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SP33Demon

Lifer
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Crucify the guy and hang him up for all to see in her church.









j/k j/k

But you should really have a talk with her and let her know that it makes you uncomfortable that she's talking to this guy and he's out buying her stuff. Once you get past that, take her to a hotel with roses/candles (go all out) and get some chitty chitty, that'll show her how much better than Mr.Tool you are. Win her back with affection, not anger... also, maybe write her a poem or something sappy that you know she'll like. Gotta reinforce the foundation man, so when Mr.Tool comes with TNT it'll be too thick to blast.
 

shiner

Lifer
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Eh.....

Did she fvck him? If not do you think she will?


If the answer to either is yes then you need to go ahead and move on.

Tap it one last time then kick it to the curb.
 

Doboji

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My thoughts are... if you feel these pangs of jealousy they're well founded.... There's more to this than a couple drinks, or she would have been able to explain it in a way to alleviate your concern.

Trust your instincts, be honest tell her how you feel... and if you don't feel comfortable with her going out with this guy... insist on going along... tell her you're anxious to meet him.

-Max
 

Megadeth

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Crucify the guy and hang him up for all to see in her church.









j/k j/k

But you should really have a talk with her and let her know that it makes you uncomfortable that she's talking to this guy and he's out buying her stuff. Once you get past that, take her to a hotel with roses/candles (go all out) and get some chitty chitty, that'll show her how much better than Mr.Tool you are. Win her back with affection, not anger... also, maybe write her a poem or something sappy that you know she'll like. Gotta reinforce the foundation man, so when Mr.Tool comes with TNT it'll be too thick to blast.


Doesnt always work.... Sometimes if the woman really want to go for another man... Then I don't think there is much you can do to hold on to her... I hope for your sake that your gf is erally not interested in this guy, and I hope she makes it clear to him.
 

Doboji

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your gf is young. she is going to do many many things that upset you. one day you may find out that a week, a month, a year ago, she cheated on you. accept it. don't be obsessive, it will never work out to your satisfaction. happened to me when I was in college. older guy comes into the picture momentarily, then found out a whole year later what happened.

See that would not be ok with me... I would dump the ho on the spot...

-Max
 

sillymofo

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Sorry dude, I didn't know you'd be this upset. All I wanted was some freaking icecream........ on her bewbies. ;)



On a serious note, I know that every guy that's my gf's "friend" wants to get with her, and I do let them take her take her out. More time for me to frag, and besides, you have to know yourself, and know that the other guys aren't measuring up to you, in any ways. And the good thing is, she knows this too, so I never have to worry about her fcuking up. If she does, then it's asta la bye bye (not only that, I trust her more than that).
 

IHYLN

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look on the bright side, now's that perfect chance for the threesome you've always wanted.
 

SP33Demon

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Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Sorry dude, I didn't know you'd be this upset. All I wanted was some freaking icecream........ on her bewbies. ;)



On a serious note, I know that every guy that's my gf's "friend" wants to get with her, and I do let them take her take her out. More time for me to frag, and besides, you have to know yourself, and know that the other guys aren't measuring up to you, in any ways. And the good thing is, she knows this too, so I never have to worry about her fcuking up. If she does, then it's asta la bye bye (not only that, I trust her more than that).
You let other guys take your chick out to dinner, one on one? AND you know they all want to rod and reel her in? We might be seeing a YAGT from you in the future...
 

IHYLN

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er we're all desensitized by Red's "YAGT" threads. Pecho on his woman's taco almost sounds like a menu item.
 

sillymofo

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Sorry dude, I didn't know you'd be this upset. All I wanted was some freaking icecream........ on her bewbies. ;)



On a serious note, I know that every guy that's my gf's "friend" wants to get with her, and I do let them take her take her out. More time for me to frag, and besides, you have to know yourself, and know that the other guys aren't measuring up to you, in any ways. And the good thing is, she knows this too, so I never have to worry about her fcuking up. If she does, then it's asta la bye bye (not only that, I trust her more than that).
You let other guys take your chick out to dinner, one on one? AND you know they all want to rod and reel her in? We might be seeing a YAGT from you in the future...
The only YAGT you'll ever see from me would be titled:

YAGT... check out this new "rack" + Pix :shocked::shocked::shocked:
 

memo

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I would have said something along the lines of trying to meet this guy to see what his intentions are. My girlfriend goes out with Church guys sometimes but they are all do-gooders, so I'm not worried. Plus it's usually in big groups, so thats a big difference. BUT, when he said that he likes how you let him go out with him, that just points to the fact that he thinks you're easy going with the girl, in my opinion.
 

