities they prepare...
Having said that, I miss chow hall SOS...


ha! he has told me some of the stuff he had to do to get a meal for his guys. while he said he made sure the lower ranked guys got the good stuff (even when they were not sopposed to) it was still very very bad.
 

shortylickens

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
He ended up on an aircraft carrier off of japan. He never saw combat, or was ever within 8,000 miles of it. He constantly bitched while in the navy about how bad it sucked.

Sorry man, but I have to agree with the other folks here.
Your bud is a LOSER.

I did 9 years. The people who complain the most about the Navy are the ones who have it too easy anyway.
This is especially bad with the sorry-ass bastards who get hooked up with stateside shore duty for 4 years.
They dont accomplish anything, and piss&moan about how poorly the Navy treats them. FVCK OFF, YOU SORRY BASTARDS!

The purpose of the Navy is prompt and sustained combat operations at sea. If you arent doing that then STFU.

Incidentally, in order to be truly qualified as a Veteran, you need to have at least 4 years and get out with an Honorable.
Not a General. Not an Administrative.
Not a General under Honorable conditions and damn sure not a General under Less than Honorable conditions.
An Honorable.
Preferably with an RE-1 code.

(Sorry for the rant. I chipped paint for 3 years before I had to earn my way into the Advanced Electronics Program. WAAY too many weaklings in Combat Systems and I used to get ticked off with them.)
 
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Originally posted by: shortylickens
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
He ended up on an aircraft carrier off of japan. He never saw combat, or was ever within 8,000 miles of it. He constantly bitched while in the navy about how bad it sucked.

Sorry man, but I have to agree with the other folks here.
Your bud is a LOSER.

I did 9 years. The people who complain the most about the Navy are the ones who have it too easy anyway.
This is especially bad with the sorry-ass bastards who get hooked up with stateside shore duty for 4 years.
They dont accomplish anything, and piss&moan about how poorly the Navy treats them. FVCK OFF, YOU SORRY BASTARDS!

The purpose of the Navy is prompt and sustained combat operations at sea. If you arent doing that then STFU.

Incidentally, in order to be truly qualified as a Veteran, you need to have at least 4 years and get out with an Honorable.
Not a General. Not an Administrative.
Not a General under Honorable conditions and damn sure not a General under Less than Honorable conditions.
An Honorable.
Preferably with an RE-1 code.

(Sorry for the rant. I chipped paint for 3 years before I had to earn my way into the Advanced Electronics Program. WAAY too many weaklings in Combat Systems and I used to get ticked off with them.)

That's something I encountered a lot when I was in. You're certainly entitled to your opinion of course. I tended to chalk it up to anger/bitterness because some people were too foolish not to come into a rate that offered supreme advancement or to be first in every class they entered in order to get picked up on an admiral's staff and have an easy time of it. People who think it requires suffering to accomplish something generally just aren't clever enough to do it faster/easier/better.
 
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Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
OP's friend is definitely questionable in character. But he served so he IS a vet. Even if he was just running away from a GF and went kicking and screaming all the way... He's still a vet.




Not all vets are Audie Murphy.

Agreed.

<----------- 6-year Air Force vet with an Honorable discharge who sure as hell ain't Audie Murphy
 

BoomerD

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Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
OP's friend is definitely questionable in character. But he served so he IS a vet. Even if he was just running away from a GF and went kicking and screaming all the way... He's still a vet.




Not all vets are Audie Murphy.

Agreed.

<----------- 6-year Air Force vet with an Honorable discharge who sure as hell ain't Audie Murphy


Lots of people out there who meet the legal description of VETERAN who aren't exactly "salt of the earth" kinds of humans. Hell, the jails and prisons of America are full of them, as are the homeless shelters. Doesn't diminish the service they gave America, nor does it make them lesser human beings.
 

Thraxen

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
I did 9 years. The people who complain the most about the Navy are the ones who have it too easy anyway.
This is especially bad with the sorry-ass bastards who get hooked up with stateside shore duty for 4 years.
They dont accomplish anything, and piss&moan about how poorly the Navy treats them. FVCK OFF, YOU SORRY BASTARDS!

The purpose of the Navy is prompt and sustained combat operations at sea. If you arent doing that then STFU.

