Would you bring a 1st date over to a friends BBQ?

[JEDI]

That's exactly what an aquaintance of mine did. (no idea how close he was w/the person throwing the bbq.)

She was slightly above avg. I've seen him with better.

everyone was polite and stuff, but i just thought it was strange u would bring a girl to a bbq where lots of your friends are there as a place for your 1st date.

What do you think?

 

[iamaelephant]

Why not? Most of the time people tend to meet their SO in social environments like that anyway. I don't see a problem with it. Although I will admit that the whole "dating" culture in USA is very different to how things work around here.

 

[pulse8]

A girl seeing you getting along with a group of really good friends can be a turn on. It shows her a lot about who you are as a person.

 

[Howard]

I would not.

 

[WildHorse]

Yes I would.

Mellowing out with friends is a nice environment to depressurize the get-acquainted thing.

 

[sniperruff]

no. it'd be too weird for her to meet a bunch of strangers all at the same time.

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: sniperruff
no. it'd be too weird for her to meet a bunch of strangers all at the same time.

yup, exactly what i thought

 

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: sniperruff
no. it'd be too weird for her to meet a bunch of strangers all at the same time.

yep. maybe for a third date.

 

[fs5]

Originally posted by: JEDI

Originally posted by: sniperruff
no. it'd be too weird for her to meet a bunch of strangers all at the same time.

yup, exactly what i thought

yeah but you get free food = free date! woo hoo.

 

[jme5343]

Originally posted by: fs5

Originally posted by: JEDI

Originally posted by: sniperruff
no. it'd be too weird for her to meet a bunch of strangers all at the same time.

yup, exactly what i thought

yeah but you get free food = free date! woo hoo.

LOL.

 

[Rock Hydra]

Hell yeah, bring her over to check out your friends! Whoo!

 

[erub]

sure why not, as long as you give her enough attention (without being clingy) and don't leave her completely alone with strangers..thats just unfair..i've brought a few girls as first dates to frat parties, which are probably much more intimidating than a BBQ..but if she can't handle herself socially, its not going to work out with us