SP33Demon

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Jun 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Sorry dude, I didn't know you'd be this upset. All I wanted was some freaking icecream........ on her bewbies. ;)



On a serious note, I know that every guy that's my gf's "friend" wants to get with her, and I do let them take her take her out. More time for me to frag, and besides, you have to know yourself, and know that the other guys aren't measuring up to you, in any ways. And the good thing is, she knows this too, so I never have to worry about her fcuking up. If she does, then it's asta la bye bye (not only that, I trust her more than that).
You let other guys take your chick out to dinner, one on one? AND you know they all want to rod and reel her in? We might be seeing a YAGT from you in the future...
The only YAGT you'll ever see from me would be titled:

YAGT... check out this new "rack" + Pix :shocked::shocked::shocked:
Only if your name is Acer... ;)
 

Lazy8s

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one time my g/f was gonna go hang out with this guy she told me she used to have a crush on for a long arse time so I got her kinda tipsy we hopped on the good foot and did the bad thing the night before she went but I gave her a HUGE arse hickey just below her left ear for all to see....worked like a freakin charm, about 45min into their dinner he was like "well it's been nice seeing you but I have a date in a few so I gotta go" and din't hit on her the whole time. Call me cheap but it worked =D
 

xirtam

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Not all guys go out for coffee or ice cream with girls because they want to have sex with them. In fact, I haven't had sex with any of the girls I've taken to movies, for ice cream, or for coffee.

I go out with girls who have boyfriends a lot... as friends. If you respect her as a person, you're going to also respect the fact that she has a boyfriend and not do anything that you wouldn't do if he were there with her.

So... it wouldn't upset me. I'd just have to have faith in my girlfriend's ability to choose her friends wisely, and I'd have to make sure I'm sensitive to what's going on in her life. I guess I'm just not that possessive of people though... some boyfriends are. I was trying to get the phone number of this girl who worked at an ice cream shop one time, but she wouldn't give it to me because she had a boyfriend. Now that's a lack of freedom. If her boyfriend has to confirm everybody who has her phone number, he must not have any time for her because he'll have to be calling all the numbers in the white pages.

We live in a social world, not a world made for two.
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: Lazy8s
one time my g/f was gonna go hang out with this guy she told me she used to have a crush on for a long arse time so I got her kinda tipsy we hopped on the good foot and did the bad thing the night before she went but I gave her a HUGE arse hickey just below her left ear for all to see....worked like a freakin charm, about 45min into their dinner he was like "well it's been nice seeing you but I have a date in a few so I gotta go" and din't hit on her the whole time. Call me cheap but it worked =D

:beer::D:beer:

Good one!


As far as the OP is concerned, I'd be pretty fscking suspicious of this whole thing, especially the part where she conveniently forgets to mention this guy is 7 years older. Could be it's entirely innocent, but if my wife wanted to go out with some guy I didn't know, I'd definitely be wondering just WTF that was all about.
 

azazyel

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Originally posted by: Lazy8s
one time my g/f was gonna go hang out with this guy she told me she used to have a crush on for a long arse time so I got her kinda tipsy we hopped on the good foot and did the bad thing the night before she went but I gave her a HUGE arse hickey just below her left ear for all to see....worked like a freakin charm, about 45min into their dinner he was like "well it's been nice seeing you but I have a date in a few so I gotta go" and din't hit on her the whole time. Call me cheap but it worked =D

A hickey? What are you 12? That has to be the most asinine thing I have ever heard. I hope she dumped your arse after that. Reminds me of the commercial where the guy licks the door handle of the VW.
 

Megadeth

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Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
one time my g/f was gonna go hang out with this guy she told me she used to have a crush on for a long arse time so I got her kinda tipsy we hopped on the good foot and did the bad thing the night before she went but I gave her a HUGE arse hickey just below her left ear for all to see....worked like a freakin charm, about 45min into their dinner he was like "well it's been nice seeing you but I have a date in a few so I gotta go" and din't hit on her the whole time. Call me cheap but it worked =D

:beer::D:beer:

Good one!