Umm... what exactly are you saying there? I hope you aren't saying that working at a Naval base instead of a ship doesn't count.

 

shortylickens

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In response to the two folks who disagree with my opinion.

I did not say suffering is REQUIRED. That would be foolish and a little wasteful at times. What I am saying is: Folks who skate out of everything tough and are so-called "clever" enough to avoid real leadership and subordinateship, are very useful individuals.
Outside the military.

We dont need skaters inside. It just makes things more difficult for the rest of us. Particularily so when they do 1/3rd the work and get 3 times the credit.
I have met many, many people who defended themselves with the same argument PrinceofWands used. If you feel good about other people doing your PM checks while you screw around all day claiming to work on the Navy Ball or doing CMS inventory, then good on you. The rest of us will be taking care of the work that gets the Navy mission accomplished.

And before anyone says I dont know WTF I'm talking about, I did the Navy Ball several years in a row. Its a big fast waste of time if you spend more than 3 hours a week on it, at least for the 6 months prior. The week before needs a lot of effort, but thats usually when the entire command gets voluntold to help because the poor Navy Ball Commitee just couldnt get it done it time.
Same for CMS inventory. That takes about 10 mintutes at NCTS Iceland, once a week. It does not 3 hours every day.

And I am not saying working at a Naval Base doesnt count. I said that the people who arent on deployment working 36 hours at a time need to be a lot more grateful of their position and stop complaining.
But the problem is the american military is mostly full of americans. And we, (as a society) are a little too used to the easy life. Less willing to endure hardship and expect too much reward for our work day.

Before anybody calls me a slave-driver, that last line was taken directly from the Navy Times. Apparently, there are many chiefs and officers who think the exact same thing.
 
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Originally posted by: shortylickens
In response to the two folks who disagree with my opinion.

I did not say suffering is REQUIRED. That would be foolish and a little wasteful at times. What I am saying is: Folks who skate out of everything tough and are so-called "clever" enough to avoid real leadership and subordinateship, are very useful individuals.
Outside the military.

We dont need skaters inside. It just makes things more difficult for the rest of us. Particularily so when they do 1/3rd the work and get 3 times the credit.
I have met many, many people who defended themselves with the same argument PrinceofWands used. If you feel good about other people doing your PM checks while you screw around all day claiming to work on the Navy Ball or doing CMS inventory, then good on you. The rest of us will be taking care of the work that gets the Navy mission accomplished.

And before anyone says I dont know WTF I'm talking about, I did the Navy Ball several years in a row. Its a big fast waste of time if you spend more than 3 hours a week on it, at least for the 6 months prior. The week before needs a lot of effort, but thats usually when the entire command gets voluntold to help because the poor Navy Ball Commitee just couldnt get it done it time.
Same for CMS inventory. That takes about 10 mintutes at NCTS Iceland, once a week. It does not 3 hours every day.

And I am not saying working at a Naval Base doesnt count. I said that the people who arent on deployment working 36 hours at a time need to be a lot more grateful of their position and stop complaining.
But the problem is the american military is mostly full of americans. And we, (as a society) are a little too used to the easy life. Less willing to endure hardship and expect too much reward for our work day.

Before anybody calls me a slave-driver, that last line was taken directly from the Navy Times. Apparently, there are many chiefs and officers who think the exact same thing.

I'd say the bias is yours. You assume that the only 'real' work is what you think it is. You assume that there is no 'leadership' or whatever outside of the limited scope of experience you have. Seeing that I worked for the Commander of Naval Surface Forces for the Atlantic Fleet I'd say I was in a pretty good position to view 'leadership' first hand. Seeing as I advanced to petty officer from E1 in less than six months I'd say the military agreed.

You allow for no middle ground between scraping the sides of ship and prancing around working parties. That shows your ignorance, not mine. Without administrative, intelligence, and support staff the rest of fleet is a bunch of directionless puppets on a pleasure cruise. You'll notice that most high-ranking (read important) members of the military serve at bases, and in DC. That suggests that you put people where they'll do the most good. Putting someone with exceptional administrative skills on the side of ship with a scraper is what would hinder the military mission.

