Would you avoid introducing someone with a low paying job to your coworkers/friends?

vital

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I'm dating this chick who graduated w/ a Psychology degree but didn't go for her Masters so her degree is pretty much worthless. She's just working as an assistant at a clinic and it's not even related to her field. I didn't ask how much she was making but I'm sure it's not much. So do do you avoid introducing girls that aren't par w/ your peers or coworkers career-wise given the fact that they have a degree?
 

chrisms

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You are a jackass. Tell the girl this so she can stop seeing you immediately.
 

91TTZ

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Originally posted by: vital
I'm dating this chick who graduated w/ a Psychology degree but didn't go for her Masters so her degree is pretty much worthless. She's just working as an assistant at a clinic and it's not even related to her field. I didn't ask how much she was making but I'm sure it's not much. So do do you avoid introducing girls that aren't par w/ your peers or coworkers career-wise given the fact that they have a degree?

What kind of shallow person are you?

Is the girl smart? Are you smart?

I see young people nowadays putting so much emphasis on paper and superficial things, and they completely ignore the content of one's character. The end result is a hollow shell of a human being that must rely on a piece of paper hanging on their wall to prove that they're worth something.
 

SsupernovaE

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What kind of a question is this? Would you like for someone superior to you to never associate with you?
 

Special K

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This thread could get interesting if it continues, given all of the replies in another thread claiming that money can in fact buy complete happiness.
 

waggy

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nope. i don't base my friendship or such on how much a person makes.
 

spidey07

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Reminds me of a chump friend I had (no longer friends with him of course because he's a douche)...

He was dating a secretary and he was a manager. After about 2 months of dating he told her she was prefect but he wanted somebody more in line with his financial aspects.

she showed him her paycheck and told him to leave immediately. Turns out she was making twice what he was. LOL!
 

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Originally posted by: vital
I'm dating this chick who graduated w/ a Psychology degree but didn't go for her Masters so her degree is pretty much worthless. She's just working as an assistant at a clinic and it's not even related to her field. I didn't ask how much she was making but I'm sure it's not much. So do do you avoid introducing girls that aren't par w/ your peers or coworkers career-wise given the fact that they have a degree?

Let her go, a loser like you should not have a girl, EVER, if you are conscious about what your co workers are thinking about your girl, then you are totally fvcked in the head, a relationship is between who it is, the rest of the world can pretty much just accpt it or not, and you won't care...

That is, when you grow into a man, i doubt you ever will though.
 

vital

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Sorry I didn't explain myself better. I don't have a problem w/ what she does. But from past experience she seems like she doesn't feel comfortable w/ my friends because they'll be like "I' an analyst, teacher, programmer, dentist, etc" The last time we were hanging out and a coworker asked her what she did, and she just said "i don't work." I just dont want her to feel uncomfortable around my friends.
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: vital
Sorry I didn't explain myself better. I don't have a problem w/ what she does. But from past experience she seems like she doesn't feel comfortable w/ my friends because they'll be like "I' an analyst, teacher, programmer, dentist, etc" The last time we were hanging out and a coworker asked her what she did, and she just said "i don't work." I just dont want her to feel uncomfortable around my friends.

Sounds like your friends are just as bad as you.
 

vital

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: vital
Sorry I didn't explain myself better. I don't have a problem w/ what she does. But from past experience she seems like she doesn't feel comfortable w/ my friends because they'll be like "I' an analyst, teacher, programmer, dentist, etc" The last time we were hanging out and a coworker asked her what she did, and she just said "i don't work." I just dont want her to feel uncomfortable around my friends.

Sounds like your friends are just as bad as you.

What's wrong w/ asking someone what they do?
 

skyking

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: vital
Sorry I didn't explain myself better. I don't have a problem w/ what she does. But from past experience she seems like she doesn't feel comfortable w/ my friends because they'll be like "I' an analyst, teacher, programmer, dentist, etc" The last time we were hanging out and a coworker asked her what she did, and she just said "i don't work." I just dont want her to feel uncomfortable around my friends.

Sounds like your friends are just as bad as you.

sort of like, "they deserve each other"......
 

compuwiz1

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Originally posted by: Slackware
Originally posted by: vital
I'm dating this chick who graduated w/ a Psychology degree but didn't go for her Masters so her degree is pretty much worthless. She's just working as an assistant at a clinic and it's not even related to her field. I didn't ask how much she was making but I'm sure it's not much. So do do you avoid introducing girls that aren't par w/ your peers or coworkers career-wise given the fact that they have a degree?

Let her go, a loser like you should not have a girl, EVER, if you are conscious about what your co workers are thinking about your girl, then you are totally fvcked in the head, a relationship is between who it is, the rest of the world can pretty much just accpt it or not, and you won't care...

That is, when you grow into a man, i doubt you ever will though.

Not that I disagree with you, but how would you know the OP would never grow into a man, with you just having joined the forums today? You could not possibly have observed him for long enough to know this, so:
WWYBYWB?


 

vital

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Originally posted by: Slackware
Originally posted by: vital
I'm dating this chick who graduated w/ a Psychology degree but didn't go for her Masters so her degree is pretty much worthless. She's just working as an assistant at a clinic and it's not even related to her field. I didn't ask how much she was making but I'm sure it's not much. So do do you avoid introducing girls that aren't par w/ your peers or coworkers career-wise given the fact that they have a degree?

Let her go, a loser like you should not have a girl, EVER, if you are conscious about what your co workers are thinking about your girl, then you are totally fvcked in the head, a relationship is between who it is, the rest of the world can pretty much just accpt it or not, and you won't care...

That is, when you grow into a man, i doubt you ever will though.

This isn't about how I feel. I'm fine w/ what she does. I just dont want her to feel uncomfortable around other people because she lied about what she does.