As far as the OP is concerned, I'd be pretty fscking suspicious of this whole thing, especially the part where she conveniently forgets to mention this guy is 7 years older. Could be it's entirely innocent, but if my wife wanted to go out with some guy I didn't know, I'd definitely be wondering just WTF that was all about.


Especially some guy you don't know.... Not that it always matters.
The worst thing you can do is worry about it.. It will eat you up inside. If something is happening between them then you know that you belong with someone else, I know that a harsh reality.....

If you trust her and beleive her when she says nothing is going on then you have nothing to worry about right.
 

Lazy8s

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Originally posted by: azazyel
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
one time my g/f was gonna go hang out with this guy she told me she used to have a crush on for a long arse time so I got her kinda tipsy we hopped on the good foot and did the bad thing the night before she went but I gave her a HUGE arse hickey just below her left ear for all to see....worked like a freakin charm, about 45min into their dinner he was like "well it's been nice seeing you but I have a date in a few so I gotta go" and din't hit on her the whole time. Call me cheap but it worked =D

A hickey? What are you 12? That has to be the most asinine thing I have ever heard. I hope she dumped your arse after that. Reminds me of the commercial where the guy licks the door handle of the VW.

Whatever happened to all's fair in love and war? and actually I was 17 and I thought it was pretty damn hilarious, hell I still do. good tactics? I dunno but I still get a laugh.
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: xirtam
I was trying to get the phone number of this girl who worked at an ice cream shop one time, but she wouldn't give it to me because she had a boyfriend. Now that's a lack of freedom. If her boyfriend has to confirm everybody who has her phone number, he must not have any time for her because he'll have to be calling all the numbers in the white pages.

1. Good chance she was just using having a boyfriend as an excuse to not giver her number to some stranger at an ice cream shop. She may not even have had a boyfriend.

2. Maybe her boyfriend doesn't actually care, but she made the obvious assumption (whether correct or not) that you didn't want to just gab about nail polish colors for a couple hours, and felt that her boyfriend would be upset knowing that she willingly gave her number out to a guy who was hitting on her.
 

sillymofo

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Sorry dude, I didn't know you'd be this upset. All I wanted was some freaking icecream........ on her bewbies. ;)



On a serious note, I know that every guy that's my gf's "friend" wants to get with her, and I do let them take her take her out. More time for me to frag, and besides, you have to know yourself, and know that the other guys aren't measuring up to you, in any ways. And the good thing is, she knows this too, so I never have to worry about her fcuking up. If she does, then it's asta la bye bye (not only that, I trust her more than that).
You let other guys take your chick out to dinner, one on one? AND you know they all want to rod and reel her in? We might be seeing a YAGT from you in the future...
The only YAGT you'll ever see from me would be titled:

YAGT... check out this new "rack" + Pix :shocked::shocked::shocked:
Only if your name is Acer... ;)
No, but will this do?
 

SP33Demon

Lifer
Jun 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: xirtam
Not all guys go out for coffee or ice cream with girls because they want to have sex with them. In fact, I haven't had sex with any of the girls I've taken to movies, for ice cream, or for coffee.

I go out with girls who have boyfriends a lot... as friends. If you respect her as a person, you're going to also respect the fact that she has a boyfriend and not do anything that you wouldn't do if he were there with her.

So... it wouldn't upset me. I'd just have to have faith in my girlfriend's ability to choose her friends wisely, and I'd have to make sure I'm sensitive to what's going on in her life. I guess I'm just not that possessive of people though... some boyfriends are. I was trying to get the phone number of this girl who worked at an ice cream shop one time, but she wouldn't give it to me because she had a boyfriend. Now that's a lack of freedom. If her boyfriend has to confirm everybody who has her phone number, he must not have any time for her because he'll have to be calling all the numbers in the white pages.

We live in a social world, not a world made for two.
Let me guess, you've never had a g/f so you have to hang out with other people's. It's all so clear now!
 

glen

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Why in the hell does it matter what the guy's intentions are?
If your girl is that great, maybe he does want to hit it.
So, what?
I woudl be more worried if he didn't want to.
What matters is what teh girl thinks.
She can make the call.
Just date girls who are confident and won't cheat on you.