I actually don't believe most of that. I fear and respect a ship's captain far more than I do most administrative admirals. What I was doing was making a valid point. As to the rest:

There's a big difference between standing up for rights and principles, and being a complainer. There's also a big similarity between working hard on a ship, and working hard anywhere else. If you're focused on your job and working 36 hours straight, then that's what you're doing - location is largely irrelevant (unless you're under fire of course).

I could (and would) also argue that the problem with America is not people who are unwilling to work hard to accomplish a mission, but instead people who are willing to simply do what they're told and not consider the morality and/or neccessity of those greater actions.
 

shortylickens

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Originally posted by: PrinceofWands
I'd say the bias is yours. You assume that the only 'real' work is what you think it is. You assume that there is no 'leadership' or whatever outside of the limited scope of experience you have. Seeing that I worked for the Commander of Naval Surface Forces for the Atlantic Fleet I'd say I was in a pretty good position to view 'leadership' first hand. Seeing as I advanced to petty officer from E1 in less than six months I'd say the military agreed.

You allow for no middle ground between scraping the sides of ship and prancing around working parties. That shows your ignorance, not mine. Without administrative, intelligence, and support staff the rest of fleet is a bunch of directionless puppets on a pleasure cruise. You'll notice that most high-ranking (read important) members of the military serve at bases, and in DC. That suggests that you put people where they'll do the most good. Putting someone with exceptional administrative skills on the side of ship with a scraper is what would hinder the military mission.

I actually don't believe most of that. I fear and respect a ship's captain far more than I do most administrative admirals. What I was doing was making a valid point. As to the rest:

There's a big difference between standing up for rights and principles, and being a complainer. There's also a big similarity between working hard on a ship, and working hard anywhere else. If you're focused on your job and working 36 hours straight, then that's what you're doing - location is largely irrelevant (unless you're under fire of course).

I could (and would) also argue that the problem with America is not people who are unwilling to work hard to accomplish a mission, but instead people who are willing to simply do what they're told and not consider the morality and/or neccessity of those greater actions.
I spent the past couple days trying to find an article on weapons in the UK. One of the posters talked to me in much the same way you have. Couldnt find it because of the search issues we seem to be having, but I seem to recall the basis of my response.

Your only arguments left are clinging to the esteemed office of which you had no real influence and also, making up weaknesses for me out of thin air and then attacking them. You say I have limited scope when I got work with snotty little bitches like yourself, as well as the surface, air, sub, supply, intelligence and C&C aspect of the Navy.
You see, I didnt just chip paint, after getting into the ET field I got to work with all kinds of people for many different reasons.
Based on your responses you know nothing of real leadership, but because you got to meet flag officers and CO's of various types you assume you know more than the average sailor.
And the "MILITARY" did not agree with you making petty officer in less than 6 months. We all know how bunked up the Navy advancement system is, particularily with regards to staff positions. Pull your head out of your ass. It doesnt look professional for seaman and airman to be serving cushy little staff duty, or so I've been told. And I got to deal with plenty of you folks before, not that I relished it. I know the arrogance involved when the little people get to rub shoulders with the brass. Hell, I saw plenty of such arrogance even when folks didnt have much of that experience. Your derisive attitude is a classic example of such feelings.

Again, going back to your style of argument: making up arguments for me so you can have something to attack.
I allowed for plenty of middle ground. I only said people should complain less. And its always the people on base with high-ranking members who consider themselves to be important. (You'll notice I didnt put words into your mouth, you actually said that.)
As far as putting someone with good admin skills on the side of a ship, well, it happened all the time. Which shows your actual ignorance as opposed to my accused ignorance.
Again I suspect you spent a little too much time with folks telling you that you were hot stuff. Testiment to the arrogance you've already displayed thus far. The military mission has constantly been hindered by giving people the wrong billets. I find it only slightly amusing that you think you really were special. ANYBODY can push paper in the military. Everytime we had some poor baby who didnt like chipping paint and birdnesting mooring lines, they would send him down to the office, and he would do just fine.
But eventually those guys would have a nervous breakdown from not seeing their girlfriends and deck department would shrink too much. You know what would happen when we had to send down some crusty, 4 year deck ape?
He would do even BETTER. Because the work ethic was better, and the work wasnt that bad. (And yes, I saw the same thing as an ET in the comm community, and aviation, and working with sub guys, and supply, and even the strategic and tactical community.)

