Originally posted by: PG
What do you mean by weights? Let me go off on a bit of a rant here. Most people, personal trainers included, don't really have a clue when it comes to lifting weights. Walk into a Bally's type place and tell me how many squat racks they have or places to do deadlifts. I bet it's zero or maybe one squat rack and they probably don't let you do deadlifts. But they'll have at least half a dozen flat or incline benches. I don't know about most people, but I grew up on a farm and had to do a lot of manual labor. I never once had to lay on my back and bench press any weight. Ever had someone ask how much you bench once they find out you lift weights? That's someone who's ingorant. The bench press can be a good exercise, but not the most important thing in the world.
OK, how does any of this relate to you? Start doing squats and deadlifts and don't mess around. I'm not very strong or big....5'7" and 175....but I've deadlifted 365 for 2 reps. At least once a week I do 315 for about 10 or so. Little pink dumbells aren't going to do anything and don't count towards lifting weights.
Also, start eating. Maybe you are starving your body which will slow down your metalbolism and curb any possible gains. And as others have said stop with the cardio every day. Two or three days a week of lifting along with the same for cardio is all you need. The weights and cardio can be done the same day.
Here's a simple routine:
Day 1 (M) Day 2 (TH)
Overhead Press Bench Press
Squat Deadlift
Chin Row
Calf Raise Grip Work
Ab Work Ab Work
And I'm tired of people using the "I just want to tone, not bulk up" BS. Women, even men, don't just bulk up that easily. If it was easy we'd all look like Arnold.
edit: the spacing on that routine didn't work out, but you can see it
here