Would it be superficial or shallow if:

[skywalker66]

EDIT: Thanks for the help people,
I decided that I am worrying too much about this and dont really need the thread here, and infact having it here is gonna make me want to check these forums every 5 minutes, lol, so i deleted the text.
thanks for the replies.

 

[pulse8]

She may just not have the time to deal with a person in that situation.

Whether or not it's shallow is dependent on her motivation for removing the person from that category.

 

[conjur]

Not necessarily shallow. If she just wants a b/f who's more the Type A, like she is, to have someone to enjoy doing things with, then that's her prerogative. If she feels she'll be pulled into doing more quiet-time stuff (renting a movie, for example), then that's against her personality and I couldn't imagine that working.

 

[Electric Amish]

If she doesn't love you for what you are move on.

amish

 

[Kemosabe1447]

If it is because of the first question, about not putting him in the category becase he doesnt have many friends then it is, but if they dont share anything besides christianity then I don't think that it is that shallow.

 

[MC Webster]

Yes and yes

 

[Mr N8]

Hmmm...sounds like me and my wife. I wouldn't say she's shallow if she doesn't want to give it a change. It could work (did for me), but don't push her if she isn't interested.

 

[ThaGrandCow]

1) yes, she'd be shallow.

2) no, women want to be around like minded people. She's active, you're not. Bad news for you

 

[radioouman]

Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
1) yes, she'd be shallow.

2) no, women want to be around like minded people. She's active, you're not. Bad news for you

I agree with the cow, and I also add that (as a male) I want to be around like minded people.

 

[AstIsis]

I don't know if I would call her shallow, but it may not be right for her or for you. Some people do make it work though. My Mom is a type A and my Dad a type B...still happily married after 38 years. They have an understanding that they do not always have to do things together nor always have the same interests.

Now it would be nice if you could find a balance. You go out with her then she stays home with you.

 

[skywalker66]

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[lastig21]

If it works out it works out. If it doesn't you'll have an easier time finding something to blame. Just go with it.