As far as questioning the morality of your actions, that comment leads me straight to believe you never really worked for the LANTFLT staff. I know darn well they dont want anyone, particularily junior enlisted, questioning the morality of their decisions. It is not a democratic system. It only exists to protect democracy.

You are exactly the kind of sorry sailor I was complaining about earlier. You have to use bully tactics and when you cant find the weaknesses or poor arguments you need to counter, you make them up. You are weak and useless and justify your existence in the military with BS.
You would make an excellent lawyer someday, and I dont mean that as a compliment.

Thanks very much for your patience while I worked on a coherent post.
 

BillyBatson

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yes he is a veteran. sure he was not a perfect soldier but he still served and he did do work the entire time he was enlisted except while serving time in the brig.

i was in the Air Force and HATED it!!!!!!! HATED! yeah i bitched a lot, drank, partied, and didn't always do my job 100% of my abilities but neither did almsot everyone else i worked with. I even got out after only 2.5 years because the AF was over manned and they had an application you could fill out and if the job you were in was not under manned you could be accepted for early out and i was. I never got in trouble like your friend though and everyone liked me. I worked for 2.5 years, made a lot of sacrafices such as being away from home, family, friends, relationships, freedoms, trips, weekends sitting at home watching tv, etc. I did go to Iraq though. I have been out 1.5 years now and considered a Veteran. BOOYA!
 
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Originally posted by: shortylickens
Originally posted by: PrinceofWands
I'd say the bias is yours. You assume that the only 'real' work is what you think it is. You assume that there is no 'leadership' or whatever outside of the limited scope of experience you have. Seeing that I worked for the Commander of Naval Surface Forces for the Atlantic Fleet I'd say I was in a pretty good position to view 'leadership' first hand. Seeing as I advanced to petty officer from E1 in less than six months I'd say the military agreed.

You allow for no middle ground between scraping the sides of ship and prancing around working parties. That shows your ignorance, not mine. Without administrative, intelligence, and support staff the rest of fleet is a bunch of directionless puppets on a pleasure cruise. You'll notice that most high-ranking (read important) members of the military serve at bases, and in DC. That suggests that you put people where they'll do the most good. Putting someone with exceptional administrative skills on the side of ship with a scraper is what would hinder the military mission.

I actually don't believe most of that. I fear and respect a ship's captain far more than I do most administrative admirals. What I was doing was making a valid point. As to the rest:

There's a big difference between standing up for rights and principles, and being a complainer. There's also a big similarity between working hard on a ship, and working hard anywhere else. If you're focused on your job and working 36 hours straight, then that's what you're doing - location is largely irrelevant (unless you're under fire of course).

I could (and would) also argue that the problem with America is not people who are unwilling to work hard to accomplish a mission, but instead people who are willing to simply do what they're told and not consider the morality and/or neccessity of those greater actions.
I spent the past couple days trying to find an article on weapons in the UK. One of the posters talked to me in much the same way you have. Couldnt find it because of the search issues we seem to be having, but I seem to recall the basis of my response.

Your only arguments left are clinging to the esteemed office of which you had no real influence and also, making up weaknesses for me out of thin air and then attacking them. You say I have limited scope when I got work with snotty little bitches like yourself, as well as the surface, air, sub, supply, intelligence and C&C aspect of the Navy.
You see, I didnt just chip paint, after getting into the ET field I got to work with all kinds of people for many different reasons.
Based on your responses you know nothing of real leadership, but because you got to meet flag officers and CO's of various types you assume you know more than the average sailor.
And the "MILITARY" did not agree with you making petty officer in less than 6 months. We all know how bunked up the Navy advancement system is, particularily with regards to staff positions. Pull your head out of your ass. It doesnt look professional for seaman and airman to be serving cushy little staff duty, or so I've been told. And I got to deal with plenty of you folks before, not that I relished it. I know the arrogance involved when the little people get to rub shoulders with the brass. Hell, I saw plenty of such arrogance even when folks didnt have much of that experience. Your derisive attitude is a classic example of such feelings.

