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Would this annoy you?

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So my girlfriend and I met 2 years ago today and she wanted to do something with me. She inadvertantly made plans to go out with one of her friends who lives out of town.

I told her that it wasn't a problem because she never sees her friend and this isn't our actual anniversary which is on Feb. 21.

Anyway, she tells me that she's gonna meet her at 4:30 after work and go for dinner at 5. She's supposed to call me when she's done by 6 or so.

I phone her at 6 oclock just to see what's going on, and she tells me that they haven't even started dinner at the restaurant because they were "just talking".

Now this isn't a huge deal because her friend is from out of town and doesn't get to see her that often, but it's annoying because she's the one who wanted to see me and now I'm waiting around for her...
 
**my girlfriend and i 😉

i can't give you advice on t3h womenz, but i can b!tch about your grammar 😉😛
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
**my girlfriend and i 😉

i can't give you advice on t3h womenz, but i can b!tch about your grammar 😉😛
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the whole first two sentences are flawed, you can do better than that.
 
Originally posted by: Stefan
So my me and my girlfriend met 2 years ago today and she wanted to do something with me. She inadvertantly made plans to go out with one of her friends who lives out of town.

I told her that it wasn't a problem because she never sees her friend and this isn't our actual anniversary which is on Feb. 21.

Anyway, she tells me that she's gonna meet her at 4:30 after work and go for dinner at 5. She's supposed to call me when she's done by 6 or so.

I phone her at 6 oclock just to see what's going on, and she tells me that they haven't even started dinner at the restaurant because they were "just talking".

Now this isn't a huge deal because her friend is from out of town and doesn't get to see her that often, but it's annoying because she's the one who wanted to see me and now I'm waiting around for her...
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I'll tell her to leave.
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
**my girlfriend and i 😉

i can't give you advice on t3h womenz, but i can b!tch about your grammar 😉😛
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I meant to type that, but apparently I had a brain fart after the 2nd word 🙂
 
I guess for a second it would if I had a chance to make other plans with someone else.
Otherwise I wouldn't care, more time for me to play with my toys.
 
Originally posted by: Stefan
Originally posted by: neonerd
**my girlfriend and i 😉

i can't give you advice on t3h womenz, but i can b!tch about your grammar 😉😛
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I meant to type that, but apparently I had a brain fart after the 2nd word 🙂
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pffft 😛
 
I get annoyed whenever people dont make their obligations, especially when it's related to time. Pet peeze of mine
 
I hate it when that happens. They tell me to do something by some time when they can't even do their part by the deadline THEY set.
 
The real problem here is that she's stringing him along. She needs to either say "I will be home by X time, at which point we can go do whatever" or she needs to tell him that she's busy for the evening, and that he should just make his own plans. What she is doing is not fair to him, and she needs to realize that.
 
you have all night to play video games or watch tv...

tell her to bring you some food home and your night is complete.
 
She's cheating. Dump her and move on.

J/k. I don't really see the problem, it wouldn't annoy me at least. I'd just watch TV or play a video game or something.
 
If this person was that important to her, it wouldn't annoy me, I'd understand. Imagine if you were going to meet up with an old buddy, I don't think you'd be rushing home.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
The real problem here is that she's stringing him along. She needs to either say "I will be home by X time, at which point we can go do whatever" or she needs to tell him that she's busy for the evening, and that he should just make his own plans. What she is doing is not fair to him, and she needs to realize that.
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yeah, but what are the odds? my wife says "ill be back in an hour"

christ only knows why she even bothers, its usually at least 3 before i see her again. i just start doing whatever i was going to do without her. dinner, a movie, cleaning up and piling all her clothes on her side of the bed while i put all my things away so i can fuss at her when she gets home...you know...just something.
 
Get over it, like you said she doesn't get to see that person a lot. Of course they are going to talk/catch up.
 
Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
The real problem here is that she's stringing him along. She needs to either say "I will be home by X time, at which point we can go do whatever" or she needs to tell him that she's busy for the evening, and that he should just make his own plans. What she is doing is not fair to him, and she needs to realize that.
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yeah, but what are the odds? my wife says "ill be back in an hour"

christ only knows why she even bothers, its usually at least 3 before i see her again. i just start doing whatever i was going to do without her. dinner, a movie, cleaning up and piling all her clothes on her side of the bed while i put all my things away so i can fuss at her when she gets home...you know...just something.
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I'm sorry but that's completely unacceptable in my book. If my SO told me they were going out for an hour and didn't return until 3AM in the morning I wouldn't be dating them for very long.
 
Originally posted by: rsd
Get over it, like you said she doesn't get to see that person a lot. Of course they are going to talk/catch up.
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I agree.
It is one night. You told her to go. It must suck to see a friend after all this time and have to be on a schedule. You can have her back again tomorrow. Let her enjoy.

🙂

 
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