Again, going back to your style of argument: making up arguments for me so you can have something to attack.
I allowed for plenty of middle ground. I only said people should complain less. And its always the people on base with high-ranking members who consider themselves to be important. (You'll notice I didnt put words into your mouth, you actually said that.)
As far as putting someone with good admin skills on the side of a ship, well, it happened all the time. Which shows your actual ignorance as opposed to my accused ignorance.
Again I suspect you spent a little too much time with folks telling you that you were hot stuff. Testiment to the arrogance you've already displayed thus far. The military mission has constantly been hindered by giving people the wrong billets. I find it only slightly amusing that you think you really were special. ANYBODY can push paper in the military. Everytime we had some poor baby who didnt like chipping paint and birdnesting mooring lines, they would send him down to the office, and he would do just fine.
But eventually those guys would have a nervous breakdown from not seeing their girlfriends and deck department would shrink too much. You know what would happen when we had to send down some crusty, 4 year deck ape?
He would do even BETTER. Because the work ethic was better, and the work wasnt that bad. (And yes, I saw the same thing as an ET in the comm community, and aviation, and working with sub guys, and supply, and even the strategic and tactical community.)

As far as questioning the morality of your actions, that comment leads me straight to believe you never really worked for the LANTFLT staff. I know darn well they dont want anyone, particularily junior enlisted, questioning the morality of their decisions. It is not a democratic system. It only exists to protect democracy.

You are exactly the kind of sorry sailor I was complaining about earlier. You have to use bully tactics and when you cant find the weaknesses or poor arguments you need to counter, you make them up. You are weak and useless and justify your existence in the military with BS.
You would make an excellent lawyer someday, and I dont mean that as a compliment.

Thanks very much for your patience while I worked on a coherent post.

As I said, I think it comes down to perceptions and experiences. There really is no 'right answer' of course, but it's always fun to discuss differing viewpoints. Everything I say supports your opinions- in your views. Everything you say supports my opinions - in my view. *shrug* That's about as solid of a debate ender as it's possible to imagine.

Of course they were irritated with me at CNSL, that's why I faced so much potential disciplinary action (as I already mentioned). Their irritation never resulted in actual punitive actions against me however, and never slowed my advancement nor inhibited my accomplishments. I think my 'saving grace' was that it was a flag command, where most of the staff had exceptional education and experience. This allowed them to see my positions for what they were, and not merely an irritant to be swept aside. I had many long and productive conversations/debates with the Master Chief especially, and various other command officers/staff. It provided understanding of each other's positions which (I believe) kept me protected from any real harm. It also helped greatly that I came in at a time of transition - TQL/TQM was taking root, Tailhook had the old fogies running scared, BRAC was inflicting reality over the decrepit legacy military, etc.

I could never be a lawyer because I believe in justice more than law, though I appreciate the inference to reason and debate ability (rather intended or not). :cool:

Peace man.
 

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A veteran is a veteran - he at least had the guts to sign up, make it through basic and enter active duty. He may be a piece of sh|t, but he's a piece of sh|t veteran.
 

DougK62

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He once served in the military. That's the definition of 'veteran' in the military sense.

 

Thraxen

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
Again I suspect you spent a little too much time with folks telling you that you were hot stuff. Testiment to the arrogance you've already displayed thus far. The military mission has constantly been hindered by giving people the wrong billets. I find it only slightly amusing that you think you really were special. ANYBODY can push paper in the military. Everytime we had some poor baby who didnt like chipping paint and birdnesting mooring lines, they would send him down to the office, and he would do just fine.
But eventually those guys would have a nervous breakdown from not seeing their girlfriends and deck department would shrink too much. You know what would happen when we had to send down some crusty, 4 year deck ape?
He would do even BETTER. Because the work ethic was better, and the work wasnt that bad. (And yes, I saw the same thing as an ET in the comm community, and aviation, and working with sub guys, and supply, and even the strategic and tactical community.)

My main problem with your viewpoint is that you seem to think anybody not on a ship is "pushing paper". My sister is in the Navy and is an air traffic controller at a naval base. Hardly "pushing paper" and not a job you can send any "deck ape" to do.